u/Quiet-Plum-2958

I’m soon going to be 20F and I feel like this deep pit within me, like day and day out, I just feel empty. Phone is extremely dry. I feel ashamed that I’m feeling a deep sense of loneliness at this age. I just can’t seem to find someone who wants to stick around. I’m always in the background of things.

I desperately want to feel something I want to feel wanted and connected with someone without being pushed aside I would like to be a priority at some point. I’m just upset because I could be an amazing friend. I listen I can make someone feel appreciated, I’m a good conversationalist- I truly try everything but it always fizzle out.

I feel embarrassed, still going places with my mom and following her about because my parents are really my only friends.

I volunteer at Children’s Hospital every Thursday and I work in a pub so it’s quite social work but at the end of the day I come back home to a quiet house a dry phone and no one knowing me. I guess this is just adulthood and I have to deal with it either way I’m gonna have to live life.

To cope with my loneliness, I’ve turned to food for years so I’ve gained weight. It’s all just a big mess. I don’t know when things are gonna get better or if I’ll always be alone, all I know is that I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy

Unattractive woman 19F here, so I am unfortunate I would classify myself as a 2/10 and I have accepted that. It’s gotten really bad to the point where I can’t even be around man because they just remind me that I’ll never be seen as anything or that I’ll ever be an option. It’s just so upsetting being invisible. I hate it so much. I feel like I deserve to be alone.

Anyway, to the topic at hand, I have this friend who
has been the only person who like sees me as a human despite what I look like. He’s really nice to me and as an ugly woman I don’t allow myself to have crushes because that would be punishing myself more but he is a great guy.

Anyways we’ve been friends online for around 10 months we’ve met once and for the second time he would like to come over to watch a movie and to myself I’m thinking okay that’s a normal friend thing, but to me it’s a big deal having a guy sitting next to me would just remind me of something that I will never have and that after he leaves my house he will text me about a hot woman he found on the street

He doesn’t owe me anything. I’m just simply just talking about how I feel. And my heart can’t take it so it’s either stay online friends and be a horrible friend or just suffer in silence.

I wish my looksmatch wanted me

Hi all! It’s nice to meet you I’m Anya I’m from the UK, I have never dated because I’m honestly terrified of what people will think of me! Dating apps are terrifying honestly so I’m trying this out because there seems to be more real people on Reddit 🥲

As for me I study psychology and I work part time in a pub, it’s fun work I loveee communicating with people! I’m really into true crime, reading psychological thrillers, baking, cooking healthy meals since I’m on a weight loss journey and going out in nature (:

I’m aware that I’m not the best looking and that I’m overweight, but I have so much love to give, I feel like I could genuinely love someone, make someone feel appreciated and I’ll be honest. I am quite lonely, never felt close to anyone but I have a few online friends! I hope to just find someone to get to know I’m open to just friends as well. It’s nothing really serious but I just wanna put myself out there xox

I’m 5’7, chubby, dark skin, black hair, dark brown eyes I actually have a pics and stuff on my profile so please take a gander at those because I’m really not a lot of peoples types and I don’t wanna make it seem like I’m deceiving anyone.

I don’t care about looks whatsoever couldn’t phase me one bit all I ask is that you’re between 20-26 that’s it for obvious reasons lmaoo

Thank you for reading if you did! 💕

That shi is expensive like what!! I’m going into my second year and Trust you will be seeing me at all of them, on time, every time. Not one absence just like last year 🤣

I’m far too comfortable with being weird and quirky often when I’m nowhere near pretty enough for it to be seen as a cute quirk instead people just see me as a weirdo

I just want to be held and touched, if I ever got hugged by a man I think I’d break down crying. I’m just very exhausted. 20F, not attractive I get 0 attention from men, I’m practically invisible my life is just work>college>work>college. I don’t want sex I just want to have someone’s arm around me and to snuggle into someone. Or just have someone sit next to me and have a conversation. I’d kill for that.

I’m incapable of finding a relationship due to my looks and autism but I’m still human. I’ve tried hookup apps but of course they just want sex. Maybe it’s a silly want that and I just have to deal with it

Every time I make a payment, it all goes well until the day after where they reverted for no reason and then the next day they take it back out.. So weird

Hiya just wanted to try this out, i’ve been quite lonely for awhile making friends at this age is so hard I feel like I barely manage to have any human interaction so I wanted to see if anyone wanted to get to know each other xx

I’m quite an energetic person with a bubbly personality. I love having conversations and I know how to hold them usually! I do love a yap session, I enjoy voice calling or even FaceTimes, if that’s not possible, I just enjoy texting as well! I really like reading psychological thrillers, I love horror movies, anime and cooking healthy meals as I’m on a weight loss journey (:

I’m mostly just looking for someone who I can talk too often who’s around my age like a long-term friend where we can share daily updates or maybe play a game or something. I really yearn for that kind of connection right now

Ty x

I really really am, and I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I’m going to be 20F in a few months and the thought of sex is so incredibly foreign to me, I can barely picture myself being in that position like WTF absolutely not. Having to be naked in front of a guy, them seeing all ur imperfections because you’re EXPOSED. And it would literally be breaking through a layer of flesh

Absolutely not, as I was saying I just larp about being against hookup culture when I don’t really care, people can do what they want and that I’m waiting for marriage to try and make sense of it but I’m lowkey just scared. If by the rare chance I do end up being with someone, I’d probably delay sex as much as possible until he gets sick and tired of it. I don’t want to do it at all

I don’t know what the name of this is for, idk if it’s asexual because I enjoy watching porn and use it as “material” so I don’t know if one can be asexual but also enjoy the other stuff.

Also I WANT KIDS mind you!! I genuinely don’t know how I’m gonna go about that 😭

Hi allll i’d really like someone to talk to right now. I’m just pretty lonely and really struggling to fall asleep so instead of shutting my eyes and resting my head on a pillow like a normal person I decided that it would be a good idea to talk to strangers on Reddit.

I have to get up for my wonderful minimum wage stock assistant Aldi job in a few hours so im just punishing myself atp

OKK EXCITED TO TALK TO UUU

I don't understand why people say that heightism all comes down to the woman's preference only when at the end of the day people are forgetting the tall men are also choosing the very short women. It's mutual. You're not gonna see a 5 foot 10 girl in a relationship with a 6'2 guy but you will see a 5'3 girl with a 6'2 guy because they both like that difference.

People forget that the guy likes that too. Men naturally want to be taller than their women, usually by a lot. It's true than men gravitate towards shorter women on average. Men just aren't as loud about not wanting a taller girl as women are in my opinion. So instead of blaming it all on one gender why don't they just call it 50/50..

It just makes me angry

I’m super awkward and anxious, quiet, I don’t get out much and don’t speak to people because I simply am on my own most of the time. That’s how I’ve lived my life, never received any sort of male attention and I feel disconnected from the whole experience.

As I’m 20 in a few months my lack of experience is starting to bother me, I have no experience with dating My automatic response to interacting with a male is hide and make myself as small as possible so and subconsciously make him know that I’m aware I’m not that attractive and worthy of dating so I don’t seem hopeless and desperate.

over the years I have come to realise that there are so many things about me that just aren’t appealing. i genuinely think i’d be a good girlfriend. i think i could be an amazing partner. i’m a good listener, i like being someone’s safe space, and i have so much love to give. i give it away so easily.

Every time a guy shows me even a little bit of kindness, it’s like i start performing. every interaction becomes me trying to be enough, hoping that if i say the right things or give enough of myself, i’ll finally be chosen. Someone’s person. it never happens. instead, they move on, find the love of their life, and i’m left behind again. i end up grieving not just what happened, but everything that could’ve been if i had just been enough.

the truth is, i don’t think love is for me in this lifetime. Which is fine whatever, but the struggle of making friends when you’re not drop dead gorgeous as a woman is hard. It’s like you need to fight to get people to see something in you.

Vent over, just feeling extra crappy today

Hiya just wanted to try this out, i’ve been quite lonely for awhile making friends at this age is so hard I feel like I barely manage to have any human interaction so I wanted to see if anyone wanted to get to know each other xx

I’m quite an energetic person with a bubbly personality. I love having conversations and I know how to hold them usually! I do love a yap session, I enjoy voice calling or sending voice messages if that’s not possible, I just enjoy texting as well! I really like reading psychological thrillers, I love horror movies, anime and cooking healthy meals as I’m on a weight loss journey (:

I’m mostly just looking for someone who I can talk too often who’s around my age like a long-term friend where we can share daily updates or maybe play a game or something. I really yearn for that kind of connection right now

Ty x

Hiya just wanted to try this out, i’ve been quite lonely for awhile making friends at this age is so hard I feel like I barely manage to have any human interaction so I wanted to see if anyone wanted to get to know each other xx

I’m quite an energetic person with a bubbly personality. I love having conversations and I know how to hold them usually! I do love a yap session, I enjoy voice calling or sending voice messages if that’s not possible, I just enjoy texting as well! I really like reading psychological thrillers, I love horror movies, anime and cooking healthy meals as I’m on a weight loss journey (:

I’m mostly just looking for someone who I can talk too often who’s around my age like a long-term friend where we can share daily updates or maybe play a game or something. I really yearn for that kind of connection right now

Ty x

I've never done drugs in my life, but I was just watching a body cam footage arrest kind of thing, and it's just silly to me how people can get arrested by like growing a weed garden in the comfort and safety of their own home, and then sell their own product to people who want to buy it. It's not like they're shoving cocaine down random people's throats, you know. They're selling it to adults who want it, and that's on them init

Over the years, i have come to realise that there are so many things about me that just aren’t appealing. i genuinely think i’d be a good girlfriend. i think i could be an amazing partner. i’m a good listener, i like being someone’s safe space, and i have so much love to give. i give it away so easily.

but every time a guy shows me even a little bit of kindness, it’s like i start performing. every interaction becomes me trying to be enough, hoping that if i say the right things or give enough of myself, i’ll finally be chosen. it’s like i’m on a stage, waiting for applause that never comes. they watch, they take what they want from me, and then they leave.

i’ve only ever had situationships where i’ve spent so much time trying to be seen, trying to finally become someone’s person. it never happens. instead, they move on, find the love of their life, and i’m left behind again. i end up grieving not just what happened, but everything that could’ve been if i had just been enough.

the truth is, i don’t think love is for me in this lifetime. to be completely honest, i don’t really see why a man would love me. i’m not attractive. i have dark skin. i’m fat. i don’t feel like i have much to offer besides love, and maybe love just isn’t enough. maybe that’s just how people are.

i really hope that as i get older, i can make peace with it. right now i think i’m somewhere between grieving and accepting it. i’m grieving all the experiences i’ll probably never have, all the love i’ll probably never get to experience. i know life goes on, and i know i’ll be okay eventually. i’m hoping that one day i’ll be able to fill that space with other things that make me happy, even if they can never fully replace it

I think I worry about it more now then people my age because I know the reality and I know how I am and what I look like. It’s not like I’m hot and I have time, no. It was over from the beginning. That’s why the panic is setting in very early because I know the inevitable and I’m just trying to process it

over the years, i (19f) have come to realise that there are so many things about me that just aren’t appealing. i genuinely think i’d be a good girlfriend. i think i could be an amazing partner. i’m a good listener, i like being someone’s safe space, and i have so much love to give. i give it away so easily.

but every time a guy shows me even a little bit of kindness, it’s like i start performing. every interaction becomes me trying to be enough, hoping that if i say the right things or give enough of myself, i’ll finally be chosen. it’s like i’m on a stage, waiting for applause that never comes. they watch, they take what they want from me, and then they leave.

i’ve only ever had situationships where i’ve spent so much time trying to be seen, trying to finally become someone’s person. it never happens. instead, they move on, find the love of their life, and i’m left behind again. i end up grieving not just what happened, but everything that could’ve been if i had just been enough.

the truth is, i don’t think love is for me in this lifetime. to be completely honest, i don’t really see why a man would love me. i’m not attractive. i have bad skin. i’m fat. i don’t feel like i have much to offer besides love, and maybe love just isn’t enough. maybe that’s just how people are.

i really hope that as i get older, i can make peace with it. right now i think i’m somewhere between grieving and accepting it. i’m grieving all the experiences i’ll probably never have, all the love i’ll probably never get to experience. i know life goes on, and i know i’ll be okay eventually. i’m hoping that one day i’ll be able to fill that space with other things that make me happy, even if they can never fully replace it

I think I worry about it more now then people my age because I know the reality and I know how I am and what I look like. It’s not like I’m hot and I have time, no. It was over from the beginning. That’s why the panic is setting in very early because I know the inevitable and I’m just trying to process it

I feel like that one wojack with no face I genuinely feel nothing atp. Working out in the heat is like going to hell, just got brutally rejected on a dating app, it’s just so hot. Everything I do makes me sweat and it’s too hot to exist. I’m so incredibly lonely and have no one to talk to. Sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh my life has no meaning