Image 1 — Update on Baby: She burned her foot a couple of weeks ago and I posted here. Pics are from a week after burn, 4 days ago, and today. Long story short: She is okay and perfectly healthy!
Image 2 — Update on Baby: She burned her foot a couple of weeks ago and I posted here. Pics are from a week after burn, 4 days ago, and today. Long story short: She is okay and perfectly healthy!
Image 3 — Update on Baby: She burned her foot a couple of weeks ago and I posted here. Pics are from a week after burn, 4 days ago, and today. Long story short: She is okay and perfectly healthy!
Image 4 — Update on Baby: She burned her foot a couple of weeks ago and I posted here. Pics are from a week after burn, 4 days ago, and today. Long story short: She is okay and perfectly healthy!
Image 5 — Update on Baby: She burned her foot a couple of weeks ago and I posted here. Pics are from a week after burn, 4 days ago, and today. Long story short: She is okay and perfectly healthy!
Image 6 — Update on Baby: She burned her foot a couple of weeks ago and I posted here. Pics are from a week after burn, 4 days ago, and today. Long story short: She is okay and perfectly healthy!
Image 7 — Update on Baby: She burned her foot a couple of weeks ago and I posted here. Pics are from a week after burn, 4 days ago, and today. Long story short: She is okay and perfectly healthy!
Image 8 — Update on Baby: She burned her foot a couple of weeks ago and I posted here. Pics are from a week after burn, 4 days ago, and today. Long story short: She is okay and perfectly healthy!
Image 9 — Update on Baby: She burned her foot a couple of weeks ago and I posted here. Pics are from a week after burn, 4 days ago, and today. Long story short: She is okay and perfectly healthy!
Image 10 — Update on Baby: She burned her foot a couple of weeks ago and I posted here. Pics are from a week after burn, 4 days ago, and today. Long story short: She is okay and perfectly healthy!
▲ 148 r/Conures

Update on Baby: She burned her foot a couple of weeks ago and I posted here. Pics are from a week after burn, 4 days ago, and today. Long story short: She is okay and perfectly healthy!

So, as I posted here before, Baby had her cage open and something startled her, causing her to fly. Unfortunately, she landed in a cast iron skillet I had preheating, but she flew out immediately. She didn’t make any sound of pain and had no obvious signs of injury beyond a slight pinkness on the bottom of her foot. I thought she came away relatively unscathed and was relieved.

Fast forward a week and she had a mark on her foot where she obviously got burned. It was hard to tell if it was a scab forming or a blister, and I got worried about it getting infected and how she could be affected by it. I called one of two vets in my area that treat birds and got an appointment.

Vet told me everything looks great on her. She is perfectly healthy and no signs of infection. At this point, it is raw skin that is now forming into a scar. There is no open wound, but he still gave me preventative measures to make sure she continues to be okay. He prescribed me two antibiotics, one for oral administration and one topical, to give to her for the next 7-10 days. He said it should hopefully be fully healed within the next week or two. She will have some scar tissue on the bottom of her foot and will have a little weird spot forever.

He and the nurse said multiple times about how cute and beautiful she is. I know I might be biased but I have to agree! I am just relieved that I know she is okay. It’s so much better to just have peace of mind. I know she’s gonna be a pain when I give her the medicine, but that’s the way it goes. I love my Baby and would do anything for her.

She was gonna eat when she went to her cage but I grabbed her food bowl to change it out for some fresh food. Came back to her scratching her head in the pictures above. She is still scratching as I type this.

u/Stankassmfgorilla — 5 hours ago
▲ 46 r/punk

What do you think the most influential punk album ever made is?(To punk itself or other genres)

Fresh Fruit For Rotting Vegetables has always stood out to me as being way ahead of the curve as far as hardcore goes at the time. There are tons of riffs that go far beyond punk are straight up thrash metal. The drumming I think is also cleaner and more technical than a lot of the punk drumming from that time. Just such a crazy record that holds up even all these years later. It’s crazy to think that came out in 1980.

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u/Stankassmfgorilla — 3 days ago
▲ 29 r/Conures

My conure landed on a hot stove for a split second. She seemed fine but a week later this has shown up.

I was unsure what to do as my conure is 13 years old and has never been injured before or ever had anything wrong with her. Her cage was open when something startled her and she flew out. I had a cast iron skillet preheating and I realized she was flying right for it. She landed in it for literally less than a second and flew right out. She made no noise indicating that she was hurt. I checked her feet and her entire bottom and didn’t see anything apparent. It was maybe 30 minutes or so later when I noticed she had some very mild pinkness on her right foot. It looked like she had very mildly burned herself, but she made no sound of pain. I spent hours searching up what to do and what to look out for and trying to figure out if she needed to go to the vet (there are only 2 vets that treat avians where I live and most vets are extremely booked up) I monitored her behavior and nothing seemed out of the ordinary.

I’ve checked her foot every day and it looked fine until about 2 days ago. I noticed that the redness looked more apparent. I am unsure if this is just part of the healing process or if these are the beginning stages of an infection.

It’s very hard to tell because she is acting completely normal. I know birds are hard to detect illness in but she shows absolutely no signs of anything wrong with her. Still eating just as much, (she’s always stuffing her face) still bathing regularly, still grooming all the time, still squawking at me to get her and hang out with her, still just as vocal about every single thing. She has not picked at her foot or taken her weight off of it, or given even the slightest indication of being in pain or sick. I’ve been watching out for any and everything just in case. Her behavior has not changed one bit, so it gives me hope that she is okay, but I am already planning on calling the vet tomorrow since they are closed today to make an appointment.

Has anybody else had any experience with something like this? I just want to make sure my Baby is okay. If she needs help then I want to make sure she gets everything she needs. She is my world. I feel like a bad parent because I didn’t call the vet right away and I feel now like I should have.

u/Stankassmfgorilla — 8 days ago

Saw Havok for a second night in a row in Bakersfield. Got to meet two of my biggest metal heroes

I was fortunate enough to see Havok in LA on Thursday with the insane lineup they had with Killswitch Engage, Machine Head, and Iron Reagan. Lucky me was also able to see them again the very next night in my hometown of Bakersfield! In a really small, intimate venue, Temblor Brewing Company, they put on an absolute rager of a show with a killer setlist.

Because it’s so small, I got the chance to meet and talk with David Sanchez and Pete Webber for a bit and they were beyond nice and cool. The highlight of my year so far. These guys have been some of my biggest musical heroes since I was in high school.

I also was just being a giant goof everytime I saw a photographer and even got featured on Havok’s Instagram post for the show. I’m glad I got to take my little brother to experience this show, as he’s really been getting into metal the last few years. He had his first exposure to death metal with the opening bands, who were sick as well.

Amazing night and amazing show! Havok rules!

u/Stankassmfgorilla — 9 days ago
▲ 7 r/Hair

Is it bad to shampoo my hair every single day?

I generally use conditioner everyday and shampoo every other day. My problem is that I workout and have a physical job so I end up sweating. My scalp also just naturally gets greasy when I sleep so I always end up with these weird looking spots towards the front of my scalp/forehead where the hair is still kind of greasy.

I’ve read that shampooing everyday is bad and dries your hair out but does anyone else have any experience with this? I also put pictures of the rest of my hair to show what my hair type is, if that helps.

u/Stankassmfgorilla — 10 days ago

Killswitch Engage, Machine Head, Iron Reagan, and Havok at the Hollywood Palladium last night

Absolutely killer and bonkers show. The crowd was insane. This was the second concert I’ve taken my little brother (17 years old) to since he’s gotten more into metal and he had the time of his life. He was blown away.

Amazing that I get to create and share these memories with my brother and great music is the reason we get to come together for them. There truly is nothing like a great concert. He was scared to get in the mosh pit when I took him to see Sepultura/Exodus last month but I made him get in when Exodus started playing and now he can’t get enough of it.

Machine Head might have stolen the show. Everybody was truly incredible but Machine Head’s production value and sheer heaviness might have been the highlight. I know people are mixed on Robb Flynn but he is a hell of a frontman and has incredible stage presence.

Fucking wild show. Definitely one for the books.

u/Stankassmfgorilla — 10 days ago

Time Paradox Question

Is it ever explained how Skynet originally came about? I’m talking about before anyone or any Terminators were ever sent back in time.

Cyberdyne Systems and Skynet happen in T2 because of the recovery of the first Terminator’s arm at the end of the first film. This creates the paradox where everything happens because the Terminator was sent back in time.

I’ve always wondered: what if the Terminator actually killed Sarah Connor? Wouldn’t this theoretically eliminate Skynet? With the Terminator killing her, wouldn’t it just lie dormant or go on blending in until its power supply runs out? If the first Terminator is never recovered then Skynet never gets created.

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u/Stankassmfgorilla — 13 days ago

Is Payoneer okay for receiving small payments?

I have Payoneer automatically through Tunecore. When you set up Tunecore, it automatically creates a Payoneer account for you and links it. The hope is that one day I will be able to withdraw some amount of money from Tunecore but it will be through Payoneer. We are talking really small amounts, though. Does anybody else have any experience with this?

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u/Stankassmfgorilla — 15 days ago

Favorite episode and season?

On a fucking current rewatch right now and I forgot just how fucking good “No Other Sons or Daughters” is. What a fuckin fantastic fuckin episode, but then it’s followed up by “Mister Wu” which I’ve held up for years as one of my fuckin all time favorite hours of fuckin television. It’s just perfect. This show was so ahead of its time. They really fuckin don’t make television like this anymore.

I’d be inclined to say Season 2 is the best, but there’s just something so special about fuckin Season 1. It feels most nostalgic to me. Season 3 is of course also fuckin amazing.

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u/Stankassmfgorilla — 17 days ago

How was Tony having such a high sex drive with how fat and unhealthy he was?

He never had the makings of a varsity cooze chaser. He should have seriously considered salads. I was ashamed to face my friends.

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u/Stankassmfgorilla — 25 days ago

The Odyssey in regular 70mm vs Digital IMAX?

I’m posing this question because IMAX 70mm is what I obviously would prefer to see this in, but nearly all the good seats for every single showtime are taken up already (LA area) It seems like I’m gonna have to wait until more showtimes are hopefully added past what’s showing already.

I do have an IMAX theater where I live, but it’s digital projection only. The IMAX theater itself is very good, but I feel like it’s a disservice to this movie to see it projected digitally.

I frequent the Vista Theater in Hollywood and they’re showing the movie in 70mm, and I’m sure it will be gorgeous, but I know a fair amount of the top and bottom will be cropped. I do vastly prefer watching movies projected on film over digital. I hardly ever go to regular theaters anymore. If I want to see a new release, I tend to drive down to the Vista a lot of the time.

I saw Sinners in Digital IMAX when it first came out then again back in February in Ultra Panavision 70mm at the Vista and, honestly, I preferred the 70mm version. I also saw The Dark Knight there in 35mm last month and I didn’t feel like I was missing too much of the picture, even after seeing the Blu Ray with the IMAX scenes countless times.

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u/Stankassmfgorilla — 26 days ago
▲ 10 r/imax

Anyone been to the TCL Chinese Theater in Hollywood for IMAX 70mm screenings? How is it there?

I'm wanting to see The Odyssey in IMAX 70mm but my next closest theater for that would be the Universal Citywalk in Burbank which is almost entirely sold out for every screening. Pretty much only the worst seats left for every showtime at that theater.

My next best option is to see it in 70mm at the Vista Theater in Hollywood, which I frequent. I'd really prefer to see this projected on film, even over digital IMAX.

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u/Stankassmfgorilla — 29 days ago

What is the most brutal/insane mosh pit you’ve ever been in?

I just went and saw Sepultura/Exodus/Biohazard/Tribal Gaze on the final show of Sepultura’s North American leg of their farewell tour. Holy shit, to say the pit was crazy is an understatement. It is very close to the top for the most insane pit I’ve ever been in. Only about 1,500 person capacity I think and everyone was just crammed to the max. It made the moshing so much more brutal but made the music so much better. Everything just hit so much harder. Add onto that, Dukes did a Wall of Death during “Strike of The Beast” and it was just awesome.

A couple other contenders are probably the first time I saw Slayer with Testament/Carcass opening, the last time I saw Slayer with Lamb of God/Anthrax/Behemoth/Testament opening, and Cannibal Corpse/Municipal Waste/Full of Hell/Fulci.

What are your best mosh pits you’ve been in?

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u/Stankassmfgorilla — 1 month ago
▲ 988 r/SteelyDan+1 crossposts

Happy 50th anniversary to the greatest album of all time!

What’s your favorite song? Probably a toss up between The Caves of Altamira and Haitian Divorce for me. The entire album is perfection from start to finish, though. My favorite of all time.

u/Historical-Device529 — 1 month ago
▲ 40 r/batman

35mm screening of The Dark Knight last night in Hollywood. Batman Begins was last month

At my favorite theater. What an incredible experience. A very strict no phones and talking rule during presentations to help preserve the magic of film and audience engagement.

I genuinely do not think The Dark Knight will ever be topped. It is the quintessential cinematic adaptation of Batman and still the greatest superhero/comic book film ever made. Still, nearly 20 years later, this film had the audience in a grip. Dead silence during suspenseful scenes, like Joker’s first video with the Batman impersonator.

Lots of great audience engagement as well. Big laughs from the Joker’s dark and dry humor. It also goes without saying and everybody almost universally agrees that Ledger’s performance as The Joker crafted one of the greatest movie villains of all time. Just magnetic every single second he is on screen.

The impeccable sound design was a real treat to hear in the theater’s incredible sound system as well. The bank robbery and car chase sounded amazing.

I’ve seen this a million times and still I was glued to the screen. Just an incredible film. Never gets old. So glad I got to experience this in the theater again after close to 20 years since seeing it when it first came out. The entire theater erupted in applause once the credits started.

u/Stankassmfgorilla — 1 month ago

I think my girlfriend is a bad mom. What am I even able to do?

My girlfriend and her daughter live with me. She claims that she wants me to be a dad to her daughter, yet every time I make a suggestion or act in a parental role, she shuts me down and gets defensive.

Her daughter is not a bad kid, but she has absolutely no discipline. She has missed so much school and I’ve lost count of how many letters we’ve gotten in the mail about her attendance. My girlfriend says that she’s in contact with the principal because her daughter has depression, ADHD, OCD, and I think she’s just using it as an excuse to not have to lay down the law. I get she struggles with these things, but she can’t just use that as an excuse to stay home and do nothing. Her daughter stayed home from school today and was asleep until close to 3 PM. She tries to wake her up and then just gives up because she complains that she doesn’t want to go to school.

Her daughter is also a hoarder. Her room is unlivable. You can’t walk in there. The floor is covered in trash and random things. Her bathroom is similar.

I feel guilty because I feel like this kid deserves better, and I’ve tried, but all it does is cause this conflict between me and my girlfriend. I can’t do anything in a parental capacity without it backfiring on me every single time. And I see how she is not being an involved mother and it really bothers me.

She takes her to therapy and it hasn’t been doing anything for her. She thinks getting her on medication will help and it just makes her dependent on a pill.

This stuff has been a factor in making me seriously consider ending the relationship. I wish I could do more, but she isn’t legally my child, yet my girlfriend wants to pick and choose when she should be.

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u/Stankassmfgorilla — 2 months ago

AITA for wanting to leave my girlfriend?

My girlfriend and I moved in a little over a year ago and I think it might be the worst decision I’ve ever made. I have felt more miserable and alone with her than I did by myself or even with my ex. I’m seriously considering moving out as soon as I can. Whether it’s breaking the lease (Which would require both of us) or just biding my time and moving out next year when the lease is up.

First off, she is a hoarder. Our house is such a mess and it’s draining for me. I’ve asked her to clean it up and she gets mad at me because she feels like I’m lecturing her. She says I should help sweep and mop but I can’t because her stuff is literally covering the floors all over the house. Our living room, our bedroom, the kitchen, the dining room. All of it. My office is the only room that is not a mess. It’s depressing because I don’t even want to leave my room. It’s overwhelming trying to navigate the mess. She leaves dishes all over the counter as well and it piles up to where I can’t even prepare food.

Her daughter lives with us and she takes after her almost to a T. Her room is even worse and it looks like a homeless person lives in there. It’s genuinely gross.

Anytime I try to make a suggestion to my girlfriend to help her daughter, she just shuts me down and refuses to hear what I have to say. I find this incredibly demeaning and hurtful.

When we argue, she acts the next day as if nothing happened at all. She just goes about the day. She tells me that I hold grudges, but the truth is that there’s no resolution. She just avoids the problem. She acts like everything is fine when it’s not. We’ll fight over something and then she just walks about like it never happened and acts like something is wrong because I’m still upset. I just know nothing will change.

My girlfriend also lived with her mom for many years before we moved in together. I underestimated what kind of effect this would have. I don’t think she ever learned how to actually be an adult. She is too co-dependent. She doesn’t know how to take responsibility and just gets defensive about every single thing. She says I’m being mean when I’m telling her the truth about what bothers me in our home and our relationship. She refuses to change anything.

I just don’t know how much more I can take. I try to be happy in this relationship but I’m just not. She claims that I just want to fight and that’s not it at all. I wish we could communicate but she genuinely doesn’t know how. She literally just walks away when the conversation gets uncomfortable. I’m honest with her about what troubles me in the relationship and somehow it always ends up being my fault.

I genuinely don’t think she is a good girlfriend or a good mom, yet it seems like she just always wants to think she’s in the right. I’ve never once heard her admit she’s wrong about something in an argument. Anytime she’s said sorry, it’s been in a snide manner. I am hopeless at this point for anything to change.

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u/Stankassmfgorilla — 2 months ago