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If you live in an apartment , it's relatively safer because of security guards and cameras , etc. But have any of you live in a house on rent , incase the family wasn't there and all . Did you feel safe or were there any issues ?

Edit : I have been living here for 2 years now , but in a PG , so there has never been any problem like stalking , etc. But obviously the creeps and creepy staring and catcalling outside are very disgusting . I am saying that if a person lives alone in a neighbourhood , in a house without any landlord family , would there be issues ?

One of my aunts died of cancer . During the whole arduous treatment period , her husband was with her through it all . It had kind of made me believe that some men can be honest husbands afterall . But alas , was I wrong or what !? He is 48 and their son is 17 and it hadn't even been 10 days to her death , that his family started looking for a woman for him and the demand - she can be a divorcee/widow , but she shouldn't have a child of her own . Recently , I went to visit them and I realized that of all the pictures that they have put up on the walls of their house , including the uncle's dead father and grandparents , there wasn't even a single one of my aunt . The whole family is like , oh he's not even 50 , his son will leave for college soon , he'll be left alone , whose gonna take care of the household needs , blah blah . Did you even consider that the child who lost his mother , might not want a replacement ? No , they only want a woman who would do domestic labor around the house and provide intimate amorous time to the man and take care of his aging mother , while he is free to scout . This is the same man who was crying at his wife's passing 2 weeks ago and here he is posing his list of requirements for prospective brides !

I want to get shoes for my mom , whose feet are deformed , broad and swollen . She only fit into Bata shoes which was her staple , but they have discontinued that particular design . She cannot wear sneakers or trainers . I was thinking that I could get her Birkenstocks Clogs , but again they are tad bit expensive and don't suit the Indian climate , from the reviews that I read online . Anyone here who has bought this pair in particular , please leave a review !

I want to get shoes for my mom , whose feet are deformed , broad and swollen . She only fit into Bata shoes which was her staple , but they have discontinued that particular design . She cannot wear sneakers or trainers . I was thinking that I could get her Birkenstocks Clogs , but again they are tad bit expensive and don't suit the Indian climate , from the reviews that I read online . Anyone here who has bought this pair in particular , please leave a review !

As the phone , bag , etc. stuff is not to be carried inside the exam centre , where shall I keep it ? Will it be safe or is there a chance that it would be stolen ?

For context , I am doing my post grad and have no experience of anything related to corporate world . On the other hand , my bestfriend has a social media marketing job at a product-based company . She came back drunk yesterday and began telling me about their office party . She is heavily into alcohol and smoking , so this wasn't anything new , but what she said kind of irked me . She mentioned that she got so drunk at the place and her words were , " maine toh itni pii li ki main founder pe hi lott gyi aur usse cozy ho gyi , bhai uski biwi bhi thi udhar " verbatim ( translation : " I got so drunk that I fell onto the founder and became cozy with him , his wife was there too " ) . I found this really icky to be honest , I know that she has kind of an attention seeking behavior , as in , she doesn't like if anyone else gets more attention . But this whole thing makes me want to distance myself from her . She has also made comments about me being innocent , being not pretty , how I would get cheated on , left me hanging to go out with other friends on multiple occassions , etc. , just to give you all an idea .

Edit : We have been best friends since the 4th grade , rn we are 23F

For context , I am doing my post grad and have no experience of anything related to corporate world . On the other hand , my bestfriend has a social media marketing job at a product-based company . She came back drunk yesterday and began telling me about their office party . She is heavily into alcohol and smoking , so this wasn't anything new , but what she said kind of irked me . She mentioned that she got so drunk at the place and her words were , " maine toh itni pii li ki main founder pe hi lott gyi aur usse cozy ho gyi , bhai uski biwi bhi thi udhar " verbatim ( translation : " I got so drunk that I fell onto the founder and became cozy with him , his wife was there too " ) . I found this really icky to be honest , I know that she has kind of an attention seeking behavior , as in , she doesn't like if anyone else gets more attention . But this whole thing makes me want to distance myself from her . She has also made comments about me being innocent , being not pretty , how I would get cheated on , left me hanging to go out with other friends on multiple occassions , etc. , just to give you all an idea .

Since the month of April , I have not been able to make payment through these apps , even the websites don't work ! I live away , so my old father has to go to some cyber shop and get that guy to make the payment . Their customer care services don't work either , neither do they pick up the calls nor do they respond to the grievance emails . This shit is so exhausting !! What do I do about this ???