Marriage becoming my whole life

Hi guys. 27 year old here. I got married 1.5 years ago. I’m slowly noticing that my marriage is becoming my entire life emotionally. My husband is avoidant personality and naturally it’s brought out my anxious side. I absolutely hate it because when I do try to take time to myself and do hobbies etc I notice I tend to just think about him and would rather do it with him. I noticed I care a lot about his opinions on small things and he doesn’t really care that much about mine. Any advice would be helpful bc this is stunting my growth professionally, emotionally, etc. thanks!

Yes I have
- gone to therapy
- talked to him
- joined hobbies
- have a job myself
- I have friends I meet regularly

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u/Common-Media7803 — 15 hours ago

Tech or cyber law

25 year old in DC, USA. Been in the tech industry for 4 years. But I want to get a masters degree. Not sure if I should stay in tech or get a JD in cyber law. My goal is to have more impact with my work (rather than be a corporate slave) and make more $ in the future as I make very little right now in comparison to counterparts. Thanks

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u/Common-Media7803 — 2 days ago
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Sound physicians

I am trying to dispute a charge by sounds physician as they billed my insurance for the same service the hospital did. They denied the first appeal. What can I say to dispute. They are charging $4k for a eval which was only verbal for 5 min (no other service conducted). And this was already billed by the ER.

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u/Common-Media7803 — 6 days ago

Therapist

Hi guys, looking for therapist recommendations that take insurance that specialize in CBT, ADHD, and OCD. Preference would be someone with a PhD or several years of practice. Thank you

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u/Common-Media7803 — 10 days ago

Therapist

Hi guys, looking for therapist recommendations that take insurance that specialize in CBT, ADHD, and OCD. Preference would be someone with a PhD or several years of practice. Thank you

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u/Common-Media7803 — 10 days ago

Landlord did not return deposit

Location: Virginia

I moved out of a rented property 51 days ago. My landlord said they would return $215 of my security deposit via mail within 45 days after move out but it’s been 51 days. There’s been numerous other legal violations during my stay which I have evidence of (not sure if that matters here).
Should I call them and ask where my deposit is or send a letter or go to court? Thanks

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u/Common-Media7803 — 1 month ago

Woman in marriage

Hi, question for women who look young fun and radiant

How do you do it after living with a man? Men can be great but sometimes are known to bring women down in marriage and or the woman ends up being like his mother her entire life.

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u/Common-Media7803 — 1 month ago

Different food options

My puppy rn only has Royal canin puppy food. But I was wondering what can I do to avoid the food from getting boring for them. Anything I can cook? Or should I give different brands of food during different meals?

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u/Common-Media7803 — 1 month ago

Boarding

Any rabbit boarding services near Charlotte North Carolina? I checked rabbitwikki and there’s only one in the entire state 😭 thanks

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u/Common-Media7803 — 2 months ago

Vaccines/training new puppy

Hi all so I’m getting a puppy in few days but I’m worried how to potty train the puppy given I live on the third floor of my apt and he doesn’t have all the vaccines yet. I’ve heard some negative things about the fresh grass patch idea.

Is he allowed on grass? Can he meet other dogs? I have a vet appointment scheduled 10 days after I get the puppy but I’m nervous for those first few days.

Here are the list of vaccines he already has:
[1] Dewormer - Pyrantel
[1] Safeguard (fenbendazole)
[2] Safeguard (fenbendazole
[1] Nobivac Canine Dappv
[1] Nobivac Intra-Trac3 Intranasal Bordetella/Kennel
Cough
[2] Nobivac Canine Dappv
[3] Safeguard (fenbendazole)
[3] Nobivac Canine Dappv

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u/Common-Media7803 — 2 months ago
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Starting prep

Hi all, I’m 25 years old and want to get into cyber law (hopefully I’m not too old). I want to start studying for the lsat but have no idea where to begin and what resources to actually invest money there since there’s so many. I started looking 7sage.

Also what are some other people on YouTube I should look into that helped you all with lsat and the process?

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u/Common-Media7803 — 2 months ago

Brands New faceless account

Hi all, I’m looking to start a brand new YouTube channel. It’s going to faceless which voice over. The goal is to provide comfort and education to the viewer.

I also would like to post on other social media so not sure how that will work right now.

Are there any example girly faceless YouTubers that do something similar? Thanks

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u/Common-Media7803 — 2 months ago

Content ideas

Hellloo! I’m looking to start a girly faceless YouTube and want to add a twist to the content. Any ideas? I’m looking to do short videos and post on other socials

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u/Common-Media7803 — 2 months ago

ULPT Shitty husband

Guys please I need advice on how to deal with a husband who cheated and disrespected me for years. I need to understand what can I do. How can I slowly detach from him? he cheated and I've told him I sometimes want to cheat back - more like I need short term escapes and pleasures the same way he did. I'm a human too and very tired of being morally correct always. I need micro ways to get back and remind him he fucked up. Thanks guys

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u/Common-Media7803 — 2 months ago

Advice please

Guys please I need advice on how to live with a husband who cheated and disrespected me for years. No leaving is not an option at the moment. I need to understand what can I do. How can I slowly detach my routine from him? I know it sounds unethical but he cheated and I’ve told him I sometimes want to cheat back - more like I need short term escapes and pleasures the same way he did. I’m a human too and very tired of being morally correct always. Thanks guys

Tldr how do I live with shitty husband

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u/Common-Media7803 — 2 months ago

How to live with a shitty husband?

Guys please I need advice on how to live with a husband who cheated and disrespected me for years. No leaving is not an option at the moment. I need to understand what can I do. How can I slowly detach my routine from him? I know it sounds unethical but he cheated and I’ve told him I sometimes want to cheat back - more like I need short term escapes and pleasures the same way he did. I’m a human too and very tired of being morally correct always. Thanks guys

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u/Common-Media7803 — 2 months ago

Advice please

Guys please I need advice on how to live with a husband who cheated and disrespected me for years. No leaving is not an option at the moment. I need to understand what can I do. How can I slowly detach my routine from him? I know it sounds unethical but he cheated and I’ve told him I sometimes want to cheat back - more like I need short term escapes and pleasures the same way he did. I’m a human too and very tired of being morally correct always. Thanks guys

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u/Common-Media7803 — 2 months ago