u/Elegant_Volume365

Like when I'm in a relationship, I get bored and awkward. And what to even talk btw.

Miss being in a relationship too 😭

What history do they have to take this much pride of ?

Tbh asking out of curiousity.

So I've been hearing a lot of people quitting on learning german. And I'm scared asl now.

My mom and dad are like always on phone and they see other people posting their parents on these days.

I don't like to post it , i don't even post my friends birthday. To me i don't like to express these emotions. Idk why it feels perfomative af to me

Anyone else with me ?

He left me for another girl and its been 2months already. From then he is always appearing in my dreams. The more I try to move on and heal myself the more he appears in my dream.

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Why ? I'm tryna forget him and he come in dream and say stuffs he used to say when we were in love.

Shi hurts so bad 💔

One of friends said if a boy or man or anyone who stares at u for so long.

If might be coz you're pretty but it can also because you look ugly too.. we can't tell why they're staring.

I get it like I look pretty one day and the other day my face looks puffy coz of all the sodium rich food I've eaten the last days. On those days i catch people staring at me.

I do see people staring at me like they haven't seen such a pretty girl too.

Can't differ this. Idk if I'm ugly or pretty atp.

I'm Indian. I've passed 12. And now learning german language. I don't like to take ausbildung in nursing , and I happened to hear about ausbildung in radiology technologist.

Is the stipend same for nursing and this?

Will I get a job as soon as I finish the ausbildung?

Is it easy to study ausbildung radiology technologist

And the salary part , nursing gets about €3,450–€4,000 pro monat

And for MTR €3,900 pro monat

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Pls lmk what u think.

I don't know which to choose atp.

Does men care a lot of breath smell.

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I mean everyone is conscious and evryone has a smell of their own no matter how hygienic they are. And I've dated one and I've cavity , i didn't really care about it back then so when he was about kiss me , me went back and didn't. Months later we broke up as he found another girl. Obv the reason might be my breath stinked.

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So he was from my school and after breakup one from my class was after me and we kind of dated and he said he want to kiss me with morning breath , he doesn't know or what I've already cavity and my breath stinks. Ig my ex would've told this to many of his friends and he might have got to know this from him , so this guy was so into me kinda simping and he said such things.

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So I wonder why and do men really care about that. And this boy was really kinky too , he had really weird interests.

I'm glad at some point cause of the confusion and stress he caused , im kinda relieved ( lost about 2kgs). I saw him posting this girl and i stalked for a bit and found out they are now committed. Okay so I'm a brown girl and i used to be insecure of my skintone , but he was the only one till now who has admired me like 📈. So when now he got into a relationship I see this girl is also brown and from stalking I saw her liking reels in being insecure of her skintone. And I somehow feel okay like I'm supposed to be jealous but not now I'm kinda "let them be " and i don't think she's better than me , thats the main reason I would say 💅. She is a bts army in this big 2026. Idk she being insecure of what i used to be insecure makes me and her kinda equal so I don't feel jealous at all. Or maybe I'm at peace letting them be.

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Idk and to what he did , he deserves hell. I can't never blame the girl cause what did she do. Obv why should I hate her. No i hate him. I wish I could do blackmagic but no coz of the consequences. What do y'all think. Lmk

I've completed b2 and no wdoing exam preparation. But I speak like A1-A2 level. Our tutors didn't actually makes us do speaking when we were in A1 and A2 and now we are all struggling to talk.

When I speak in german I don't get words , or even stumble upon making easy sentences. Mostly cause I'm scared to make mistakes. And I've heard enough you'll only learn if u make mistakes and learn from them. Yea I do get it. But y'all please motivate me as now I'm preparing for the exam by myself.

Please help me to speak in german.

I need to focus on confidence and flow without humming or having to think for minutes to get a word.

I like desi fits sm. I like to have oxidised pieces since it looks cool and desi..

Pls suggest an online way to shop em.

That is affordable and looks variety and cool.

My eye looks tired asf , i get asked why are u not sleeping all day.

My upper eyelid looks heavy. No matter what i do it looks dead. I look overall dead with this expression of my eyes. I used to have wide and open eyes when I was younger. It changed after the pandemic. My eyes got smaller , like it is hiding between my two eyelids , my eyes are not that open now.

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I always wear kajal on the waterline , people ask me why are u not using eyeliner on upperyeyelid , it's just that it doesn't look good at all. Now the application in the waterline too not look good. Idk whatever I do I can't make it look alive.

Pls help.

Pls lmk if there's a way where you can do it for free.

I've tried goonview but it's blocked..

I used to see different logins in my Instagram account and i doubt my ex.

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I'm currently learning german language at an institute. I'm the only one at my age there. All the rest are above 24. So being the youngest , and the shy one I don't talk much in class. I don't ask doubts whenever I have one. One man even called me mute for not talking at all. The class starts at 9am and ends at 12.30 , our class is the noisiest class in the institute with all chill people and with the more strength. I'm the only quiet one in the class , i don't engage in anything for example they all go to cafe , movies and hangout when there is a break or after the class. They usually call me too , but my parents won't let me. If I had gone i would've got friendlier but they all get drunk too as they are adults oh wait i was only 18 when I joined. It is suffocating to be in a class full of chalant people always laughing and won't shut their mouth not even for a moment. I mean if I were in their i wouldve enjoyed it too. Ig I'm actually jealous because I don't get to enjoy life like them. They bring sweets ,snacks and all but won't share things with me cause at the beginning I used to say no to evrything theyve offered.

Time went by. Now 8 months passed and here came 2 other girls too for b2 exam preparation. They speak fluent and fast german. I'm here not knowing to speak german without stuttering or humming. I can't think even think properly cause of brainfog from being chronically online. Whenever I get partnered up i struggle to speak and my partner won't even look at my face. I'm not able to make a sentence by my own , i can buy it's only A1 or A2 level sentences and tutors often scold me for that. All I got from my tutors was insults. We didn't even get to do speaking in A1,A2, which was the base. Our tutors from A1 and A2 was very lazy to even to teach.

To the point! I'm struggling to speak , idk to how to speak german. I'm watching shows , podcasts and talk a bit with strangers in german on a vr app.

Still no improvements and ive quit studying there too. Now I'm doomed. I will have to do the preparation by myself now.

Pl3ase anyone help! Just help me how to do so.

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