u/Stitj_

i drive a 2010 fit sport and recently iv taken advantage of the S mode and paddle shifters

omg the paddle shifters on the backroads are so fun i’ll downshift into 2nd in a corner and then speeding up is so fun

i love my fih 🥹

so i’m asexual idk fully where i fall on the spectrum all i know is im neutral-repulsed and the only way i could possibly even enjoy sex is if it was with someone im really emotionally close with but even that’s a unlikely and only smth that makes it more appealing

case in point i do like the idea of making out kissing the closeness holding eachother but from what iv seen it’s agreed it usually leads to sex which just doesn’t appeal to me it would have to be with someone i do love and i am close with tho doing it as like a one night thing with someone i dont know very will makes me uncomfortable or grossed out

idk if that’s normal or not or if it places me in a spot on the spectrum but any input would be nice 🫠

so a close friend /crush of mine asked me to prom an without hesitation i said yes

we are both asexual but she isn’t sure where she falls romantically (aromantic, biromantic, hetero, homo,) so there’s kind of a blur for possibilities

anyways later i texted her and asked “hey so about the prom thing are we going as friends a date or smth else?” and she said “like a friends date” iv never been to any dance or been to something like this much less with someone i am interested in so any advice? 😭

like ik the whole be yourself thing but what about things to look out for like hints or signs or just things i should do?

i wanna add i think there is a possibility she is interested in me but she is also naturally kind of flirty we hug (we have even hugged multiple times during goodbyes) we say “love you” “love ya”

anyways ig just any advice or things to look out for im very inexperienced with this kinda stuff