u/Oddcatdog

My roommate asks me MANY times a day every single day what my plans are that day/the next day/for the weekend etc..

I asked other people and they said maybe she was nudging me to get out of the apartment more or something so I booked a full day of activities out of the house. Then she was like “that’s it? Anything else?” I went to the mall, went swimming, played soccer, visited my bf etc… how is that not enough?

I asked her why she asks and she says “just asking”. But I feel like she’s fishing for something because I’ll tell her what my plans are and she will ask 3 more times that day.

So I thought maybe she thinks I need to do more around the house? So I’ve tried that also and she just keeps on asking me.

People have suggested maybe she wants to do stuff with me but on the weekends she goes out and during the week she works from home. So usually the time she’s asking about is a time when she’s not available.

I don’t think it’s to make conversation either because she doesn’t really say anything when I tell her what I’m doing… like it doesn’t evolve into more conversation.

I know I could ask her to chill on it a bit but I’m worried based on what I know about it, that she will get mad at me because she was “just trying to be nice” or something. I don’t want to cause issues over something so “minor”.

I've made so many excuses about it and thought it would be really difficult or very far away.

I found out it's 0.5 miles from my house. I told myself that they wouldn't have food for my autistic daughter but turns out it's like a grocery store set up and there's plenty of options to choose from!

I was going over my taxes from 2023 and according to ufile, I only recorded 1015 from the Gov of Canada for my grants, but the amount from the province of Ontario for 4727 doesn't appear to be there. On NSLSC, it says to file 4727 and doesn't mention the 1015.

Am I misunderstanding something?

I went to see if I could change it through MyCRA but I can't find the option for this "box". Does that mean I don't need to worry about it?

It's my understanding that it won't affect the outcome (amount I do/don't get). My 2023 return was Nil. I have the DTC.

I believe I had ufile pull the info from MyCRA and file it for me back in 2023.

I'm getting so fed up. I can't log into my account because the only MFA option is a dead email (it was my college email that the school shut down). I have called them so many times. They have my email changed for sending me messages about my bill but not the one connected to authentication. They said they cannot change that, only I can. I tried to just ask them to add my phone number as an option and they say they can't do that either???

I'm just so confused. I've tried different devices too to see if one of them won't make me authenticate twice but no.

Am I going to have to end being a customer and re-register???

I sent chat gpt a picture I drew myself when I was 7.5 in art therapy. I just said, " Based on the drawing skills alone, ignoring the notes that are written by the therapist, what age do you believe I was when I drew this?"

It said "Hahaha, I'll ignore the annotations. 😄

If I had to guess just from the drawing, I'd say around 4½–6 years old, with my best guess being about 5 years old."

And THEN SAID,

"One thing I'd be cautious about is assuming the therapist's notes are objective facts about your inner world. Art therapy interpretations, especially from years ago, can vary quite a bit between clinicians and schools of thought."

Like omfg. STOP. I'm getting so fed up with constant "one thing I'd be cautious about" lines especially when I specifically said to IGNORE THE NOTES. And like it literally told me it would ignore it. I am not trying to assume anything about the evaluation. I just wanted to know if I was ahead at 7 or behind or average 😭

Like it's a picture of a tree and house. It's not that deep. I know that. It is happening so so much. I thought telling it straight up to ignore that would help.

Anyone have tips??

I quit weed in October 2023 after a psychotic episode.

My sobriety lasted 1 year and 6 months ish. I relapsed on 420 in 2025.

I quit again, end of July 2025.

Now I'm at exactly 11 months today.

I never/haven't recieved a diagnosis for my psychotic episode. The differential diagnosis was substance induced because I was smoking weed. But there was reason to believe it was another condition because psychotic disorders run in my family.

I have only 2 months left with my psychiatrist. And I think I'm relapsing into psychosis. So it's hard to feel proud of this because staying sober isn't keeping the psychosis away 😥

Still I wanted to share

I am Transmasculine. I "allow" all pronouns and being gendered as male or female.

However.... I do experience dysphoria around feminine pronouns and gender. Making my actual PREFERENCE male pronouns and gender.

But.... I am pretty androgynous and sometimes dress up more feminine. I am still not very comfortable doing so (still dysphoric) but I just find it hard to "dress up" in a masculine way lol.

So because of my gender expression, I understand that people may not be able to tell my gender or pronouns and may assume she/her and that I am a woman.

That being said, there are situations where it does not make a lot of sense. For example, I went to a barber shop (exclusively does male cuts) under a male name (like James as an example), and asked for a buzz cut. They STILL gendered me as female.

In other situations, it's people who know me, know my dysphoria and know my preferences but still choose to use just she/her and say I'm a woman. These people often treat me like I have detransitioned and I feel like my transness gets erased.

Since I "use all pronouns and genders" people think it's not valid for me to be INTERNALLY frustrated over this. I use all pronouns. Not just she/her. I am not "stereotypically feminine" so getting she/her every single time, confuses me. I feel like this is okay.

I posted on a FB support group for anxiety. I posted that I am "tired of being on high alert" and titled the post "I wish I could fix this". As well, I included a snippet from a childhood psychologist report just the one sentence saying I have a severe attachment disorder as context for my anxiety. There were no details or anything. I didn't ask for anything. What I put in quotations is all I said.

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Only one person commented. They said, "this whole post smells fishy to me".

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What? Like I can understand if I shared a detailed sob story and tried to ask for money or something but I didn't. It's a group to support people with anxiety and that's all I wanted, some understanding.

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I'm thinking maybe they didn't believe the snippet from the psychologist was real. But still what would I gain? No one besides them is even liking or commenting on my post.

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My anxiety is very bad today. I have been crying, my heart has been thumping so loud and strong all day. It makes it feel like I can't breathe even tho I can. I've also been making frequent trips to the washroom.

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The worst part is that it's affecting my daughter who's 4. She has been acting up all day, making constant messes. I feel so guilty and like a terrible mom.

😭😭😭😭😭 I bled through my light coloured shorts. It took under an hour to bleed through my super tampon and through my shorts. Im scared to leave the washroom to buy new shorts 😭 send thoughts and prayers lmao. My usual flow is very light and this hasn't happened since high school. Luckily I'm actually getting bloodwork tomorrow to check my hormones.