Being in a relationship felt unproductive

I woke up this morning and thought how it would’ve been nice having someone there to scratch my back and wake up with.

After that though, as soon as my feet hit the floor, I quickly snapped out of it and remembered how unproductive it felt to have to think and work around someone else in the home instead of focusing on my own tasks for the day ahead.

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u/Affectionate-File689 — 13 hours ago
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What is your ideal dream home as a single woman?

I have two teenage sons who are almost grown & I am planning/manifesting my future life with myself 💕😍if money was no object, what would your dream home look like (or if you are in your dream home, what does it look like 👀)
I’ve always envisioned myself in a cottage type of home; close enough to civilization to get to town and shop or go to work but far enough away that I have peace, which is MOST important to me.

u/Affectionate-File689 — 4 days ago

What are your manifestation goals and dreams for your life?

What are some visions you have to live your best life??? Leave some right here to bring them to life.

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u/Affectionate-File689 — 7 days ago
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Be hopeful. Manifest it. It’s all going to happen, it’s all coming your way ✨

Trust the process, align your energy, and watch how fast things shift. It’s all coming your way 🕊️

Your thoughts create your reality ✨ What belongs to you will not pass you by.🌌🪐✨

u/Affectionate-File689 — 7 days ago
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The Environmental Impact of a Baby

"Raising a baby significantly increases a household's carbon and waste footprint. An infant goes through 5,000 to 6,000 disposable diapers before potty training, generating millions of pounds of waste that can take 500 years to decompose. Added to endless plastic toys and fast-fashion clothing, a baby's footprint in the developed world is massive."

This isn't even including their own eco footprint when they grow up to be adults.

One of the best things I can do for this planet is remain childfree.

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u/Affectionate-File689 — 8 days ago
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Lack of identity/purpose creates romantic obsession

This phenomenon is so prominent in women, especially.

In those sad relationship subreddits, mostly compiled of women who are treated terribly by their partners and those women still don’t leave them because they feel incomplete when single.

I think a lot of women forget that to be the spectacular, human individuals they are, they need to focus and direct energy outside of men. To nurture their hobbies, their interests, and careers, and know their brain inside and out.

It’s just not something anyone, especially women, should be directing their energy towards. Love is beautiful, but it starts with yourself

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u/Affectionate-File689 — 8 days ago

Looking for other independent badass single women to join this group and discuss our understandings of the world.

Our own underground society. Freemasonry is an all male fraternal organization. The single female life is its own way.

Please discuss -✨

u/Affectionate-File689 — 9 days ago
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SINGLE and SOBER this summer??? How do you get the vibe right

Since I’m sober, I’m wondering what others do to make the most of their summer… do you go to parties still? I restrict going into certain environments out of both aversion and protection. But this leads to alot of alone time for myself and removal of the socialization (and fun?) aspect.

I know there’s more to the puzzle than my newly formed sober mindset is thinking

Please discuss

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u/Affectionate-File689 — 10 days ago
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What is a small or big win you had in your single life today? Drop a little anecdote

Today, I had a small but delightfully filling cheese and spinach empanada at a coffee shop with a matcha latte after work as my dinner. Didn’t have to plan or coordinate around anyone else’s eating schedule!!! Then took a walk on the beach

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u/Affectionate-File689 — 10 days ago
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How have you gotten more creative in your single life???

I’ve been more comfortable with myself on camera. Expressing myself in writing, aspirations in business ventures etc. I enjoy elegant clothes more. What about you?

u/Affectionate-File689 — 11 days ago

👋Welcome to r/singlegirlsociety - Introduce Yourself and Read First!

Hey everyone! I'm u/Affectionate-File689, a founding moderator of r/singlegirlsociety.
This is our new home for all things related to single
women of the world. We're excited to have you join us!

What to Post
Post anything that you think the community would find interesting, helpful, or inspiring. Feel free to share your thoughts, photos, or questions about living, self-care, self-sufficiency, and standing on your own two feet.

Community Vibe
We're all about being friendly, constructive, and inclusive. Let's build a space where everyone feels comfortable sharing and connecting.

How to Get Started

  1. Introduce yourself in the comments below.
  2. Post something today! Even a simple question can spark a great conversation.
  3. If you know someone who would love this community, invite them to join.
  4. Interested in helping out? We're always looking for new moderators, so feel free to reach out to me to apply.

Thanks for being part of the very first wave. Together, let's make r/singlegirlsociety amazing.

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u/Affectionate-File689 — 12 days ago