Marriage becoming my whole life
Hi guys. 27 year old here. I got married 1.5 years ago. I’m slowly noticing that my marriage is becoming my entire life emotionally. My husband is avoidant personality and naturally it’s brought out my anxious side. I absolutely hate it because when I do try to take time to myself and do hobbies etc I notice I tend to just think about him and would rather do it with him. I noticed I care a lot about his opinions on small things and he doesn’t really care that much about mine. Any advice would be helpful bc this is stunting my growth professionally, emotionally, etc. thanks!
Yes I have
- gone to therapy
- talked to him
- joined hobbies
- have a job myself
- I have friends I meet regularly