▲ 391 r/women

The amount of people asking for advice on masturbation or periods is getting suspicious

Every day I get a number of posts where OP is saying they are new to periods or masturbation and asking for in depth tutorials on how to do it. The way they articulate themselves mixed with a hidden profile history makes me think it’s probably men getting off on it.

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u/Rainfrog299 — 1 day ago

Jag har kommit in på universitetet men jag vill fortfarande inte leva

Deppig titel men kunde inte skriva det bättre. Jag har kommit in på universitet och ska flytta ifrån min familj för att kunna plugga. Jag är extremt rädd och jag känner mig så oerhört sårbar just nu. Samtidigt är jag väldigt förhoppningsfull och exalterad över att få ett nytt liv i en ny stad och förhoppningsvis skaffa nya kompisar.

Men ändå känner jag mig så jävla tom. Jag har saker att se fram emot men allting känns jobbigt och jag ville inte ens överleva för att komma så här långt. Det är jobbigt nog att överleva när jag ligger i sängen hela dagarna och nu måste jag ta hand om mig själv varje dag helt ensam. Känner mig som världens största loser. Oavsett hur glad jag borde vara är jag så ledsen hela tiden.

Har någon varit med om liknande som kan berätta hur det blev för er? Går jag igenom en normal kris eller är jag bara en deprimerad liten bitch

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u/Rainfrog299 — 12 days ago

What’s a video game you can’t play and what is the reason behind it?

For me I had to stop playing Bedwars because my heart was racing too fast and the adrenaline was too extreme every single game. Meanwhile I can play Counter Strike for 4 hours every day without any issues…

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u/Rainfrog299 — 15 days ago

Har Bergsjön blivit säkrare?

Bersjön har ju varit ett ganska utsatt område ett tag, men har det blivit bättre? Är det mindre kriminalitet och större trygghet nu? Hade ni rekomenderat eller inte?

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u/Rainfrog299 — 19 days ago

It doesn’t matter if I use a paper straw when the rest of the world dispose of their trash on the street

It actually pisses me off that subtle changes like this were forced upon many european countries, while we are some of the best countries in terms of managing our trash. Yes a paper straw isn’t the end of the world but being inconvenienced in subtle ways in my day to day life is unfair when I’m watching countries like India and the Philippines dispose of their trash out on the street and in the water.

In Sweden we have separate trash bins for glass, metal, plastic, paper, cardboard, food waste etc. and in my experience most of us manage it extremely well. We even recycle our cans for them to be reused.

Let’s enforce some regulations and laws in the countries that heavily damage our planet instead of focusing on the countries that are already holding up their part.

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u/Rainfrog299 — 21 days ago

Time for a trim? Unhealthy?

I have been growing out my hair since around March of last year (pic 3). I got a big chunk of it cut in September because it looked extremely dead due to me dyeing it here and there (pic 4). I also swapped to Olaplex for both conditioner and shampoo and it really helped my hair feel and look a lot smoother and healthier. I had to stop using the shampoo a while back though because it made my hair very greasy. Now I use the elvital glycolic gloss like I did before Olaplex.

I have been mostly leaving it alone and avoiding heat as much as I can. I don’t really do any slick back hairstyles either. Now I’m at a length where it is kind of annoying me in my everyday life but I love having long hair. My question is if it looks alright or if it looks unhealthy or damaged?

I have naturally slightly wavy hair so that’s why it looks like it does in the first pic.

Any advice appreciated!

u/Rainfrog299 — 22 days ago

My nails are weak and brittle - help?

A couple of years ago I always wore my nails very long and they were always very strong and would only really break on my thumbs (a little stress crack for unknown reasons). The past couple of years though they’ve just been getting weaker and weaker, and I really have no clue why or what to do about it. I haven’t made any changes to my life since then so I’m really lost here.

My nails now are very easy to bend, and sometimes the upper layer scales off and crack (?) while the bottom layer kind of stays. I still try to wear my nails long but they break off making it impossible.

I have gotten my nails done about 3 times, and they were very weak after and therefore I don’t want to go to salons (and I can’t afford the upkeep). I just want to grow my nails stronger and longer.

No matter how much they grow they just continue to stay weak. I can barely open things with my nails without them breaking.

What do I do in this situation? Any advice?

Maybe relevant info: I am 21. I don’t have any known diseases or health issues. Diagnosed vitiligo and potential dyshidrotic eczema. No medication apart from birth control.

u/Rainfrog299 — 25 days ago

Calling strippers “midnight ballerinas” is an attempt at romanticising and glorifying the sex industry

I have seen this term everywhere and especially on tiktok for the past couple of months and it really rubs me the wrong way. Being a stripper or any form of sex worker should not be glorified and romanticised in this way, especially not on an app largely used by kids. It paints the industry in a much different light than what it actually is in reality.

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u/Rainfrog299 — 26 days ago

Skotips till everyday/jobb?

Hej! Jag behöver tips på vilka skor jag ska köpa. Jag jobbar i butik och går därför runt en hel del, så jag är väl ute efter en ”promenad” sko. Det är en klädbutik, så jag behöver inget rejält med stålhätta och liknande. Samtidigt vill jag kunna använda de till vardags också.

Jag har testat asics gel nimbus men det är lite ovant att de går upp så mycket framme vid tårna. Jag får oftast ont i hälarna efter en lång dag så jag vill helst ha mer dämpning där.

Vad rekommenderar ni? Är det värt att fixa en sula till?

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u/Rainfrog299 — 28 days ago

Will dr Sturgis stick around?

Hi, I’m currently in the later episodes of season one and I must admit that I cannot stand dr Sturgis. I don’t know what it is about him but I just can’t watch it. Will he stick around and be a prominent figure? I honestly don’t think I can keep watching if he’s in it..

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u/Rainfrog299 — 1 month ago
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I am sick of seeing people still supporting male rapists and abusers.

With the world cup being in focus I really can’t stop thinking about how many men there are out there who actively still has a platform despite being a rapist or abuser (and anything in that nature). Women get cancelled for anything and everything, but the men who have solid proof against them get to keep living their lives like nothing happened.

Ronaldo is as famous as ever despite paying hush money to the girl he sexually assaulted. Chris Brown is still making music despite beating up Rihanna and making jokes about it. And America still has a president who is a rapist.

Use this post as a place to vent about your feelings about this. I need to know I’m not the only one.

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u/Rainfrog299 — 1 month ago

Harassment towards women

I am genuinely so sick of playing on faceit. Every other game where I muster up the courage to give callouts with voice I get harassed. The harassment is completely unwarranted and keep going through out the entire match. And despite reporting with clear evidence and even clips of players saying the n word nothing seems to happen to these players? How is it allowed to continuously harass women in game? For being a platform that preaches non toxicity it sure doesn't live up to the standards.

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u/Rainfrog299 — 2 months ago

Other alternatives to Opzelura?

I’ve had two very stubborn spots around my eyes for a couple of years and they make me extremely insecure to the point where I’ve stopped going out in the sun. Today I contacted a doctor and asked to be prescribed Opzelura and was shocked to find out that 100g costs 9200sek (sweden). I obviously cannot afford this and I’m extremely bummed out after finally getting my hopes back up.

Are there any other alternatives that have worked for you? I don’t care too much about the rest of my body, it is the ones in my face making me particularly insecure.

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u/Rainfrog299 — 2 months ago

NVIDIA clips freeze with a blue outline

I've had this issue for roughly 2 years now and I have no idea how to fix it. I use NVIDIA to clip my gameplay, but whenever I watch a clip back either the whole screen freezes on a frame while the clip is playing in the background or the video plays but I can't click or move anything. The screen always has a thick blue outline at the top and bottom of the screen. After like 3/4 of the clip it usually fixes and I can finally operate the clip again, but sometimes I have to wait for the entire clip to play before being able to do anything.

So to clarify, I clip with NVIDIA and watch them back in the downloads folder in files explorer. No fancy app.

How do I fix this?

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u/Rainfrog299 — 2 months ago

Tipping culture is stupid

I genuinely don’t understand it and never have. Where I’m from (Sweden) waiters get tipped if they do an incredible service that is out of the ordinary.

Why is it such a standard specifically in America? Why do people have to pay an additional fee on top of their food to pay for the waitress job? How is it the costumers responsibility and not your boss?

I have been to a few countries where tipping is a thing, but it is never expected and never as high as in the US. They do their job well and give a nice experience without needing to get payed extra which makes the gratitude from tipping them all the more worth it and genuine. Americans just come across as greedy.

You should be mad at your boss not the people coming in to eat. I’d be pissed if I had to pay for someone’s job up front when already paying for my meal.

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u/Rainfrog299 — 2 months ago

How do I get to 1mm to 1.2mm?

Hi there. I have 5 lobe piercings and due to nickel sensitivity I have never been able to use earrings for an extended time. I am now looking into getting flatback labrets. I ordered some but I could not get them into my ear. They are 1.2mm, which I thought I had, but I guess not. How do I make these fit? It's really difficult to find 1mm labrets made out of titanium, especially in Europe (Sweden). Any advice would be appreciated.

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u/Rainfrog299 — 2 months ago

Piercing folk, vart hittar ni flatback labretter (i titan)?

Har i flera år använt mig av barbarella när jag köper piercingsmycken men pga känslighet mot nickel måste jag strikt använda titan. Jag har lite problem med mina öronsnibbar och har egentligen aldrig hittat bra nog örhängen som jag kan ha i under en längre period och söker därför flatbacks.

Jag köpte 4 stycken från bodymod men de var för tjocka så jag skulle returnera dem. Problemet är bara att bodymod suger arsle och man måste stå för spårbar frakt till tyskland själv, vilket i slutändan gör att du får en liten fraktion av pengarna tillbaka vilket inte är värt. Därför vill jag inte använda den sidan igen.

Vad finns det för andra alternativ? Vad använder ni?

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u/Rainfrog299 — 2 months ago