u/Kind_Winter_6445

My grandmother and I are planning on taking the Viking’s Grand European Cruise next year in July. She is an 81 year old woman - below average mobility. She can walk, just not for considerable distances. It has been her life long dream to do this cruise.

We will be travelling from Australia, so that will already be a considerable toll on her body.

Is this tour suitable for elderly travellers? I would be there to support her, but I would still want this trip to be worthwhile for her without requiring my support 24/7.

Any and all advice is welcome, thank you!!

I (27F) am on a self love journey currently. I’m doing a lot internally, but still really struggle to feel good externally. What are some small changes you made to feel better about your appearance?

Currently I’ve died my hair, I wear mascara every day and tint my eyebrows, but that’s it!

Totally open to any and all advice, I really want to start feeling better about myself.

I’m feeling fatigued and doubtful. I’m just not sure manifestation is real anymore.

I need some hope with some success stories that don’t feel fake. Or I need a reminder about how to approach this all.

I can’t detach. The negative thoughts are getting to me.

Can someone please help me.

I’m experiencing significant doubt and I’m just not sure I believe anymore.

Every time I read a success story I question if it’s actually true, or whether it was manifestation and not just coincidence.

I have tried to believe wholly, and make a decision and commit to the manifestation but the doubt won’t leave.

I feel exhausted and drained. I just don’t think I believe.

This might be a bit of a weird request, but I’m a baby in the manifestation world and was hoping that someone would be interested in acting as like a semi-mentor? Someone I can ask questions to etc etc.

Obviously this wouldn’t just be a one sided thing, I’d love to help wherever I can also!!

Anyone interested?

I’m just starting out in my manifestation journey, so I have a lot to learn! I think my biggest hesitation right now is the fear that I actually won’t be able to manifest my SP back and that it will hurt even more.

What if I work in my SC, work hard at manifesting my SP and I’m unsuccessful? It would devastate me.

I’m trying to keep my mind off him, but every time I go on Instagram I get constant reminders he’s moving on. It’s such a stupid thing, but when the ‘suggested for you’ option comes up on Instagram and I see he is following a new girl, it kills me. I don’t want to know, but Instagram keeps reminding me. I’ll be having a good day and then bam, Instagram decides that it’s time to see what he’s up to.

I know I should remove him so I don’t have the reminders that he is moving on, but I just can’t bring myself to do it. Part of me still thinks he will come back.. I’m trying to let him go, but I just can’t seem to..

just don’t understand how you feel nothing for me? I have all this love and affection for you, and I just genuinely don’t understand how you feel nothing. Where does the love go? Why can’t you feel the chemistry between us anymore?

I can’t understand how I still feel so deeply connected to you, and you look at me and feel nothing.

I just don’t understand how you feel nothing for me? I have all this love and affection for you, and I just genuinely don’t understand how you feel nothing. Where does the love go? Why can’t you feel the chemistry between us anymore?

I can’t understand how I still feel so deeply connected to you, and you look at me and feel nothing.

I hate that I’m waiting. It’s been 9 weeks and I think my body is starting to lose the hope. The break up feels harder; now I’m not only heartbroken, but I’m experiencing the hopelessness of realising he truly isn’t going to come back.

I don’t believe it anymore, they don’t come back.

I hate that I’m waiting. It’s been 9 weeks and I think my body is starting to lose the hope. The break up feels harder; now I’m not only heartbroken, but I’m experiencing the hopelessness of realising he truly isn’t going to come back.

I don’t believe it anymore, they don’t come back.

8 weeks into NC. Think that maybe it’s time to have a fling to help ease the pain a little.

I feel pathetic. All I’m doing is wallowing over this heartbreak and hoping he comes back to me.

I’m definitely going echo-chambering myself. Researching the power of manifestation and getting my tarot cards read. Anything that confirms that he will come back to me.

I know I’m probably just setting myself up for more heartbreak, but I just can’t let go.

8 weeks no contact. The urge to message him is only getting stronger everyday. Everyone says that time is the only thing that heals. Time isn’t working here, it feels worse.

I thought he would come back. I thought he would regret his choice and come back to me. Every day that goes by feels like more confirmation that I’m not enough for him.

He asked for space and I have respected that. Someone told me: “he must feel the weight of your absence. If that doesn’t show him much, then he would never appreciate your presence.”

I’m trying to live by these words, but it’s hard. I still have so much hope, but the hope is causing the pain.

All I want is to break no contact, but I’m scared of the answer.

Seven weeks NC.

All I think about is him coming back. I miss him so much. He’s already dating and living his life. I feel like I’m sitting here waiting.

What is wrong with me? Why am I still so hung up on someone who clearly doesn’t want me?

Seven weeks NC.

All I think about is him coming back. I miss him so much. He’s already dating and living his life. I feel like I’m sitting here waiting.

What is wrong with me? Why am I still so hung up on someone who clearly doesn’t want me?

You are my first thought in the morning and the final before I sleep. Each day is getting harder, the time isn’t healing, it’s creating an ache deeper than I knew could exist.

I miss you so much. Why was I not enough for you?

I’m over a month into no contact and I’m still thinking about my ex constantly. I’m functioning and continuing with my life, but he is the first and last thing I think about and almost every thought seems to come back to him. He ended it because he felt his feelings weren’t growing stronger.

I recently found out that he is dating again, and it has made the heartbreak and rumination much worse. I keep thinking about him talking to other women, what he might be doing, whether he misses me, and whether he’ll ever come back. I know I can’t control any of this, but I can't seem to stop my brain from going over it.

I’m not contacting him, checking his social media, or checking his followers. I’m genuinely trying to live my life, but mentally I feel completely stuck on him. He is also coming back to town tomorrow (fly in, fly out worker), which I’m worried will trigger me even more.

How did you actually break the rumination cycle after a breakup? What practical things helped you stop constantly thinking about your ex?

27, have been experiencing Vaginismus since I was a teen.

Last year, I elected to do the Botox treatment. I had spent years using dilators, numbing creams and muscle relaxant creams to no avail.

The Botox worked well on my pelvic floor, but I’m still having issues with the opening of my vagina.

My physio and gyno have both suggested Fenton’s Procedure to reduce tension.

Has anyone had this procedure? Any feedback?