Is this how we should look at Matthew 10:34–39?
Many people struggle with this has more than once we told to honor our father and mother by Jesus and this and one saying we can't love our parents and to have strife with our parents.
Is it not so much of a broken family he wants but that you have to love him more to get the peace ? For if one of you love Jesus more and others love more than Jesus it's different since Jesus is love and god is love?