Image 1 — “Muslim women deserve dignity too”
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▲ 14 r/AMU

“Muslim women deserve dignity too”

Saw this post and, as a Muslim, I’m honestly ashamed not because someone is concerned about zina or wants to discuss Islamic values, but because of the way this concern is being expressed.

You can believe zina is haram without implying that the presence of non-Muslim students causes Muslims to commit zina. ...

If someone chooses to commit a sin, that responsibility belongs to the individual, not to the religion of the people around them...

Calling Muslim women “selling their dignity” because they study with, live around, or interact with non-Muslim men is also deeply disrespectful. ...

Living or studying alongside someone does not automatically tell us anything about their sexual behaviour. And assuming that these women are doing it “just for money and good accommodation” is judging their motives without knowing them....

The statement that Muslim girls “aren’t even listening to Muslim men” is also concerning. Muslim women have their own agency and responsibility before Allah. Disagreeing with their choices does not give other Muslim men the right to speak about them as if they have authority over them....

If the author has personally witnessed behaviour on campus that they consider inappropriate, they can absolutely talk about those experiences. But those experiences don't justify treating Muslim women as a group as though they have lost their dignity, or treating non-Muslims as a source of moral corruption....

And then the post moves from campus experiences to claims about the RSS, Zionists, the Ottoman Empire, and an alleged deliberate effort to distract Muslim women from Islam. That's a huge leap. Those connections need to actually be established rather than assumed...

If the concern is genuinely about Muslims following Islamic values, then the conversation should involve personal responsibility, religious understanding and respectful advice not degrading women, blaming an entire religious group of students, or turning everything into a conspiracy....

You can strongly believe something is haram and still speak about people with dignity, fairness and basic respect. In fact, I think we should.

u/Plastic-Oven-9659 — 8 days ago
▲ 1 r/JMI

"Muslim women deserve dignity too"

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Saw this post and, as a Muslim, I’m honestly ashamed not because someone is concerned about zina or wants to discuss Islamic values, but because of the way this concern is being expressed...

You can believe zina is haram without implying that the presence of non-Muslim students causes Muslims to commit zina. If someone chooses to commit a sin, that responsibility belongs to the individual, not to the religion of the people around them...

Calling Muslim women “selling their dignity” because they study with, live around, or interact with non-Muslim men is also deeply disrespectful. Living or studying alongside someone does not automatically tell us anything about their sexual behaviour... And assuming that these women are doing it “just for money and good accommodation” is judging their motives without knowing them....

The statement that Muslim girls “aren’t even listening to Muslim men” is also concerning. Muslim women have their own agency and responsibility before Allah. Disagreeing with their choices does not give other Muslim men the right to speak about them as if they have authority over them...

If the author has personally witnessed behaviour on campus that they consider inappropriate, they can absolutely talk about those experiences. But those experiences don't justify treating Muslim women as a group as though they have lost their dignity, or treating non-Muslims as a source of moral corruption.

And then the post moves from campus experiences to claims about the RSS, Zionists, the Ottoman Empire, and an alleged deliberate effort to distract Muslim women from Islam. That's a huge leap. Those connections need to actually be established rather than assumed...

If the concern is genuinely about Muslims following Islamic values, then the conversation should involve personal responsibility, religious understanding and respectful advice not degrading women, blaming an entire religious group of students, or turning everything into a conspiracy...

You can strongly believe something is haram and still speak about people with dignity, fairness and basic respect. In fact, I think we should....

u/Plastic-Oven-9659 — 8 days ago

Which is the best book for microeconomics and applied math's class 11th commerce

So basically i have pw ke book's and ncert but i think i need more practice so which book will be the best and for accounts maine ts Grewal liya hai ....

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u/Plastic-Oven-9659 — 9 days ago
▲ 2 r/AMU

"Jmi/amu students & alumini: is studying islamic studies worth it carrer wise"?

Title: JMI/AMU students & alumni: Is studying Islamic Studies worth it career-wise?

I’m considering studying Islamic Studies at JMI or AMU, but I’m confused about which degree/program would actually be best.

I genuinely want to study Islam seriously, but I also want to be financially independent and build a career. So I’m unsure whether I should make Islamic Studies my main degree or study it alongside a more career-oriented degree.

For current students or alumni:

- Which Islamic Studies degree/program did you choose, and why?

- What career options are realistically available after it?

- Can you earn a decent income with it?

- Did you need additional qualifications afterward?

- If you could go back, would you choose the same path?

- Would you recommend making Islamic Studies your main degree, or studying it alongside another degree?

I’m looking for honest, practical answers from people with firsthand experience at JMI/AMU, especially about career opportunities and life after graduation.

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u/Plastic-Oven-9659 — 9 days ago

JMI/AMU students & alumni: Is a degree in Islamic Studies actually worth it career-wise?

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I’m considering studying Islamic Studies at JMI or AMU, but I’m confused about which degree/program would actually be best...

I genuinely want to study Islam seriously, but I also want to be financially independent and build a career. So I’m unsure whether I should make Islamic Studies my main degree or study it alongside a more career-oriented degree...

For current students or alumni:

- Which Islamic Studies degree/program did you choose, and why?

- What career options are realistically available after it?

- Can you earn a decent income with it?

- Did you need additional qualifications afterward?

- If you could go back, would you choose the same path?

- Would you recommend making Islamic Studies your main degree, or studying it alongside another degree?

I’m looking for honest, practical answers from people with firsthand experience at JMI/AMU, especially about career opportunities and life after graduation.

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u/Plastic-Oven-9659 — 9 days ago

I’m confused about modesty in Islam because I feel like it affects much more than just clothing(long para pls read it )

I’m confused about modesty in Islam because I feel like it affects much more than just clothing

I’m a teenage Muslim girl, and lately I’ve been thinking a lot about what modesty actually means in Islam.....

For me, this isn’t simply about “How much of my body should I cover?” I understand that clothing and hijab are part of it, but I feel like modesty can also affect the kind of life you choose, your environment, career, ambitions, social life, and the way you present yourself....

And honestly, that’s where I’m confused.

I’m studying commerce with maths and fashion designing, and I’m very interested in business and entrepreneurship. I’ve also considered law and modelling/public-facing work. I want to be financially independent, ambitious, and build something meaningful rather than simply live a conventional life....

But I don’t want my ambitions to come at the cost of my faith....

Sometimes it feels like taking modesty seriously could influence not just what I wear, but the career I choose, the environments I enter, my social life, and even the kind of future I build....

I don’t want to follow Islam only because of cultural expectations or because people say “a good Muslim girl should behave like this.” I want to understand what Islam itself teaches and why these boundaries exist.....

At the same time, I don’t want to interpret Islam in whatever way is convenient for me just because I have certain ambitions. If something genuinely goes against Islamic principles, I want to be honest with myself about it.....

So my questions are:

• What does modesty (haya) actually encompass in Islam beyond clothing?

•How much should it influence major decisions like career, education, ambitions and lifestyle?

•How can a Muslim woman balance religious boundaries with legitimate ambition?

•How do you distinguish between an actual Islamic requirement and something that is mainly cultural?

•Can a Muslim woman have an ambitious, independent and unconventional life while genuinely living according to Islamic principles?

•How do you navigate situations where your ambitions and your understanding of modesty seem to conflict?

•I’m not looking for people to tell me what career I should choose. I’m trying to understand the principles well enough to make those decisions myself...

I’d especially appreciate answers from people who have seriously studied Islam—Qur’an, authentic hadith, fiqh, scholars, etc.—rather than just personal opinions....

I’m genuinely confused, so please be respectful. I’m trying to figure out how to build a life that is both ambitious and faithful, rather than choosing one and completely abandoning the other.

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u/Plastic-Oven-9659 — 9 days ago
▲ 8 r/hijabi+1 crossposts

I’m confused about modesty in Islam because I feel like it affects much more than just clothing

I’m a teenage Muslim girl, and lately I’ve been thinking a lot about what modesty actually means in Islam.....

For me, this isn’t simply about “How much of my body should I cover?” I understand that clothing and hijab are part of it, but I feel like modesty can also affect the kind of life you choose, your environment, career, ambitions, social life, and the way you present yourself.

And honestly, that’s where I’m confused.

I’m studying commerce with maths and fashion designing, and I’m very interested in business and entrepreneurship. I’ve also considered law and modelling/public-facing work. I want to be financially independent, ambitious, and build something meaningful rather than simply live a conventional life....

But I don’t want my ambitions to come at the cost of my faith....

Sometimes it feels like taking modesty seriously could influence not just what I wear, but the career I choose, the environments I enter, my social life, and even the kind of future I build....

I don’t want to follow Islam only because of cultural expectations or because people say “a good Muslim girl should behave like this.” I want to understand what Islam itself teaches and why these boundaries exist.....

At the same time, I don’t want to interpret Islam in whatever way is convenient for me just because I have certain ambitions. If something genuinely goes against Islamic principles, I want to be honest with myself about it.....

So my questions are:

• What does modesty (haya) actually encompass in Islam beyond clothing?

•How much should it influence major decisions like career, education, ambitions and lifestyle?

•How can a Muslim woman balance religious boundaries with legitimate ambition?

•How do you distinguish between an actual Islamic requirement and something that is mainly cultural?

•Can a Muslim woman have an ambitious, independent and unconventional life while genuinely living according to Islamic principles?

•How do you navigate situations where your ambitions and your understanding of modesty seem to conflict?

•I’m not looking for people to tell me what career I should choose. I’m trying to understand the principles well enough to make those decisions myself...

I’d especially appreciate answers from people who have seriously studied Islam—Qur’an, authentic hadith, fiqh, scholars, etc.—rather than just personal opinions....

I’m genuinely confused, so please be respectful. I’m trying to figure out how to build a life that is both ambitious and faithful, rather than choosing one and completely abandoning the other.

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u/Plastic-Oven-9659 — 9 days ago
▲ 2 r/NIFTards+1 crossposts

"is modeling career in india really fucked up'?

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So I'm thinking only thinking to go on modelling but what i have observed that thiss industry have insane beauty standards so I'm lil confused because i hate beauty standards any standards I think we should celebrate every body type and blahh blah

Anyone in this industry i need your real answer based on your experience

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u/Plastic-Oven-9659 — 9 days ago

What is going on with Indian colleges

What is going on with Indian colleges

For context: I'm already doing diploma in fashion designing from a tier 3 institute I'm in first year and I'm in 11th commerce with maths and this institute is pretty good as compared to the place it is in but the thing is ik my capabilities and this institute sucks to me nothing is good I'm the youngest student in this institute to do diploma and you can say best because every other faculty praises me nd i have better communication and so many other things ...

But ik my capabilities and i think i can do far better then this so after 12th maybe joining a fashion school but reddit reviews are insanely bad for every other college and it made me confused pls guys help me with it...

And my future plans are quite clear i want to build fashion brand and going into branding and stuff because i have family business

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u/Plastic-Oven-9659 — 11 days ago
▲ 3 r/NIFTards+1 crossposts

What is going on with Indian colleges

For context: I'm already doing diploma in fashion designing from a tier 3 institute I'm in first year and I'm in 11th commerce with maths and this institute is pretty good as compared to the place it is in but the thing is ik my capabilities and this institute sucks to me nothing is good I'm the youngest student in this institute to do diploma and you can say best because every other faculty praises me nd i have better communication and so many other things ...

But ik my capabilities and i think i can do far better then this so after 12th maybe joining a fashion school but reddit reviews are insanely bad for every other college and it made me confused pls guys help me with it...

And my future plans are quite clear i want to build fashion brand and going into branding and stuff because i have family business

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u/Plastic-Oven-9659 — 11 days ago

I want to start a scrap business from scratch — what would experienced people do differently?

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I’m considering starting a scrap/recycling business from scratch.

I have some exposure to the scrap business through my family, but I want to understand the business independently rather than simply continuing what already exists.

What interests me is whether there are real problems in the current scrap supply chain that could be solved—for example, collection, sorting, pricing transparency, connecting small scrap dealers with larger recyclers, logistics, traceability, or handling specific categories of waste.

I’m not looking for “get rich quick” advice. I want to understand how this industry actually works from people who have experience in it.

For people who currently run or have worked in scrap, recycling, waste management, or related businesses:

\- What are the biggest inefficiencies/problems you've seen?.

\- Where can a new entrant genuinely add value?

\- Which types of scrap have the best potential for a small/new business?

\- What mistakes do beginners commonly make?

\- Is it better to start as a local collector/trader, or focus on building a more organized supply chain?

\- How important are relationships with suppliers and downstream recyclers?

\- If you had to start again with limited capital, what would you do differently?

I’d especially appreciate answers from people who have actually worked in the industry, rather than general entrepreneurship advice...

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u/Plastic-Oven-9659 — 12 days ago
▲ 2 r/IndianAcademia+1 crossposts

"Is a degree really important" ?

I’m a high-school student, and I’ve been interested in business and entrepreneurship since I was a kid. I’ve tried different things, explored different skills, and I also have some exposure to family businesses...

I genuinely believe I have certain skills and capabilities that I can develop further, but I’m not saying that to brag. The problem is that I’m now at the stage where I’ll eventually have to choose a college and degree, and honestly, I’m not sure I even want the traditional college route....

I understand that a degree can be important, but I also believe skills, experience, and the ability to actually create value matter a lot. I have a skill that I think the market is willing to pay for, so I’m considering spending one year after 12th actually trying to build something around it instead of immediately going to college....

People take gap years all the time, so why not use that year to genuinely test myself and see what I can build? If it doesn’t work, I can still go to college afterward...

But I also don’t want to romanticize the idea of “dropping out of the system” and regret it later. I want an honest reality check....

How important is a degree actually in the real world? Is taking one year to pursue a skill/business after 12th a reasonable decision, or am I underestimating the risks?

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u/Plastic-Oven-9659 — 13 days ago
▲ 64 r/CBSE

"Sometimes i hate how unfair the starting line is "

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Sometimes I see teenagers my age building startups, doing research, winning competitions, creating apps, making portfolios, doing insane extracurriculars, and honestly… it sucks....

Not because I think they don't deserve it. Good for them. But you can't help wondering how different things would be if you had the same opportunities, support, money, guidance, connections, or environment...

Some people get to spend their teenage years experimenting and building things. Others are just trying to figure themselves out, deal with family stuff, school, pressure, money, etc....

And then the internet puts everyone's achievements in front of you 24/7, so it starts feeling like you're already behind at 16....

I know comparison isn't useful and that everyone's timeline is different. But sometimes I don't want advice or another "you're still young!!" speech.

I just want to acknowledge that yeah, sometimes it really is unfair...

And maybe that's okay to admit without turning it into either jealousy or self-pity....

TLDR : Some teenagers get a huge head start in life, and sometimes watching them makes you realize how unequal the starting line actually is. It sucks.

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u/Plastic-Oven-9659 — 13 days ago
▲ 96 r/GenZ

"Sometimes i hate how unfair the starting line is "

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Sometimes I see teenagers my age building startups, doing research, winning competitions, creating apps, making portfolios, doing insane extracurriculars, and honestly… it sucks....

Not because I think they don't deserve it. Good for them. But you can't help wondering how different things would be if you had the same opportunities, support, money, guidance, connections, or environment...

Some people get to spend their teenage years experimenting and building things. Others are just trying to figure themselves out, deal with family stuff, school, pressure, money, etc....

And then the internet puts everyone's achievements in front of you 24/7, so it starts feeling like you're already behind at 16....

I know comparison isn't useful and that everyone's timeline is different. But sometimes I don't want advice or another "you're still young!!" speech.

I just want to acknowledge that yeah, sometimes it really is unfair.

And maybe that's okay to admit without turning it into either jealousy or self-pity....

TLDR : Some teenagers get a huge head start in life, and sometimes watching them makes you realize how unequal the starting line actually is. It sucks.

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u/Plastic-Oven-9659 — 13 days ago
▲ 10 r/Indiancolleges+1 crossposts

"Why indian colleges sucks??"

Is it just me, or does the college system feel broken?

The more I research colleges, the more confused I get....

Government colleges are affordable, but many seem to struggle with poor infrastructure, overcrowded classrooms, inconsistent teaching, and limited industry exposure. Then private colleges often charge ₹15–30 lakh (or more), but many still have average placements and questionable ROI.

Even in places like DU, people say only a handful of colleges are truly worth it, while the rest are just average.....

It feels like you're expected to spend years preparing for entrance exams just to end up choosing between:

A cheap college with limited resources.

An expensive college with uncertain returns.

I'm not saying every college is bad, but the system feels so confusing.

For people who have already graduated or are currently in college:

Is the situation really as bad as it seems?

How much does college actually matter compared to your own skills and internships

If you could go back, would you choose the same college again

I'm genuinely trying to understand the reality beyond YouTube thumbnails and social media......

What you guys think which will be the best college for bba (govt)

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u/Plastic-Oven-9659 — 14 days ago

People who leaved india and are working in fashion (abroad) how it is

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So i need genuine answers and you can rant here what it is like their and what is the difference in indian fashion market and abroad

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u/Plastic-Oven-9659 — 14 days ago

People who leaved india and are working in fashion (abroad) how it is

So i need genuine answers and you can rant here what it is like their and what is the difference in indian fashion market and abroad

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u/Plastic-Oven-9659 — 14 days ago

Fellow 12th grader give me tips to study

So i have taken commerce with applied math's and I'm trying to study and being consistent but idk why i am not enjoying it , it's so boring

( I have taken because i was intrested in it or I have no other options because i went to Aakash institute for 9th and 10th and it fucked me up and i get to know how hard the system is for science students and i have seen people around me struggling taking science and i never enjoyed studying it except bio and arts is something i can't, my parents would never agree and coming from middle class family i can't go on creative field or govt exams which is what arts is famous for and i never saw my future in it so at the end i opted commerce)

Any of you can give me tips to study it would be helpful I'm having struggle in studying Account's

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u/Plastic-Oven-9659 — 15 days ago