u/Yehor-Bashaiev

I am 22 year old ukrainian currently living in czech republic. I finished my bachalor here and now i started my magister.

I have a lot of guilt and heavy feelings in the last couple weeks. First of all living the city where i studied my bachalor was so depressing. So many friends and memories i made there and it all passed so quickly. I feel very lonley and sad right now and have been crying a lot recently.

On top of it all i have never had a job, exept for 2 month part - time this summer. My dad trying my best so that i could have a better future. He is currently in ukraine and he works as a sinior developer from home. Recently his health got worse due to the stress (he is 53). I decided to find a part job again to help me and him. However i feel so much guilt for not duing it earlier and this guilt kills me.

I decided to wrote all this down here, cause i wanted to let it out somewhere. I know that I cannot get back in time and I cannot undo the past. So i have to change my life: Improve my health my life and my finsnces.

It just... it was so hard recently and I miss him so much. I havent seen him for 5 years now. Feel free to write your thoughts or recomendations.

P.S. i dont know if it is okay to write in this community tgis type of post. So sorry for all of your loses.

I need advice

Context:

I recently finished my bachelor's degree and have been living in a dormitory for 3 years now. I am also a refugee from Ukraine; I finished my bachelor's in the Czech Republic and am now continuing my studies here while keeping my room in the dorm. For the record i also speak both czech and englush languge and ukrainian.

​Situation:

I have a couple of friends—a boyfriend and girlfriend—who are tolerant and truly good people. However, I have many issues with them due to our differing worldviews. After what happened in Ukraine, I can no longer be that easy-going person who plans far into the future. I am more in a "survival mode" as an immigrant. I genuinely feel like I have changed and really don't want to talk with them anymore. But life has taught me that connections are very important, and sadly, I don't have many. On top of that for cople years i chose to cut parts of me to adapt to the culture and i feel like it was a wrong move too.

Question:

​What should I do? I realize that maybe this questio sounds childish or very naive, but I struggle with building connections between people and have of lack confidence. So for me hard to make a decition. And we will still meet each other even during magister.

My honest opinion on Spider-Man: Brand New Day

This movie is a great Spider-Man story and a fantastic cinematic achievement. The camera work is fantastic, the CGI is truly peak, and the action is top-tier.

​My personal, subjective issue with this movie is that the whole time I felt like I had already seen this movie. At this point, I have watched 11 Spider-Man movies: Sam Raimi's trilogy, Marc Webb's films, Tom Holland's movies, and the two animated films.

​I think this movie is just a classic coming-of-age dpider man story, incredibly similar to Spider-Man 2 with Tobey Maguire. I also think that the trailers showed way too much in my opinion.

​I feel like if this is your second or third Spider-Man movie, or if you are an OG Spider-Man fan, you will really enjoy it. For me, it was just something I had already seen before.

​The truly emotional moment for me was with the Hulk, since I hadn't seen this character portrayed this well since the Avengers movies. (Want for him to have a solo film now😁😁😁)

​Minor spoiler here: >!Another personal issue is the villain. I really wanted a real Spider-Man villain showcase like Tombstone, but Sadie's character wasn't much of a villain, and I really missed someone like Lex Luthor from the recent Superman film.!<

​So, I would give this movie an 8/10. Objectively, it is a fantastic work of art; I just truly didn't feel many emotions through the movie due to my experience.