Are people who are into bdsm sadists?

Age regression is often looked down upon and oeople who are into that stuff are labeled as pedophiles. Wouldn’t it be similar to someone whos in bdsm? I think it’s a little scary that so many people are into this stuff, that they want to hurt others for their sexual gratification. I don’t understand can we get a conversation started down in the comments?

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u/Federal_Character979 — 3 days ago

I did something stupid because of my social anxiety

There was this girl who I had a crush on and I was always so afraid to go up to her so I just stared at her. Every time I saw her I would hype myself up think of what to say, but I always failed to talk to her. On the last day of class I planned on talking to her, but I failed. In my reluctance I came off as a creep and I’m 100% sure I creeped her out. I was lost in my head, pondering how I would get around to asking her out. I was at war with myself and it’s still something I struggle with. I’m also afraid she might have recorded me.

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u/Federal_Character979 — 4 days ago

I need help

My mind has been hijacked by these worries of mine. I keep ruminating on my past mistakes and I don’t know what to do. I used to sit behind someone to their right in class. I would watch their phone with them whenever they used it because I’m just nosy like that. Now I’m worried they might have noticed me and recorded me being nosy/weird. I’m afraid I’ll be outed if they post the video or its spread somehow. They once gave me this weird look too. I was doing fine but it always come back to me and I don’t know what to do. Am I supposed to ignore the thoughts or combat them?

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u/Federal_Character979 — 5 days ago

How the Baki cast sees Pickle and Musashi

They really don’t like Musashi, Baki even told him that he doesn’t belong in this time period but he’s so nice to Pickle😭

u/Federal_Character979 — 9 days ago

Privacy worries

Well I was really naive when it came to using ChatGPT. I used my personal email to create the account and I never turned off the training ai setting. Are my secrets out there in some database? In case of a huge data breach won’t hackers get my secrets and use them against me or expose me? Same goes for grok ai.

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u/Federal_Character979 — 11 days ago

Having trouble remembering

I have this itch in my head that I just can’t scratch. There’s a really foggy memory that I did something bad, but I can’t exactly get the full details on it. It feels extremely realistic. In fact that’s an understatement for how it feels. I keep trying to put things together with what little pieces I have, but nothing comes up. Anyone know if this relates to false memory ocd or something?

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u/Federal_Character979 — 14 days ago

My mind keeps looking for something to worry about

Im finally getting out of this paranoia phase I had, but now my mind just keeps scavenging for something to worry about. My brain feels so itchy and uncomfortable and I also feel empty.

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u/Federal_Character979 — 21 days ago

How do I know if I have false memory OCD?

I’m having these memories that feel real, but I doubt that they’re real. This memory popped in my head, a memory of me doing something bad. It didn’t start with a “what if”, it just kinda appeared like when you suddenly remember something because of cues around you. Now I’m not sure if these memories are real and I’m looking for an excuse to avoid guilt or something, but it’s annoying. I’m so lost on what false memory OCD is. Can this be something else entirely?

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u/Federal_Character979 — 24 days ago

Therapist told me asking someone repeatedly for sex/ annoying someome into sex isn’t rape

Basically told my therapist about this situation going on between two people I know. This girl keeps asking this guy for sex, despite having turned down the request multiple times. I told my therapist that if the guy has sex with the girl just to shut her up then he would basically have gotten raped. She told me it doesn’t constitute as rape ethically nor legally. What do you think?

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u/Federal_Character979 — 27 days ago

Was this sexual assault?

Two people were slow dancing a high school dance and the male had his hand around her waist while they were dancing, but the female moved his hand to her upper back instead. After this the male immediately moved it back to her waist. They continued dancing and they seemed fine for the rest of the dance. Also they are not a couple, at least I don’t think they are, the guy was known to be single. I’m not sure if he got a gf before the dance or it was just a small date to the dance.

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u/Federal_Character979 — 1 month ago
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False memory or denial?

I have vivid memories that I did something bad, particularly when I was in high school. I keep looking back and it feels extremely real but somewhat out of character for me. Sometimes it feels super fake other times it feels real. Right now it feels real, and I keep looking into the memory to find something to prove that it’s fake, but it feels so real and now I’m worried that I actually did sometbing, but I’m telling myself it’s my OCD. I’m looking for an excuse to not believe this, I’m denying what I’ve done if I did do it. Can someone help me?

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u/Federal_Character979 — 1 month ago

Is it bad to link up with my ex just for sexual pleasure?

We both agreed to meet up and get down and dirty with eachother after a movie. We’re not together and we don’t share the same feelings we used to share. Is it evil or morally wrong or whatever to do this with her? I feel like I’m using her and degrading her kinda. Also I will, be eating pussy for the first time if this happens, so I’m afraid of that too. I’ve never done that. Can anyone help me out here please? I’ve done nothing besides making out. I’m only 19 years old too.

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u/Federal_Character979 — 2 months ago

[Can homelander be rehabilitated?]

With modern medicine, would it be possible to set homelander on the right track and turn him into a Superman type hero or is he to far gone? Are there any instances of something similar in real life?

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u/Federal_Character979 — 2 months ago

Are people less forgiving these days?

On social media and in a lot of social circles in real life, people tend to be super unforgiving to the point where they spread rumors about people. I was once the victim of something horrible as a child, but despite this I have forgiven them and realized that they changed. It seems like we don’t see a lot of that these days, everyone gets labeled as evil and worthy of harassment. In reality I think no one is perfect, we all fuck up. So are people less forgiving these days?

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u/Federal_Character979 — 2 months ago

Paranoia has ended, but now I feel empty

I was paranoid and full of anxiety for a couple of months. It’s gone away now, but I feel sad ans empty and like I should be worrying about something. Like I feel so at peace that it makes me sad. Anyone know why this is and does anyone have similar experiences?

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u/Federal_Character979 — 2 months ago
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I’ve was extremely paranoid and anxious for a while, but now it went away. I feel strange and sad now, I feel empty and like I should be worrying about something. Why is this? Anyone have experience with this?

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u/Federal_Character979 — 2 months ago

Basically what the title says. A while back I went through a harsh mental health epsiode. I wasn’t myself, I was completely unstable and I hurt people in the process. These people have withdrawn themselves from my life, but I want to make things right. I’m afraid that I will always be known for my past. I don’t want them back, I just want them to forget about me. Everyone I know is moving forward, people are getting married and achieving great things, but I’m still living my past. How do I fix this? I plan on getting therapy soon.

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u/Federal_Character979 — 2 months ago