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Hey guys so i just started valorant and im so insanely clueless. I have no idea who to main, any of their ‘ abilities ‘ (i think it’s called), what each round does, and i don’t understand what the goal of the game is. I just wanted to try something new but it’s super confusing. For who to main, stuff about me is im
not the best at shooting games but im decent. I don’t really like to be running in first and rushing as im only an amateur. Any advice helps, thanks all.

Hey guys, so i leave high school next year in around late june. I’m only out to my mum, and she’s against me going on testosterone until im 18, but ive already made it clear to her ill be starting it next year and she can’t stop me. I want to ideally tell everyone when i leave high school, so probably in july if i can. However i’ll be going to college and my plan is to be socially transitioning for college. My issue is my voice, it’s extremely feminine. So im thinking, since I’ll be doing DIY, when’s the best time to start T for a voice that isn’t so feminine if i go to college in september? I know it’s different for everyone, but im just asking for an estimate to help my transition go as smooth as possible so i can plan ahead of time. Thank you all for the help.

Hey all, the title pretty much says it. When coming to cologne, body wash, hair wash, the scent of all of it, what’s your favourite go to scent? Like cinnamon, vanilla, etc. I’m looking for a good scent that’ll make me noticeably smell good to others, and also my girlfriend too. Thanks guys.

Hey guys, so unfortunately i had to go through DIY HRT because of my parents and i plan on doing it next year. My only concern is how will i be able to obtain the medical supplies like needles, etc. My parents don’t really give me much privacy and when i order something they’re always asking what i ordered. Is there any websites that allows me to add instructions to hide it somewhere? I’ve found two websites that allow me to add instructions but i’m not sure if they actually listen (medisupplies.co.uk and exchangesupplies.org) so if anyone has experience with that it would be appreciated. Any tips help too! (I’m located in the UK just to clarify)

Hey guys another post again. So i recently looked into DIY as it’s my only option, but i’ve read the google doc of diy hrt and the website for it, but i’m not really understanding it much. All the science words and stuff confuse me so much. I’m aware of what i need to purchase, but what are some things i should know and educate myself on before jumping into it? Like there’s different needle sizes, where to inject it, etc. Just looking for anything that i should know before jumping into this.

Hey guys so i’m looking into DIY HRT and my biggest concern is that i’d prefer to do injections rather than gel, but i have a massive fear of needles and i mean massive. I’d be too scared to do it myself, no idea how far in to put it, the angle or anything. I have no one else to help me do it. What can i do about this?

Honestly i’m not sure what this feeling is lately. But im a trans man, ive been well aware of that for over 3 years now. But from time to time, i do find myself thinking what my life could’ve been like if i just stayed as female, grew up like a female, maybe i could’ve been happy who knows. It makes me doubt myself being trans a lot even though i am 100% certain im trans? I’m not sure if its just me who thinks about this or if its possibly dysphoria, but its a very strange feeling. It’s not like a sense of wanting, it’s more of a guilty, regretful feeling. I’m not too sure about it, it’s a confusing feeling i’ve been having.

Hello, i know this subreddit probably sees the same post every day. But i am a teenager, i’ve been on roblox since i was 8-9 years old. A very long time i’ll say. But ive always been interested in developers, getting big, making games and everything. The only issue is, i dont know how. I see these videos talking about the people who ‘ got big on roblox ‘ and i never know how to do it. I’m 16 next year so unfortunately publishing UGCs is sadly out of the question for me as i think you need to be verified with ID for that. So really, what can i do? I just dream to get big on roblox, verified, a big game, rich, all that stuff any kid would dream of on roblox. But how do i make this a reality without failing? Thank you everyone.

Hi guys, what’s the cheapest country to buy robux in and how exactly would i do it? I know that whenever i’ve tried to use different countries and pay for robux it just switches back to my price. Is there a certain payment way i need to use? Thanks everyone.

Yes i know it’s early, but christmas is my absolute favourite holiday. But whenever i see christmas videos, I’ll always see couple ones. It makes me so sad knowing i cant see and spend time with my girlfriend at christmas. Both of us dont have enough money to see each other around christmas time, being in different countries kills me! One day i hope i can experience christmas with her.

These questions are for non-transmeds since the trans sub took my post down.

Hey all, i’ve been looking into transmedicalism this past week, mostly on tiktok. I understand that many/majority of them now believe it is needing dysphoria to be trans.

I have a few questions about the whole thing and im just looking for an unbiased answer of it, my following questions im yet to find an answer to:

1. If we don’t need dysphoria to be trans, would that make being trans a choice? If not how?

2. In what cases would someone not experience dysphoria?

3. This might just be a personal belief, but would we all not experience some sort of dysphoria, but it could be so little it’s unrecognisable?

4. Whats a few sources i can find that explain that dysphoria is not present in everyone?

5. If we don’t need dysphoria, why does for example, testosterone need a diagnosis of dysphoria?

Looking for answers from unbiased non-transmeds if possible, just trying to learn about both sides of the viewpoint. Thanks in advance.
(Heads up im not here to debate just educate myself.)

Hello everyone, this past week i have been looking into the whole transmedical stuff. I am not a transmed, i am not here to argue about my opinions. I am here to educate myself. So therefore, i have a few questions regarding the whole thing that i was hoping to get unbiased answers from a transmed themselves.

Here’s some of my questions:

1. Why would we need dysphoria to be trans?

2. What are some sources that say you need dysphoria to be trans?

3. Is transmedicalism just an opinion or is it a fact?

4. Majority of transmeds i see (mainly tiktok) are often quite rude and stereotypical, why is this?

5. Majority of transmeds i see again are quite young, does anyone know the reason behind this?

Those are just some of the questions i have for your community. As said, im here to learn not debate. I’d appreciate if no one tried to argue with my own opinion and just gave answers as im trying to get the viewpoint from both sides. Thank you in advance everyone.

Hey all, looking to buy the poison horns soon, i was initially going to buy from audrite using crypto, it would’ve been £3000+ for me. However i heard buying high limiteds like that there isn’t the best idea. Whats my best move to buy it? USD buy the robux and just buy the limited myself or is there any good trusted sites?

P.S. Do not flood the replies with “ DM me i can sell it “ i’m not looking to buy it right now, just looking for where to buy in the future.

Hey guys, so i’m in the UK, those of you who know you often have a prom after you finish high school. I have mine next year. I’m not publicly out to anyone yet, and i plan on coming out after i finish high school.

All my friends are going to prom, and i can’t just be the only kid who doesn’t go to prom with no reason at all. But the thought of wearing a dress kills me, and my mum spending so much money on a dress guilts me so badly. I don’t know what to do anymore.

Hi guys, so i’ve always stuck with prebuilts for my PCs and i’m not the best with specs. So im looking to build a new PC, specifically one in a nice budget. I’m in the UK, looking for one typically around £600, but up to £800 is the absolute limit however i wouldn’t want to go to £800 unless really needed.

I often play roblox, minecraft, some steam games, and use my PC for school work if this helps.

Cases, typically ones that look like the Lian Li O11D design, but more in budget. Other than that for the rest of the stuff i don’t have any idea. Also sticking with the colour black. Thank you all!

Only year 10 doing my mocks and i’m already thinking of my leavers shirt?! I wanna do anime, but people know me to be super basic.. plus i don’t think anyone in my year likes anime and they’re all super judgemental sob. Thinking of either risking it and doing anime, or just staying basic. Thoughts?

A little bit of context, i’m in high school and i’ve got some real important exams starting today. Everyone who knows me knows i stress a bunch about exams.

So today, it’s the morning day of the exams. My mums boyfriend texts me “ Good luck with your exams! “ and even just a simple text like that can make me feel ten times better about an exam. Go about with my day, finish the exams. My mums boyfriend as he comes home asks me how they went, if i think i did well, what exams i had today. We just had a conversation about it really. I napped after school, woke up to my brother who went out with our biological dad, usually my dad texts me when he’s going out for dinner with us, but didn’t bother asking me.

He comes home, asks to see me. We have a dry-ish conversation. Not one word about my exams, i bring them up multiple times about how i was stressed, studying a lot. Didn’t ask how they went, didn’t say good luck. Nothing. I was expecting him to say something, but nothing at all. It kind of upset me the fact he didn’t bother saying anything knowing how much i stress for these exams.

I’m thinking i might just be overreacting about it, i’m not sure. But it’s more deeper than this and i’m slowly having to accept the fact my mums boyfriend acts like a better dad than my real dad, and it makes me feel so guilty to even say that.

Hello everyone. It’s pretty much what the title says, i’m an extremely bad person. Im purposely hurting peoples feelings and finding it funny, making people upset, doing horrible things. I wish i wasn’t like this, ive tried to change but i enjoy the rush i get from it. I hate to admit something like that but ive come to the conclusion that that’s unfortunately the truth for me.

I’ve been like this for years, people say go to therapy but it doesn’t work for me. I want to change and be a better person, it’s ruining my relationships with everyone.

Please, how do i change and become a better person. It’s horrible living like this knowing i do such horrible things to people, no matter how many times i say sorry it never makes me feel better about myself. I just want any advice on how to become a better person.

Hey everyone, i’m going to go to college next year and i’m currently not out to anyone about me being trans. I plan on going to a college that no one from my school is going to, and transitioning before i join.

I’m super scared about not being able to make friends. I’m such an awkward person, not to forget how feminine i sound. I’m just so scared i’ll be alone and judged there as a trans guy. I don’t know what to do, is it really as bad as they say it is?

New to this community. I’m a trans man (FTM) and i want to know how i can become more attractively masculine, without transitioning to not even pass. I’ve heard people saying work on your jawline, etc. But i have no idea how to ascend like that.

Any tips appreciated.