CMV: “Love over lust” is a myth

Other than reproduction, sex is primarily for pleasure between partners. The purpose is to make you feel good. Of course love and sex can coexist, but it’s impossible to have sex without any desire (lust.) If you have absolutely no desire, then it’s very difficult to have sex. If you don’t like the way sex feels and the benefits it gives you, you wouldn’t do it. If you want intimacy with your partner but no lust, simply just kiss or hug and do non-sexual acts.

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u/phoebaeee1 — 10 days ago

Sex can’t be 100% not lustful

Other than reproduction, sex is primarily for pleasure between partners. The purpose is to make you feel good. Of course love and sex can coexist, but it’s impossible to have sex without any desire (lust.) If you have absolutely no desire, then it’s very difficult to have sex. If you don’t like the way sex feels and the benefits it gives you, you wouldn’t do it.

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u/phoebaeee1 — 12 days ago

DAE have a really boring high school?

My hometown high school had no cheer team, football and lacrosse were the only popular sports, and homecoming wasn’t a big deal at all. There was no high school teenage dream. Mind you this is in a very wealthy town and there are no financial barriers

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u/phoebaeee1 — 12 days ago

TIL that the Gen Z/millennial name Hannah is older than the traditional name Ann/Anne

This doesn’t make sense to me. Why is Ann seen as an old name with traditional Catholic roots but Hannah is seen as a young, modern name tied to Millennials/Gen Z?

u/phoebaeee1 — 18 days ago

Why don’t coaches cancel when it rains?

In HS, it could be pouring rain with clouds but coaches still don’t cancel. The wet conditions make it very difficult to keep going.

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u/phoebaeee1 — 1 month ago
▲ 2 r/Ethics

Is it impossible to be completely flawless (ethically/morally?)

Almost anything you do in daily life can be considered unethical. From the clothing you buy to the furniture in your home.

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u/phoebaeee1 — 2 months ago
▲ 83 r/Frat

You can say “no” and that’s enough

If you’re at a crazy frat party, and everyone’s doing it, you have the autonomy to say no. You don’t have to engage in dangerous behavior. If you feel pressured to participate, a school with a crazy Greek-life culture isn’t the right fit for you.

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u/phoebaeee1 — 2 months ago

What are some Asian-American names you always see?

I always see John, Nicholas, Ethan, or Sean, for boys. For girls, I haven’t met anyone named Joyce, Jenny, Esther, Eunice, or Nicole who isn’t Asian.

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u/phoebaeee1 — 2 months ago

How to make The Format friends in my area?

Hi all. I live in the New York area and I’ve been looking for friends who like The Format. Our fandom is so small yet so dedicated.

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u/phoebaeee1 — 2 months ago

Do Asian people actually have sex? I've always been highly convinced that they don't

I’m not Asian, but I know that the topic is taboo in Asian culture. Therefore, it makes it seem like Asians don't do it. Not being racist, but I've only ever pictured white people when I think of sex. Is it just me?

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u/phoebaeee1 — 2 months ago

Is Mel Robbins (and other life coaches!) actually a phony?

I did some research and found out that she has no expertise/degree in psychology, which makes me skeptical. But after all, she’s making bank

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u/phoebaeee1 — 2 months ago
▲ 11 r/hapas

Why do white men marry immigrant Asian women if they have nothing in common? (Values, family, culture, languages)

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u/phoebaeee1 — 2 months ago

Why are Americans called “wealthy and educated” if statistics show that most Americans don’t have a bachelor’s degree?

This makes no sense to me.

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u/phoebaeee1 — 2 months ago