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So i am currently in the process of being assesed and diagnosed, My therapist thinks i have Audhd and ocd but im seeing a psychologist and a psychiatrist actively for assessments!

Now here’s some funny stories from my childhood that make you wonder how my mom deny the fact i’m neurodivergent

Story 1 I broke a toilet. I was doing my buissness and rocking back and forth so hard i broke a toilet. Completely separated it from the floor.

Story 2 I love love love loved trains and she took me to the train museum regularly. One day my grandpa took me instead and 1 i had a meltdown because it wasn’t my mom 2 As soon as we got their i told the worker more about trains then she even knew and i was 8

Story 3 I have a report card from 2nd grade where my teachers feedback was that im too chatty, move to much and “has a thing for rocking”

Story 4 My mom came into my room when i was learning how to sew and she whitnessed me have a complete meltdown because i was struggling to organize my pins my colour and size because my hands hurt from taking them in and out of the pin cushion

story 5 ….. all the awkward fights about how i eiether stare to much or not enough

Please laugh! these are all meant to be funny, no shade to my mama she just didn’t know

Hello everyone i’ve been with my boyfriend for 8 months now (yay!) his name is alex and my name is jess
So here’s the thing. He has always been super super sexual with me, to a really intense degree and i’m not really that sexual due to sexual trauma from when i was a child. But alex said that was the only way he ever felt connected with me, so i eiether let it happen or just said yes even if i didn’t want to because i found if i didn’t he’d keep asking, or say he felt disconnected. (there were times i consented fully don’t worry) And 90% he wouldn’t ask. One time aswell i was severely concussed from hockey and he fucked me to “take my mind off the pain” despite my hesitations and i only said yes after he kept saying it’ll make me feel good. Some people say all of that was SA/rape but it’s kinda a gray area imo because i could’ve said no and it’s my fault for not stopping him. Now here’s the real kicker. He actually SA-ed me a week ago, we were making out, he asked, i said no, he fingered me anyway and i had to push him off of me.
I told him i need space to think about things, and i have, and while this is a huge issue for me i also don’t want to leave him? Most of my friends say he’s a rapist and to leave him but some say they think we can work this out and it’s just made it extremely hard on me because yeah that’s fucking horrific what he did to me but he’s also not hiding it? He’s telling his friends he did it and getting help and support? like booking therapy appointments, self reflecting and telling me ab it and i feel so stuck because

Stay with him, give him a chance and he genuinly gets better but i can’t trust him

leave him, cope w the fact im evil and didn’t give him a chance

I’m struggling so bad i don’t know what to do im so stuck im exploding.
Basically i moved away for work, My boyfriend berated me for ‘abandoning’ him and i gave him shit, it got WAY better and he came to visit.
While he visited he sexually assaulted me.
We were making out, He asked if i wanted to have sex, i said no, he aknowlaged and we started kissing again and he started touching me and fingering me and i had to push him off. I was sexually assaulted as a child and he knows this, he knows it was wrong i’ve given him so much shit and tried to break up with him but we settled on taking a break, It’s hard because he keeps promising change, and i know he can change for the better. So do i trust he’ll never SA me again but also accept the fact i’m choosing to go back to someone who abused me, or do i break up with him and loose him and accept that i didn’t give him the chance to change??? He’s love bombing me like crazy and it’s all fucking with me

Hey guys so i’m a trans man idk how much i fit here but im dating a cis guy and he’s done something really fucked up and i need to know if it is like almost justifiable? My friends say i should give him another chance because he has shown he can change before this

In short, My boyfriend was over and we were kissing and he asked me if i wanted to have sex, I said no, we keep kissing but he Reaches into my pants and starts to finger me, i push him off of me and after that is kinda a blur i’m gonna be honest. But that night we were talking about how bad it was and he justified it by him having a sex addiction, and without his medication he doesn’t listen to anyone and it’s uncontrollable, Some of my friends say to leave him because this isn’t exactly a new behavior some people say it’s kinda justifiable and i don’t know what to do

for context i have been previously sexually abused when i was a child and my boyfriend knows that trust is so very fragile and i’ve only ever trusted him, and now it feels like i can’t

Hey everyone my name is Alex and i am a 16 year old trans man and i have a boyfriend Max who’s a 16 year old cis man.

For context, I was sexually assaulted by my now ex step dad when i was five, i was fortunate enough to have an amazing mom who listened, and got my ex step dad in jail and me help throughout my life. I’m eternally grateful for all my mom did.

Now into this story with my current boyfriend, Max has Really severe ADHD and a really severe porn addiction that has caused hypersexuality (only found this out recently)

Let me set the scene and this may be tmi but i need to know if im just triggered or if this is a genuine issue.

We were making out in the morning, he hadn’t taken his meds. He asked if i wanted to do anything sexual, i said no. He goes on top of me and we’re kissing more it’s fine, untill he starts to touch me between my legs and try to finger me, i can’t say anything because he’s on me so i wighled and pushed him off telling him no.

The rest of the day i felt the most disgusting i’ve ever felt i felt horrible and violated, and i talked to him and told him how fucked it was. But i got some explanation

1 Apparenrlu when he doesn’t take his meds he doesn’t listen what so ever to anyone

2 Severe porn addiction /hypersexuality making him feel like he always has to fuck me

3 i should’ve said something sooner

i feel like im in a really tricky spot because we were fighting and it was finally good untill all of that happened and since then he’s been breaking down with guilt
i just don’t know what to do help

Help! This involves porn addiction and hyper sexuality please read at your own risk

so my boyfriend has been hypersexual for a long time, and we’ve had a lot of conversations about it as i am not hypersexual. But more recently he’s been trying to get over his porn addiction and it’s caused a lot of struggle and issues for the both of us and i’m not sure how to go about supporting him, he is only used to sex from porn and that has lead to a lot of issues of him forgetting when i say no sometimes and i’m not sure how to keep myself safe and support him

Hey everyone! My name is Matt and i’m a 16 year old. And I think I have a sleep disorder, this isn’t some tiktok thing I swear. So july-august of 2025 I noticed I was just really sleepy all the time, I would always take naps on my friends couches and Around that time I got really good at falling asleep FAST im talking I close my eyes for a minute and im asleep and usually they don’t last for more than an hour during that time. I also started showing symptoms of cataplexy around here, there are multiple videos of my friends scaring me and I just fall over completely, or i’m laughing and my hands will go limp. Fast forward to September-December of 2025, School starts And I keep finding in some of my classes I will feel really really sleepy all of a sudden and drowsy, and within five minutes of that feeling fall asleep for an unknown ammount of time, I would always wake up super confused and disoriented, Happened about 1,2 times a week and I was getting around 6-8 hours of sleep. I start talking to my mom about it and she just blames it on me not eating enough. I start to eat more, Bigger meals, more snacks and sometimes eating to the point I was uncomfortable because I didn’t want her to blame it on that again because the sleepysodes wasn’t going away. (sleepy episodes is just what i call them) January-June Schools wrapping up but my sleepysodes are getting worse, I don’t remember how or when I fall asleep I will just wake up, or a friend will tell me I slept through the whole class without realizing and my grades started to tank. I talk to my mom again, and she just tells me I need to engage myself more and try to stimulate myself (tried that, never worked) Now into july I have a job and it’s amazing, but requires a lot of travel between sites. My co worker now has me nicknamed bobble head because apparently i’ve fallen asleep almost every day this week (we’ve had a 2+hour drive to site every day) But I never remember falling asleep, And i was able to push through a sleepysode once. I tell my mom, she says i’m ’just a sleepy guy’ And she’s starting to snap at me.

Here’s the thing tho, i don’t notice excessive daytime sleepyness because i’ve just been tired always?
Additionally sleep Apnea runs in my family, but i don’t snore?
Does anyone have any guidance atleast on how i can manage the sleepysodes? I don’t want to loose my job or have my grades tank again this year

I STARTED AT >!165LBS!<
I HIT >!155LBS!< TODAY AND I WAS SO HAPPY I HAD A TREAT
little did my bitchass know i would go on a full fucking binge and now i’m back at >!160lbs!< i’m so fucking close to exploding

I’ve recently been in a bit of a relapse recently but i’m trying to slowly claw my way out of it
big problem tho. I work outside in the heat in summer. just today i almost puked and fainted on my job site and i have zero heat tolerance it’s not even funny i don’t know what to do i love my job more than anything and my family says my heat intolerance is “proper nutrition” and their catching on

Hey everyone. to keep it short and sweet i’ve been with my boyfriend for a while now as we’re in highschool. He’s graduating next year. I moved away for the summer for work. Hes been freaking out (self proclaiming guilt tripping) about me leaving and how i can’t do it next year. (meanwhile this is the oppertunity of a lifetime.)
So we arrange to call, And he’s late to the call because he’s playing video games
we call, he’s bitching about me being gone the works.
But i don’t know how to tell him i want to go back next year for work, i want to study this in collage (also meaning moving away temporarily) and he keeps loosing it and telling me to do something else because it’s easier and close to home

it feels like im dreaming big and want more than our shitty town and he just dreams of our town, it’s like i’m growing and he’s not

idk i needed to rant because im upset because i feel i can’t talk to him about my career future

I need help, He always makes me feel aweful when he doesn’t take his meds

When his meds wear off, He likes to always make me the bum of the joke, do i js accept it? he hasn’t changed.

I’m not gonna share directly my age but i am in my late teens and so is my boyfriend. My boyfriend is dx with ADHD and has been medicated for a few years, before he knew me. Whenever he doesn’t take his meds, or they wear off at night, he gets really really hurtful and mean. Genuinely. I’ve talked to him multiple times about this and he breaks down about how aweful he feels about the fact i don’t feel comfortable around him anymore but nothing changes.

examples of his behaviors-
Two weeks ago he didn’t take his meds for a day, and all day he was just pointing and laughing at me with his friends (he always does this when he doesn’t take his meds/ they wear off at a party and i always tell him it makes me insecure) and he was taunting me with the fact he has really ugly photos of me. I talked to him, He went on a sobbing rant about how he feels bad for betraying my trust because i’m not comfortable around him.

Tonight, we were playing minecraft(late at night so his meds wore off) And i was talking about how women’s pockets are uncomfortable and i used the analogy of if we have anything in our back pocket it’s like the pea in the mattress story (children’s book) and he kept making jokes about me just being a whiny bitch like the girl in the story’s.

If you want more examples i have a lot these are just what’s nagging at me right now because his behavior isn’t changing. I can’t tell if i should just let it go or not because my mom (has adhd, has been DX for 20+ years) keeps saying it’s cause he’s a teenage boy and disregulated when he doesn’t take his meds. But i don’t know how much longer i can stand being the bum of every joke. This may sound really aweful and im sorry but if i had known he would always be this rude to me when he was off his meds i don’t think i would be with him.

Hey everyone i’m looking to loose fat and get nice and toned. I’m a trans man, any suggestions?

I need advice asap and what to do i’m really struggling with this

(Sexual themes)

At the time of this i had a mild concussion, The kind where you can’t focus, Thinking is slowed, And you feel foggy. I had my boyfriend over, Well call him Goose to keep me company. Goose is very very sexual and has a habit of sexualizing me always, whether i’m changing infront of him or not he’s always trying to grab my Ass. We were cuddling shirtless and i was kinda dozing when goose started kissing my chest, I pulled him back up to lay on me and we had an exchange like this-
“Should i stop?”
“yeah.. just cuddle”
After a while we started play fighting joking and i was saying that My Ass is mine and goose kept joking about “consequences” , I asked what he meant, he kissed me. I have no issues with kissing and what he’s about to do, He starts kissing my back and shoulders and it felt really nice because I didn’t feel sexualized it was just him kissing it better (My concussion is from sports and my backs been sore) and he started kissing down my back towards my Ass, goose said
“Can i take yoh pants off..? I don’t want to touch you i just wanna kiss your legs”
“Sure”
is how i replied, and the kisses felt nice till he started kissing around my thighs and between my legs i pulled him up just to lay on me and goose and i had a conversation that went like this-
“Can i touch you ..? i just want to distract you from your pain”
“we should check the time… i’m getting tired”
“I don’t want to fuck you i just want to make you feel good”
i was quiet for a moment
“sure”
“Are you sure? 100%?”
“Yeah”
I know i consented, but i was very uncomfortable and that is on me for not stopping him and i understand most of this is my fault that’s why i’m trying to get advice to figure out what to do, After this happens goose says
“Do you want to feel me for a bit? just to distract you and make you feel good”
my mind felt so cloudy by this point i just held him to my chest and he asked again
and i said
“no… i feel gross”
his reply and this conversation follows,
“Im sorry.. i only did it to make you feel good and distract you”
“you don’t have to touch me to make me feel good”
“i know i know but your not supposed to feel gross it’s just for you”
“I don’t know i’m sorry… we should’ve checked the time” (he had to leave soon)
“I told you the time when we started it was like ()”
“oh.. i don’t remeber i’m sorry”
“it’s okay but i know i did tell you the time”
I’m just quiet trying to figure out if i was actually crazy, i know i was foggy from the concussion but i wouldn’t have said sure if i knew the time because i need aftercare always i try to joke to make him feel better because he’s upset, and i joke about my butt being mine again, when he grabs my wrists and starts touching me again and i couldn’t fight him back, I told him to stop and he did but it was still terrifying, he soon had to leave because his parents picked him up but it’s been weighing on me since
I can’t tell if i’m crazy, if it’s my fault, or what to do because what i’ve written here is exactly how i remember it, but is my concussion impeding my memory??!! i don’t know what to do i just know im really disgusted with myself and dread seeing him