u/Vee_deVil

i did some searching, may mga countries na need pa uli mag aral gaya ng US. ano po kaya yung mga bansa na iaacknowledge yung educational attainment ko sa philippines? and ano po kaya yung minimum experience required? tumatanggap ko kaya sila ng new board passer or atleast 1yr clinical expi? tyiaaaa!

im a camera seller for around two years already. i am a working student and i support myself using the profit i get from buying and selling cameras.

ive been getting all of my supplies from the past year sa trusted seller ko since i never encountered any issues. i literally see them build cameras from scratch and nakakasalubong ko pa tuwing nag iikot sila tuwing namimili ng sirang parts ng gadgets.

i got a dslr camera and posted it online just like the usual buy and sell routine

this guy messaged me; acted he was going to purchase the camera, got all my personal information and told me that what ive been selling is stolen.

i was cooperative even though he was extremely rude. i reassured him thousand times ill help him but told him to give me time because i have an upcoming quizzes and exam. i was still responsive even though im literally feeding my puppy so was at that time fighting for his life (he died 2hrs ago) while doing my homework.

he messaged me nonstop to the point i missed one the 3 quizzes, as well as running late from my exam just to entertain his concerns because i dont want him to think that im running away.

i literally said “i understand your frustration” over and over because he was extremely rude and treats me like i was the one who stole his item. he even threatened me na kilala nya daw mga generals sa afp and nasakanya daw lahat ng informations ko.

i wanted to comply but gusto nyang mangyari is all the work is on me and uutusan nya lang ako. ill understand sana kung maayos, as basic human decency especially alam naman nya victim rin ako if ever nga na totoong nakaw yung camera, pero ang bastos kausap. he wanted me to give him names, i gave him. but then ayaw nya naman kausapin dahil di nya daw kilala yun, when i dont even know him either?

nagagalit sya sakin dahil daw di ko vineverify if stolen yung binebenta ko. i there even a software to verify stolen vintage cameras?

sabi ko sa kanya, ipick up nya nalang kung saan ko eksatong nabili yung cam, which is tapat lang ng brgy. ill surrender it for free kung mapapatunayan nyang sa kanya talaga. sabi nya daw ayaw nya kasi baka saksakin ko daw sya (he literally knows that im a female college student?) my thought process was if he’s really interested na kunin, edi magdala sya ng pulis or brgy for protection. we waited for hours.

gusto nyang mangyari, ipapalalamove ko yung cam then magppay sya ng 2k “pakunswelo” na daw nya. i literally bought that cam for 4k, sinong papayag don diba? kinausap ko naman yung pinagbilhan ko na willing sya magfull refund sakin kung mapapatunayan nung guy na sya yung may ari then he’ll surrender it ng kusa.

ayaw nya, ultimong call ayaw nya makipag usap. reasoning nya nagsend naman na daw sya ng screenshots, sobrang pixelated naman ng evidence nya so we cannot truly verify. puro sya sabi ng “panginoon na bahala sayo” “gusto mong ipadala ko pa accessories nyan para may pambayad ka tuition mo” sobrang dehumanizing ng mga sinasabi nya, when i literally compromised my academics just so i could entertain him.

niyayabang nya na strict village siamla, pang mayamang village daw. so why no cctv? bakit ako pinapahanap nya ng mga taong di ko kilala?

sabi ko nalang, “kung ayaw mo talaga makipag usap ng maayos, ibabalik ko nalang sa nabilhan ko, kung gusto mong kunin, andito lang sa shop nya yung camera, labas na ako” the owner gave me a full refund and i gave him the exact address of the shop.

im really concerned for my safety especially how he acts and especially he have all of my personal information.

tama ba na sinurrender ko yung cam? kung nasakin rin naman, hindi ko maasikaso dahil 7am-8:30pm everyday class ko.

advise sakin nung mga bystander kanina, magpablotter daw ako for safety especially nakikipag meetup ako minsan sa mga transaction, baka daw ientrapment ako or whatsoever. should i push through with the blotter?

pls help huhu, gusto ko lang naman makapag aral at makapagbayad ng tuition nang marangal😭

i was just so eager na makipag ayos to the point na i ignored every red flags and every rumor na nabalitaan kong pinapakalat nya abt sakin.

nakipag ayos sya but still very distant, na para bang napilitan syang makipag ayos para lang matapos na. kahit na nasa iisang room lang kami, gusto nya sa chat lang mag usap tapos di kami magpapansinan.

then the realizations hit me sa mga ginawa at pinagsasasabi nya before we tried to fix everything. nahurt lang ako so nag drama lang ako sa ig ng vid ko na nag aayos ng buhok with audio na “its not fair” bc the situation she had put me was really unfair.

nabalitaan kong nagparinig sya after nung post ko but naka hide sakin so i aggressively clapped back bc i tried my best to stay silent after all the things na ginawa nya sakin, but she still had the audacity na magparinig. napuno lang ako, but its not really my thing naman na pumatol, i usually leave silently if i feel na im not welcome. now, ako yung nagmumukhang mali bc pinagtutulungan nila ako ng friends nya plus yung jowa nyang g na g magparinig. nagpaparinig sila na “iyosi break mo nalang yan” bc they saw me smoking one time because of my frustrations sa kanila.

i actually regret breaking my peace para lang sa venting post na ginawa ko, pero bawal ba ako mag express ng disappointment sa mga nangyari? aminado akong nagmukha akong immature. its my first time to express what i feel, and somehow, it still feels wrong.

oa lang ba ako na “sinira” ko uli yung “inayos” namin?

for context, my friend and i had a misunderstanding for the past 4 months, and last month lang kami nagkaroon ng opportunity to talk about it. mind you, i was the one who reached out, bc she really had no plans at all, i was really eager to fix the friendship to the point i ignored the red flags.

i thought everything was going fine na after the talk, but she still refuses to hang out with me or even talk to me personally, kahit na nasa iisang room kami, gusto nya via chat lang kami mag usap.

she told me na ayaw daw nya/nila ako kasama bc nagccigs daw ako, when she’s literally the reason why i came back using cigs, nastress ako dahil sya yung reason bakit lumayo sakin mga tao, she used to spread rumors noong di kami okay without me knowing (dinisregard ko yung mga narinig ko na sinisiraan nya ako because i really trusted her), and now she’s blaming my vice for not befriending me again. that cig is the reason i stay sane. ang hypocrite lang kasi pfp nya, cigarettes and lighter hahaha

the more na im drowning with my loneliness, the more na marami akong narrealize, na unfair pala sa side ko yung ginawa nya at mga nangyayari sakin. sumabay pa na nagpost sila how happy they are celebrating one of our friend’s bday, so it felt heavier.

just out of nowhere, naisipan ko na magvent sa stories ko, its just a clip of me fixing my hair with the audio “its not fair” and a caption “wdym you get to keep our friends when you literally said worst?”

i just found it unfair na i got kicked out of our friend group for the most random phrase, when she literally said the most brutal, unfriendliest remarks toward one of our kindest friend.
ex. calling our friend “r word (rtrd)” , “hindi ko nga kakaibiganin yan kung wala lang silbi”

then the next day, she posted a story about “you’re just mad im not miserable you wish id be”

i mean, yes? youre far much worse than me. so i think you deserve much more than my suffering. just so you know, she me made me lose all the people around me.

i mean, i can survive the academics alone, but im pretty sure socialization is still necessary for this kind of stressful environment, and she took that away from me. im just really mad bc i tried my best to be the kindest person, helped everyone, even those who only knew me when they needed something, and i was still put through this hell just because of her words

then she posted another story, “might wanna address your problem instead of staying silent”

GIRL. i was filled with anxiety, imagine, 10+ kami sa friend group tapos no one even reached out sakin? tapos malalaman ko kaya pala walang gustong mag reach out kasi siniraan na nya ako hahaha.

super walang kwenta pa nung napili nyang phrase for my downfall kuno. “naniwala ka naman?” that’s literally it. the way she made it sound is like nilait ko isa isa yung mga members sa group e hahaha idek pano nya namanipulate mga yon para maoffend sa ganyang phrase when its literally just me not giving a sht sa issue ng ibang kaklase namin, to which i don’t even partake haha. its just my sentiments since di naman ako namimili ng side dahil wala akong pake hahaha, idk pano nya napalabas na offensive yon

super nakakatawa lang kasi noong nag usap kami, sabi pa nya, “gusto ko talagang makipagbati as in” pero after my realizations, she had no plans na makipag ayos, kasi pagka laylow ko sa friend group namin, siniraan nya agad ako

yung post ko is visible sa kanya, hoping na mag reach out sya if ever na she’s really concerned. ang akin naman, tanggap ko na na our friendship is beyond fixing, so ang tema ko nalang is magdrama then ill move on na, gusto ko lang rin magshare ng sentiments if ever bc i just really found it unfair.

nagulat lang ako na nagpaparinig na pala sya, pero nakahide sakin haha, sinend lang sakin ng mutuals namin. then now that i clapped back again, pinagtutulungan nila ako, yung taong sinabihan nya ng kung anu-ano, tinolerate lang rin sya.

tbh, i really regret na i clapped back, at sa social media pa (kahit na 50 followers lang ako) bc that’s not who i really am, plus aminado ako na nagmukha talaga akong immature doon. imbis na anxiety ko nalang kalaban ko, dumagdag pa sa isipin ko yung ibang tao. maybe because i was enraged sa mga parinig nya, sumabay pa yung frustrations sa hell week.

pero after i clapped back, nawala rin agad yung galit ko, kaya ngayon im full of regrets, though i just tried to stand up for myself bc no one else did, ang stressful lang rin talaga ng pinasok ko. feel ko pa ako yung masama at mali dahil lahat ng kaibigan namin is tinolerate sya.

noon natakot pa ako na sabihin yung mga pinagsasasabi nya kasi i thought she’d lose our friends, naawa ako sa kanya bc im certain na she wont survive college nang walang tumutulong sa kanya academically. eitherway ittolerate parin naman pala sya, sayang lahat ng considerations ko sa kanya (which is super unfair because i was never considered by any of them at all)

OA ba ako para magparinig uli dahil medyo late yung realizations ko?

goodeve, everyone! first time namin magssolo long ride ng partner ko later midnight and nagooverthink ako in terms of safety.

usually kasi kasama namin mga friends namin, pero this time kasi relatives ang pupuntahan namin kaya kaming dalawa lang.

how do you get over with anxiety in terms of safety?

especially ang dami kong nakikita sa socmed ngayon na crimes involving riders. super disturbed ako since yesterday noong napanood ko yung move it rider na namurder and holdap.

like, super dami kong what if. kunwari what if maholdap habang traffic/stoplight and yung bystander effect na what if walang tumulong if ever may mangyari ganon

first time ko manakawan recently so yung anxiety ko sa crimes is through the roof talaga. please help, huhu gusto ko ng peace of mind sa first solo long ride namin🙏🏻

my dad gave me an ipad to use for my studies wayback 2024. im in my third year now and the ipad is really necessary especially for my research.

i got home from vacation yesterday at 6pm and i just realized today that it was lost when i woke up at 2pm. i woke up late because of tiredness and jetlag.

i thought my brother just borrowed my iPad because my purse is still with the bag it was in. not until we realized it was totally gone.

when i checked its located, it was last pinged at a subway 25hrs ago. the ipad was stolen and was last seen at 7pm. i was already asleep at that time so there's no way that was me.

i know there's no way i can retrieve it especially im in a third world country.

what's in my mind is that,

👉🏻 1. should I tell him because he has the right to know it (and me as someone who doesn't really like hiding things)

👉🏻 2. don't tell him (my brother said that the ipad doesn't really concern my dad since its not his property and he's really chill so he won't be bothering to ask where's my ipad)

but what also tears me apart is that if i tell him, he could help me get a replacement if he's in the mood. because i really need it for my studies as soon as possible.

though as a trying hard to be an independent daughter, i could get it myself but it'll took me a while because i just bought my new phone with my own money. I'll be more than half way finishing my studies by the time I'm able to get one.

so.. tell him or not?

my xiaomi pad 6 got stolen, the wifi is off and i cant remember my xiaomi account.

i was from vacation so the tablet was just used for offline activities. the last place that was visible is from the province i was.

is there any chance to retrieve my mi pad 6?

sa jac liner website, tatlo yung option na pagbiyahe ng lucena;
—lucena grand
—lucena dalahican p2p
—lucena p2p
alin po kayang biyahe pipiliin/sasakyan namin? TYIA

hi! desperately need your helppp, bukas na yung biyahe namin papuntang pagbilao for my birthday.

ang turo samin is sumakay ng bus sa kamias jac liner papuntang lucena tapos magjeep papuntang pagbilao

bale two questions:

1. sa jac liner website, tatlo yung option na pagbiyahe ng lucena;

—lucena grand

—lucena dalahican p2p

—lucena p2p

alin po kayang biyahe pipiliin/sasakyan namin?

2. may mga nagsasabi na 24hrs daw biyahe ng jac liner, pero sa site nila 12am and 4am/6am nalang biyahe nila. plan sana namin mga 2am bumiyahe. 24hrs parin po ba or limited nalang talaga trips nila?

THANK YOU IN ADVANCEEEE!!!

hi! desperately need your helppp, bukas na yung biyahe namin papuntang pagbilao for my birthday.

ang turo samin is sumakay ng bus sa kamias jac liner papuntang lucena tapos magjeep papuntang pagbilao

bale two questions:

1. sa jac liner website, tatlo yung option na pagbiyahe ng lucena;

—lucena grand

—lucena dalahican p2p

—lucena p2p

alin po kayang biyahe pipiliin/sasakyan namin?

2. may mga nagsasabi na 24hrs daw biyahe ng jac liner, pero sa site nila 12am and 4am/6am nalang biyahe nila. plan sana namin mga 2am bumiyahe. 24hrs parin po ba or limited nalang talaga trips nila?

THANK YOU IN ADVANCEEEE!!!

hello, ask ko lang po if nagpuputol ba agad ng internet si converge?

usually kasi every 29th of the month ako nagbabayad, kasi june 30 yung deadline. kapag nagbabayad ako via gcash/shopee, mabilis naman ang posting.

im a new user of maribank and nagandahan ako sa kanya so i tried paying via maribank. i thought mabilis lang rin since parang magkapatid naman sila ni shopee.

nagtaka ako ilang oras na, no posting parin. akala ko mali yung details na nailagay ko or what. dito ko nabasa sa reddit na 2-5 days daw ang posting if maribank payment.

sabi sa email that service will be suspended if payment has not been made by june 30. agad agad ba talaga silang magputol ng internet if ever? really anxious since wfh pa naman ako😔

hello, ask ko lang po if nagpuputol ba agad ng internet si converge?

usually kasi every 29th of the month ako nagbabayad, kasi june 30 yung deadline. kapag nagbabayad ako via gcash/shopee, mabilis naman ang posting.

im a new user of maribank and nagandahan ako sa kanya so i tried paying via maribank. i thought mabilis lang rin since parang magkapatid naman sila ni shopee.

nagtaka ako ilang oras na, no posting parin. akala ko mali yung details na nailagay ko or what. dito ko nabasa sa reddit na 2-5 days daw ang posting if maribank payment.

sabi sa email that service will be suspended if payment has not been made by june 30. agad agad ba talaga silang magputol ng internet if ever? really anxious since wfh pa naman ako😔

ano po kayang magandang brand ng helmet yung magaan and mura? sumasakit kasi batok ko sa bigat ng spyder na helmet, dagdag pa yung tagtag ng motor kaya talagang bugbog yung batok ko huhu. if may massuggest rin po kayo na brand na talagang light-weight/for women, baka for men itong helmet dito sa bahay kaya sobrang bigat. TYIA for the suggestions!

hello! balita ko nag stop production na daw ang aerox v3 kaya ginagawa na ng mga casa na for installment lahat, di na sila tumatanggap ng cash & credit card payment.

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ask ko lang ano kaya magandang alternative sa aerox or mas better na choice? my choices are:

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-adv

-nmax

-pcx

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suggest po kayo if ever may iba pa kayong marerecommend and ano pros & cons

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if ever rin po baka may alam kayo na casa near qc/mnl na tumatanggap ng straight credit card payment (sayang kasi points hehe) TYIA!

i took my CDE this morning and aced the exam. akala ko same day rin yung practical exam based sa mga nababasa ko dito, but sabi nung staff dun, balik daw ako next week/after 7 days. maaga naman akong natapos, around 8am tapos na ako mag exam, bakit po kaya need na 7 days pa? bagong policy ba nila yun?

hi! i just recently bought a pre-loved camera, its a sony a350.

i noticed it somehow makes this noise whenever i open it, and also everytime when i click capture, it makes the same noise again. it sounds like a vibration / like when the lens are auto focusing or adjusting it self.

to turn the sound off, id have to switch it from MF to AF then MF again. i didnt notice this kind of sound when i was checking it where it bought it. i was thinking if is normal for a dslr camera or i pressed a button or accidentally did something to it (no, i did not dropped it) any suggestions and advices are appreciated, TYSM!