▲ 10 r/detrans

should I detransition?

I've been lurking here and now I feel like I'm the kind of person that should detransition. I'm mostly ftm, and I haven't medically transitioned at all. I've socially transitioned online, and I feel like I'm supposed to go back to being a girl. I want to be a man, but now I feel like I'm just a mentally ill girl.

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u/WilfurDeer — 6 days ago
▲ 12 r/plural

is it fine to still use singular pronouns after realizing I'm a system?

so, I recently figured out what being a system is and I realized I am one. I still use singular pronouns, since typically when I'm talking I'm talking for myself, the host. whenever it's one of my headmates talking, they use I/me/my too. is that okay?

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u/WilfurDeer — 13 days ago
▲ 36 r/TransChristianity+1 crossposts

Please pray for my partner

I posted this in transchristianity because I feel safer here, please pray for her. I just found out she wants to shoot herself. she said one of her friends might have killed themself, and she wants to. she didn't say it directly to me, and she thinks I wouldn't care. please help me pray for her, I love her so much and I don't want her to die.

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u/WilfurDeer — 18 days ago

Can someone help me find a tamandua plush?

I'm a tamandua therian, and I want to have my pup as a plush. I can't find any tamandua plushes and no one is really helping. I've seen a beautiful one from sun arrow but I can't find it anywhere and it's no longer being made.

u/WilfurDeer — 19 days ago
▲ 40 r/lgballt

Cameos for a comic!

Hi, I'm gonna make my first comic so it might be a bit shitty. but I wanna put other people's ballsonas in this comic! I need about 15, or maybe a bit more or less. if you fall under any of these umbrella terms, you can have your ballsona in this comic.

sapphic

achillean

non-binary

transgender

I need about 3-5 for each term.

edit: oops, I forgot to add, if you have a ballsona you want to look a certain way, link an image or post so I can have a referance.

edit 2: alright, I'm not done with the sketch yet, but the comic will be done in a few days to a week.

u/WilfurDeer — 22 days ago
▲ 152 r/mha

Things that will never happen

I saw a post that was exactly this, but all queer ships. so here's what you get, hope you like it!

here's all the reason why I'd say these aren't happening!

kirimina: no clear interest in each other, plus mina has canonically never been in love.

todomomo: no clear interest in each other, and momo seems to be in love with jiro

kacchako: you people love using izuocha as anti-bakudeku, so guess what, I can use it too.

ojiro x hagakure: this is just to mock you since you put momojiro in it

kamijiro: they literally said they're just friends.

all of this art is official or from the anime, so you can't take it down for no credit, and seeing as the other one was fine this one is too.

u/WilfurDeer — 25 days ago
▲ 30 r/lgballt

New Ballsona!

ball: demiboy/gender/girl

hair: it's just hair

left ear: non-binary/multigender

right ear: transmasc/sapphic

drips: genderfluid

tail: xenogender (I have two but the flags are complex)

wing version:

top left: gaybian + bi bottom

bottom left: agender

top right: fictionkin (I needed another flag)

bottom left: grayremantic

u/WilfurDeer — 25 days ago

Why I would not date a trans person

I have a partner and I don't wanna cheat on her.

>!If I wasn't dating her I'd date a trans person. I did once and she was amazing.!<

u/WilfurDeer — 1 month ago

NEW Toga Subreddit Without AI

I'm currently working on a new subreddit for Himiko without any AI images allowed. I'm new to being a moderater, so it'll be a bit hard, but if you want to be a mod, message me.

the subreddit is r/TheTogaCult

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u/WilfurDeer — 1 month ago

They got their name/gender!

Their new name is Suneater. I put all the names I was suggested (on reddit and irl) into a wheel and got that name.

They are agender and I chose they/them pronouns.

u/WilfurDeer — 2 months ago

Help me re-name them please

Their old name was Bunny, but it doesn't really feel like them. they were a girl, but also I'm thinking of making them a boy. basically, I wanna redo them entirely. please help me re-name them.

also any idea how I could get nail polish off of their nose?

u/WilfurDeer — 2 months ago

Can I be sapphic if I'm transmasc?

I'm not trans male entirely, and my gender is a bit complicated but I am mostly transmasc. I'm multigender, one of my genders is demiboy, but another one is demigirl. do I count as sapphic? I've identified as bi for a while, and I'm attracted to women/fem genders.

basically, I'm a demigirl but also other genders (including demiboy) and I wanna know if I count as sapphic.

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u/WilfurDeer — 2 months ago

This subreddit has started making me uncomfortable.

I joined this subreddit because I love toga, and she's one of my kintypes. but this subreddit isn't just people who like toga. almost everyone here is obsessed with marrying or dating her and 60% of the art is ai. that kind of stuff makes me uncomfortable and sad

I'm probably gonna leave this place soon, idk why I'm posting this.

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u/WilfurDeer — 2 months ago
▲ 45 r/ClanGen

This made me cry.

Hollykit went missing a while ago, and I've been requesting to look for him every moon sense then. he just died.

His siblings are gonna grow up. they're already apps. Greenstar won't even know her kit died.

u/WilfurDeer — 2 months ago