u/glazingstars

I am 24, and I always felt I was grasping for air when I eat dry food / some type of food. I always have to have a water bottle beside me otherwise I always feel food stuck in the esophageal area causing me pain and trouble breathing.

I just became aware of a surgery so to speak, where it apparently fixes this problem permanentely, anyone with knowledge on this or had this treated using this technique?

I am 24, and I always felt I was grasping for air when I eat dry food / some type of food. I always have to have a water bottle beside me otherwise I always feel food stuck in the esophageal area causing me pain and trouble breathing.

I just became aware of a surgery so to speak, where it apparently fixes this problem permanentely, anyone with knowledge on this or had this treated using this technique?

I am 24, and I always felt I was grasping for air when I eat dry food / some type of food. I always have to have a water bottle beside me otherwise I always feel food stuck in the esophageal area causing me pain and trouble breathing.

I just became aware of a surgery so to speak, where it apparently fixes this problem permanentely, anyone with knowledge on this or had this treated using this technique?

I am planning to leave Canada soon, and have my RRSP investments, just wondering if I can convert them to the country I am moving to (UAE), or i need to withdraw?

I want to be as close as possible to ronaldo but cant afford tickets, where as some good places to go?

I have no friends to go with will go to toronto to watch it with whoever is there.

I am Palestinian and we have the habit of having extravagent weddings where there is music and dancing and inviting every person you know and dont know.

i hate this, i dont want to invite even some relatives that i dont like or feel like i am close to, why spend soo much money on this stuff just for some people to come and talk about your or your spouse?

I am actually worried about this topic when I go to meet her family, should I mention this the first time we meet, that I am not doing a big wedding?

I am Palestinian and we have the habit of having extravagent weddings where there is music and dancing and inviting every person you know and dont know.

i hate this, i dont want to invite even some relatives that i dont like or feel like i am close to, why spend soo much money on this stuff just for some people to come and talk about your or your spouse?

Curious, if I keep plucking hairs that I do not want to have, is there a possiblity of it being weaker and thinner in the future as I grow older?

Male, have been thinking of starting to look for a wife inshAllah, but how do I know if I am ready?

I will present my life as short as possible, and you can dictate and advice me:

- I live in Canada, my family are in the middle east in GCC, I am planning to leave Canada early next year to start my life over there inshAllah

- I have a canadian yearly amount of salary saved, had more but lost it investing in crypto, trying to move on from it and learned my lesson of impulsiveness

- All my life, I have been known to be impulsive and not take crap from people, meaning someone messes with my family, religion, or disrespect me I fight immediately. Alhamdulilah I have improved alot lately, and planning to keep improving

- I sometimes suffer from sleep insomnia, and it started after my family left me alone in Canada, and found my mind racing over multiple things I have to do.

- I pray all my prayers on time, sometimes fajr I miss because of laziness so I end up not waking up. other religious duties, not as good, I do bare minimum, only fast Ramadan, give zakat, and sadaqah here and there. When it comes to sunnah prayers, adhkar, etc I am really away from it and its sad, but I literally can not, while living the life I am living here in Canada, everything is fast paced.

- I am left handed, I stuggle to eat with my right, unless its with a spoon I keep reminding myself.

- I never had relationships with women, alot of my friends go out with them, and encourage me, but I have weird chest pain when I think about haram relationships.

- I struggle with lowering gaze, mostly because I have no one around, and after work I got nothing to do, so scrolling on social media to kill time.

Only thing I want my wife to have is the following:

- she is religious (and religious more than me, even better if Quran hafiz. I want a marriage where both of us help each other elevate in good deeds), a clean past, hijabi, skinny. dont care too much about looks.

based on what I wrote does this seem mature from me to proceed?

I am a man, just turned 25 years. And have been thinking of starting to look for a wife inshAllah, but how do I know if I am ready?

I will present my life as short as possible, and you can dictate and advice me:

- I live in Canada, my family are in the middle east in GCC, I am planning to leave Canada early next year to start my life over there inshAllah

- I have a canadian yearly amount of salary saved, had more but lost it investing in crypto, trying to move on from it and learned my lesson of impulsiveness

- All my life, I have been known to be impulsive and not take crap from people, meaning someone messes with my family, religion, or disrespect me I fight immediately. Alhamdulilah I have improved alot lately, and planning to keep improving

- I sometimes suffer from sleep insomnia, and it started after my family left me alone in Canada, and found my mind racing over multiple things I have to do.

- I pray all my prayers on time, sometimes fajr I miss because of laziness so I end up not waking up. other religious duties, not as good, I do bare minimum, only fast Ramadan, give zakat, and sadaqah here and there. When it comes to sunnah prayers, adhkar, etc I am really away from it and its sad, but I literally can not, while living the life I am living here in Canada, everything is fast paced.

- I am left handed, I stuggle to eat with my right, unless its with a spoon I keep reminding myself.

- I never had relationships with women, alot of my friends go out with them, and encourage me, but I have weird chest pain when I think about haram relationships.

- I struggle with lowering gaze, mostly because I have no one around, and after work I got nothing to do, so scrolling on social media to kill time.

Only thing I want my wife to have is the following:

- she is religious (and religious more than me, even better if Quran hafiz. I want a marriage where both of us help each other elevate in good deeds), a clean past, hijabi, skinny. dont care too much about looks.

based on what I wrote does this seem mature from me to proceed?

Thinking of starting ab workouts, especially ab wheel roll out to help with PE, anyone tried it and if so did you find results?

I guess this is more targeted for men who are average to heavier side, rather than skinny.

I am 24, 5'10" and 170lbs yet my stomach isnt flat, I have fat all around, even though i eat healthy (no junk food or soft drinks or alcohol).

I sit in office for 9 hours a day and just lay down after work for the whole day unless I am going to gym.

I do workout like 3 times a week at the gym, full body workouts, and overall happy with my build until it comes to my stomach that isnt flat, and I am somewhat insecure to walk top less at the beach because of it.

24m, need to spice things up and start learning how to give her a nice sexy massage, my friends back in high school days used to pay me for massaging their traps and shoulder 😅, but I actually want to translate that to women now. Tips I am looking for:

1. Areas to focus on more

2. How long should massaging each area be? How long should total session length be?

3. Should I use oil?

4. How to grip with my hands on her body?

Thanks!

24m, need to spice things up and start learning how to give her a nice sexy massage, my friends back in high school days used to pay me for massaging their traps and shoulder 😅, but I actually want to translate that to women now. Tips I am looking for:

1. Areas to focus on more

2. How long should massaging each area be? How long should total session length be?

3. Should I use oil?

4. How to grip with my hands on her body?

Thanks!

Salam, I am 25m, and I am somewhat religious though I want an extremely religious wife, which I am finding somewhat hypocritical, since she probably deserves someone more religious.

I only pray my 5 prayers, fast ramadan, and give zakat, thats basically it, I dont do anything extra, its sad, but this is mostly my power because of the environment in the west and how everything is fast-paced, and my chase for making money.

my requirements is for her to be hijabi, prays her prayers, lowers gaze (which I dont always do sadly), patient (which I also am not, I get into lots of arguments/fights in public).

sorry it may seem like a rant, but I actually want advice on whether I am being a hyprocite by wanting a somewhat perfect muslim wife when I just do the minimum, part of this is because I believe I can become a better one if someone holds my hands in this journey, and it worked when I went back to the middle east and had good people around me, even here in Canada my religious friends had good impact on me before they left, now I am left with no one around.

I am 24, and want to find a cologne to own and I want it to be a good masculine cologne.

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Fahrenheit was amazing back when I was a kid, and apparently better in the 80s and 90s, but sadly its not the same anymore.

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Any good ones?

I have a good barber, but to be honest the haircut is $35, and dont want to make it 40$ by giving a tip. Am I rude if I dont give him a tip?

Shopping and want to buy me some henley shirts as I am coming to Toronto this weekend. Where can I find good places to find them?