u/chesh1recandy

I’m a neurodivergent individual that has ocd tendencies. I don’t prefer meeting strangers and I prefer my own space that other people don’t touch. I am highly motivated and intelligent and would like to get into copy typing or data entry. Has anyone done this? I’m dependable. I have internet and computers that I can use. I’ve only ever used Google Docs before and I would like to get started using Microsoft Word. Does anyone have any tips or advice on using it? Thank you!

For context, I am a young adult cis ace woman. Most days I want a smaller cup size (I’m a 36 b). I wish I don’t have them sometimes. Sometimes I just want them to be barely there. Other days I want them gone. I feel like I want to wear compression shirts without any chest in the way. I don’t like to conform to the regular standards of gender. Like femininity and masculinity. I was homeschooled growing up, and I learned to dress how I liked. Which meant I wore comfy sporty clothes, or button ups with ankle length pants, etc. I have alternative haircuts that most of the time are quite androgynous or some would say masculine. I am asexual. Working on whether or not I’m aromantic as well (I’m pretty sure I am). Anyways, I just feel like I don’t really like the term “woman”. I don’t feel like it fits me. Also, I don’t feel like a man. I sometimes identify with the feeling of maybe she/they. But I also feel like I don’t embrace regular feminine qualities like more dresses, longer hair, etc. I can’t seem to quite figure out how I identify. I don’t feel like a man. I feel more like a woman. But I also don’t really feel like a “woman”. If that makes sense? Growing up I always ran around outside without thinking about my gender. I would run with my cousins without a shirt as a kid and I would mess around all the time with games and stuff. When I started my period, it was traumatizing. It felt like a horrible wake up call. My body started changing, and I felt like it didn’t match my face. Anyways, any advice?

I’d love to find some books suggestions that feature makeup used in a magical way, or gowns used to disguise, become invisible, charm, etc. thank you! If there’s romance I don’t mind!

I’d like to bring home some tea for my house, and I wasn’t sure where to get some intriguing kinds!

I’d love to find some great shops to go to as a first timer!

I’d love to check out some speakeasies in New Orleans but I can’t drink due to being underage and I take a medication that interacts badly with alcohol. Any suggestions where they serve mocktails?

My family and I are visiting in October. This is the first time I’ve ever gone! I’d love some great Restaraunt recommendations that are non touristy and delicious! Thank you!

My family and I are going to New Orleans in a October and I would love some recommendations that are hidden gems/intriguing/mysterious/fun places to visit in New Orleans! I’d love recommendation for restaurants, (that aren’t big tourist traps) best desserts to get at specific restaurants, hidden places that aren’t well known to go to like museums, shops, thrift stores, herb shops, speakeasies, etc. Thank you!

My mom and I want to join a book club that is inclusive and welcoming. We’ve lived in st Charles for about two years and are wanting to branch out more. Thank you!

I’m trying to find a book club that is all ages (but hopefully includes some young adults like me and also people in their 50s like my mom). Anyways, if you guys have any suggestions, let me know! Btw I’m LGBTQ and my mom is an ally.

I’m wanting to get a double nose piercing (one on each side) this week or next week, and I’d love to find a place that uses implant grade titanium flat back jewelry, has good reviews, etc. anyways, my budget is $50-$120. Thank you!

The total cost is $50, which includes the jewelry, piercing, etc. I want to tip them, but I’m unsure what should be the correct amount! I’m getting two nose piercings (one on either side). Any advice?

Lmk any tips or tricks for getting it pierced! Any advice is welcome! I’m so excited!!!

To explain, what is one thing that makes you horrified about sex? I’ll go first: HOW DO PEOPLE DO THE DEED IN MOVIES AND THEN NOT SCRUB THEMSELVES IN THE SHOWER? YOUR HANDS WERE PLACES I DONT WANT TO KNOWWWW

It happened about two years ago for me. I was always uncomfortable with the idea of sex, if not outright disgusted. When I went through puberty, I started getting curious, and unfortunately found my way onto WATTPAD at 14 (bad idea looking back on it lol). I questioned whether I wanted it or not. Getting older, my hormones calmed down and I don’t really have a sex drive. Sure, I think about it sometimes, have those feelings. Never for another person. Anyways, I realized two years ago that the term asexual was extremely fitting for me. I don’t want sex. I don’t want to date really. I don’t like the concept for myself. I’m fine reading or watching tv with smut, and I don’t care what others do. It’s just not for me!

Like why do people say that asexual people write smut and romance well?

This week I’m getting two nose piercings (one on each side). I want to eventually (once they heal) connect it with a chain for a more alternative look. Any advice for getting two nose piercings at the same time?

I need advice on the best places to go, best restaurants, etc. hidden gems that most tourists don’t know about…. I’ve never been and I’d love to see what makes New Orleans so special!