CMV: “Love over lust” is a myth
Other than reproduction, sex is primarily for pleasure between partners. The purpose is to make you feel good. Of course love and sex can coexist, but it’s impossible to have sex without any desire (lust.) If you have absolutely no desire, then it’s very difficult to have sex. If you don’t like the way sex feels and the benefits it gives you, you wouldn’t do it. If you want intimacy with your partner but no lust, simply just kiss or hug and do non-sexual acts.