u/Rainfrog299

Pratade med en kompis om det här för ett tag sedan då vi fick reda på att det tydligen är mycket olyckor efter spåren (iallafall ett specifikt spår), men att det inte alltid rapporteras i media. Har ni egna erfarenheter om detta? Vad händer efter?

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I’m afraid that my ex will add me and access sensitive information from our chat and I’m not sure how to stop it. He has blocked me but I wasn’t able to do the same at the time.

I have tried the contacts thing, didn’t work. I assume his number isn’t connected. I have also tried sending his profile to me via a friend, but as soon as I click onto the profile it says that something went wrong.

How do I go about this? Can I contact support and ask them to block him for me?

Hi! I have been using the Olaplex shampoo and conditioner since September ish and i will say I really love the results it gives me. My hair is always super smooth and I have never had any complains up until now. About a month ago I noticed that my hair has started getting greasy so much faster, and these past 2 weeks it's been unbearable.

I used to be able to go about 3 days without seeing or feeling my hair get greasy, but now it is literally visibly drenched after a day and a half or even less. I really don't know what to do here.

Before Olaplex I was using the Loreal Dream Lengths shampoo and conditioner, but after a while I had to stop using the shampoo as it was making my scalp itch. Before that I used Loreal Glycolic Gloss (pink bottles), so I replaced the Dream Lengths with the Gloss shampoo.

Should I go back to the Gloss shampoo, and only use Olaplex every few washes or so? The conditioner still works great for me, it's just the shampoo. What do you guys think? What do you use? Have you had the same experience?

I’m 21F and whenever I sit down I immediately need to cross my legs to sit comfortably. If I try to sit up straight my core feels weak and I eventually put my legs back into position to gain stability. It’s so unbelievably uncomfortable to sit “properly”. I slouch my back to help but it still isn’t enough when sitting straight. I need my legs crossed. I know this is an issue but I have no clue how to fix it. Any advice?

I was a very active player in mid to late 2024, and tried to get every achievement in the game. I stopped playing it after a couple of months because I lost interest, and I recently came back to it.

In 2024 the game was fun. You would get repetitive ghosts on occasion, but the game was manageable and I was learning the different traits of each ghost.

When I came back I wanted to quit right away. The ghosts didn’t want to give the last evidence on neither professional or intermediate, and I would have to wait around 20 minutes game after game. I would get hunted from different rooms and thus killed, or my incense wouldn’t work and I would die. I would record a full video of the ghost hunting me, only to miss a millisecond and lose the recording and die for nothing. I gained less money than what was taken with the loadout, thus making the run completely useless. On so many occasions I would have to go back to 0 equipment just to be able to afford a run.

I really don’t understand why they made the game so unbearable and difficult. This new update really made me quit this bullshit altogether. I downloaded the update, loaded into a lobby and quit after a minute. The quality is poor, the UI is worse, the characters are horrendous and now you need to spend money on cosmetics.

Fuck this game. No one wanted more ghosts and a useless remodel update. I’m done with it.

Känns jävligt stelt att skriva och fråga på reddit men vill inte vända mig till AI så here goes.

Jag är 21 och har efter studenten tappat större mängden av mina kompisar. Vissa har jag tappat på grund av mitt störda och kontrollerande ex, en del på grund av att vi inte har något gemensamt, och andra på grund av privata orsaker. Jag känner mig extremt ensam och vet inte riktigt hur jag ska komma ur det.

Mina två allra bästa kompisar har under det senaste året brutit vänskapen på grund av deras egna osunda kärleksrelationer. Jag har verkligen ingen att vända mig till längre.

Jag har ofta inge problem med att bli kompis med killar och har en hel del här och där, men jag saknar verkligen att ha tjejkompisar. Avsaknaden av djupa emotionella band och ett systerskap får mig verkligen att må dåligt.

Hur gör ni för att skaffa kompisar? Vad ska man göra när man inte pluggar eller går i någon klubb eller liknande?

Kom och tänka på detta i och med att nästan ingen använder kontanter idag. Alla rån jag får upp om bensinmackar är i USA. Sker det fortfarande här? Vad fan ska man råna? Mackor?

This is my hot take. Bringing men into a country with a completely different cultural, societal and religious views can be really damaging, especially for women. How will a man used to a religion that suppresses women and sees them as less worthy adapt to a society where women are equal? A religion where he can have multiple wives, where women are forced into arranged marriages, even with their rapists?

Of course not every immigrant man does damage, but enough of them do for it to be an issue. This is just my take on how to make it more manageable.

So I (21F) have been dating my boyfriend (23M) for about 6 months. He has had a lot of his firsts with me and I know that I am the best girlfriend and best sex he has had. He tells me all of the time and I can just tell by the way he acts and looks at me. I know he loves me really deeply but I am still spiralling so hard.

I haven’t been very jealous in this relationship due to reasons stated above, but sometimes I get in my head and I can’t get out of it.

He has one “serious” ex and they were long distance. They met up a few times but overall their relationship wasn’t great. She used him for money and he was just in it to not be lonely.

Me and him are also long distance and the first time we met up he booked us a hotel for those days. Obviously everyone knows what went down in that hotel. I thought it was special.

Today he told me he never brought her over to his house for her to stay, and that they booked a hotel instead. He said this to make me feel less nervous about coming over and meeting his parents, but it had the opposite effect. Now I am disgusted and imagining all of the things they did in the hotel together, and now the thought of our hotel stay is absolutely ruined.

I really need some advice on how to get out of this spiral. I don’t know what exactly it is that bothers me. He said he didn’t like sex with her and that she smelled poorly down there. She is a bit on the heavier side and therefore has way bigger breasts than I do. I’ve always been on the skinny side and have quite small breasts. That is probably the only thing I am jealous about physically. I just want him to like me more and I’m scared he misses that attribute. When I brought it up once he said something along the lines of “Do you think that mattered when she looked the way she did?”. I do know that I am considered more attractive than her (not based in weight) but gosh it really didn’t help.

I feel like him bringing me to a hotel is no longer special. He has already done it before me. The whole experience has already been done.

Har länge tyckt att Lager har mycket bra kläder men helt urusla storlekar. De är aldrig konsekventa mellan färger eller online/butik. Det är en ren chansning att beställa hem då storlekarna aldrig är som de ska. Ibland är mindre storlekar större än de som ska vara större, och ibland är ett byxben eller en tröjärm längre än den andra. Ibland skiljer det mycket på samma storlek av samma plagg.

Är jag ensam om att tycka såhär? Vad kan det bero på?

In high school I befriended a girl. She swapped schools early on and our friendship has been very on and off. In early 2025 we reconnected much deeper and became best friends, and have been since. She was there when I lost everyone else around me (mostly because of my abusive ex) and I have helped her through a lot of things as well.

Two days ago she told me she didn't want to be friends. I was extremely shocked because less than 2 weeks ago she sent me a long text about how much she loves and appreciates me. Her reasonings were very strange to me, and from my point of view there is only one valid thing that she brought up. She said that I stress her out because 1. "I talk to my ex", 2. "I kept being attracted to my boyfriends friends", 3. "I actively find my boyfriend ugly", (and apparently that wasn't even all - no elaboration) and 4. Because I sometimes cancel plans. The only valid thing here being number 4. So here are my explanations:

1. I talked to my ex briefly because we were both deleting our chat history on discord. It was only mature conversations and nothing flirty at all whatsoever. My boyfriend knew about this immediately and trusts me completely. My ex is now blocked on everything and will continue to stay that way.
2. When me and my boyfriend were in the talking stages we had a big falling out and I flirted with our mutual friend briefly while we weren't talking. I was only attracted to his "vibe" and never his looks, and therefore I quickly dropped it. I told him before we even flirted that I would never want anything and that the flirting would only be for fun - not even in a sexual context. The friend was completely fine with it. Was this a bit of a bitch move? Sure. However, me and my boyfriend talked about everything when we became friends again and later on decided to pursue something more, but for real this time. He doesn't blame me for flirting with said person and we have no issues with this, especially as that friend is no longer in our lives. This is not an issue in our relationship. There has never been any other friend that I have flirted with, and certainly none that I have been attracted to in any way. Most of our friends are mine.
3. In the beginning of me and my boyfriend talking, I was unsure if he was my type. I had only seen a few pictures of him (we are long distance), and most of them were with filters on. He is pretty bad at taking pictures of himself, so the ones without didn't really portray his looks accurately. He also has black hair and brown eyes, which Isn't something I've gone for in the past. So I was feeling pretty nervous about it since I would have to meet him the first time without knowing if I had a genuine attraction to his looks (I definitely did personality wise). After meeting him, he is the most attractive man I've been with. I think he is stunning, and the way he treats me only enhances it. There are of course things that I am not super attracted to, but they don't bother me and I would never lose my attraction to him because of it. He is also actively working on those things out of his own free will and not because I have ever mentioned anything.

Even if any of these 3 reasons were true, it wouldn't be any of her business. It doesn't affect her and it shouldn't. She is not dating me. Me and my boyfriend have great communication and solve issue on our own. None of these are any existing or truthful issues. I thought I could confide in her with my feelings and thoughts but it seems like I was only judged for it, and have it be taken out of context and twisted. I feel like some of this is her projecting. She told me that she feels bad because she finds other guys attractive and imagines her boyfriends face on other peoples bodies. She said that she found him unattractive because he is chubby. I was being supportive of her feelings and never made her out to be a bad person. I comforted her and gave her advice the best I could. I feel like this is incredibly unfair.

4. This is the only valid point she brought up. I have struggled with having energy for the past couple of years, probably due to mental illness and a slight ED. Even if I sleep 12 hours, I still feel tired and have no energy or motivation to do things. I tend to sometimes make plans when I am happy and energetic, and when the time comes I don't have the energy to fulfill the plans. I have tried my best to be transparent and communicate my feelings every time, and have also said that I know this is an issue and that I am actively working on it. We have had successful plans so many times, and we hung out just last week. Still, I understand that this isn't very fun for her. This is valid. Again, I am incredibly aware and I am trying my best.

I really don't know how to go about this situation. I sent her a long response and she left it on read. I told her that I don't fully understand her reasonings but that I respect her decision. She has since blocked me on everything, including Spotify.. I can't help but feel like she is being unfair and making me out to be a shit person for reasons that aren't true and doesn't involve her. She was one of the last female best friends I had. I lost most of my friends because of school ending and because of my abusive ex. This is all really upsetting to me.

Hi there! I frequently see people ask for help regarding their belly button piercings. I have been there too; So here is some information I have gathered that has significantly helped me.

Check your anatomy
A lot of people get a navel piercing despite not having great anatomy for it. Some people don't know it and their piercer sadly doesn't have their best interest in mind and goes ahead anyway. Other piercers figure out a work around that work for your body or deny the piercing. In general, if you do not have a defined ridge or lip at the top, you might not be a good fit for it. Same goes with having a tight space in your belly button, and your belly button being shaped more like a line instead of a circle or "hole".
If you are unsure and able, double check with two different piercers to make sure you're getting the right advice.

Leave it alone - no touching
So many people touch their healing piercings, and when it comes to a notoriously difficult to heal piercing - you might make it even worse. Avoid touching it as much as you can, and if you must (when cleaning or changing jewelry) make sure your hands are washed. Our hands trap so much bacteria and it can easily transfer. If you like to fiddle with your piercings, this one might not be the best option for you.

It will not heal in a month
Like I said, it is a difficult piercing to heal. It usually takes up to a year or sometimes longer. This is due to high friction from clothing, constant movement and less blood flow. Your belly button also naturally traps a lot of bacteria - no bueno. Be patient and keep cleaning it.

Clean daily if you're able
Clean it with a saline wash or something similar. You can easily make one yourself by boiling water and adding salt to it (let it cool before use of course). A good rule of thumb is 2-3 times a day.

Good quality jewelry + allergy friendly
It took me 2 attempts at this piercing to realize I was sensitive to nickel and had unknowingly been using bars containing nickel. If it feels like your piercing never heals, it might be worth swapping it out to titanium. I did this and my piercing is now healing so much better. Honestly, it's best to use titanium just in case to avoid any problems.

Appropriate length
When your piercing is done the piercer will go for a longer bar to accommodate swelling. After a couple of weeks it is important that you downsize the jewelry. Having a bar that is too long can stand in the way of healing. This doesn't mean that you should get a tight fit however, as that also can cause issues and embedding. There should be a little room, but not overly much and not too little. You can always size back up or back down if it doesn't work for you.

Shape of jewelry
This can also be a culprit for your piercing not healing. I found that I could not wear the standard jewelry while mine is healing. The ball inside of the belly button was too big for me, and so it was put under constant pressure and therefore wouldn't heal. I tried a smaller ball but it was still being difficult with me. So I then changed to a floating navel - a threadless disk with a top. This allowed it to heal better as there is no pressure or movement inside the belly button.

Using all of this, my belly piercing is doing so much better and finally on the way to healing. I hope this might help you in your journey!