Is there anyone like a mom who can teach me to do my hair myself? Im sick of ponytails and buns and im striggling

I havent spoken to my mom in years, i literally have zero friends other than my fiance and i was one of the kids who rejected girly things as a kid so now at 25 i dress like im 12🥲 like how can i french braid or dutch braid or use the eight products to style?

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u/TopQueenBee20 — 6 days ago

Hot take setting these rules is so stupid

Rules like no cams whatsoever no selfing or dead sabs and no grouping or afk kills are so damn stupid and take the fun out of the game.

If im done w my tasks im going to cams its not my fault imps were too slow to kill. Also if youre afk im sorry but you deserve to die. If im done with tasks and im staying w someone i know is clear then tough, imp shouldve killed faster.

And whyyyy is selfing so bad fr its not that deep also why would my partner NOT dead sab its the whole point of ghost imp ffs

Why should i suffer if the imps suck and the host has dumb expectations

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u/TopQueenBee20 — 11 days ago

CC3 FINALE THOUGHTS AND IM BEYOND SICK(spoilers)

I need to drown myself in booze and mirth root. I need my mommy. I need to be buried I am NOT OK

So it is confirmed that Urd is the cauldron and the statue in hell had word marks!!!!

I had t stop when Connor came onto the page and I cried so hard and even harder when I realized he couldn't even talk and EVEN HARDER when he and everyone else made the bullet ugh my heart hurts

The under king straight up slipping and falling was hilarious to me tho

can someone explain what exactly an ordeal is bc I still don't understand, is it like a canon event where the person has to be traumatized?

I MISS SATHIA AND WHY TF WAS SHE NOT IN THE ENDING

so lemme make sure im clear on this rhuun, your lover has her children held by a sadist...and all you wanna do rn is get frisky....come on broski that kinda grossed me out, less so when I saw Lidia wanted it to but still bro just be thinking with his pp

I hate that he shot Lidia and did a whole self sacrifice thing like bro it didn't even do anything now everyone is upset

the entire battle scene where Polaris dies and the princes are fighting would look soooooooo sick in live action like LoTR style baby

I thought tharion was gonna die tbh and I almost stopped reading altogether ik I've been saying I don't like him but he's growing on me what can I say

Lidia HAS to be like a cousin to aelin there's no way bc Brannon is her ancestor and she's got that bitchin fire come AWN I want them to meet so bad

I was so happy to see my sprites back and I wish I could've seen them work with the antidote fr that would've been so cool

something that bugged me is Bryce described her running from rigelus a week ago and I refuse to believe its only been seven days since then I think Sarah messed up like when she forgot about that one TOG character

real talk I HATED shahar as the series went on and when her soul was helping hunt get to Bryce I was sobbing like SOBBING

I hated hated hated the whole fmc died but didn't die and I was very upset when Jesica decided to trade places like I get she didn't want to be immortal but I wanted her in the epilogue with Ithan they were becoming a nice duo

I woke up my fiancé at 3 am last night crying about the pack and Lehabah being in the afterlife and waving to Bryce im SICK NOBODY TALK TO ME

and then Ember hugging nesta I died inside I want MY mom now plssssssss

all in all great series BUT I don't think anything will compare to TOG ad if I had to rank the three series its TOG, ACOTAR, CC in that order I can't wait for the next two books ty ty all for going on the journey with me<3

u/TopQueenBee20 — 1 month ago

CC3 THOUGHTS PART 4: CHAPTERS 61-81 (spoilers)

SO MICH IS HAPPENING JESUS

okay so starting off strong the kings BURNED hunt to wake them up like damn be patient

The entire fight scene was amazing and ngl i thought it was funny when Sathia stabbed her foot dropping the knife. Bryce straight up MELTING the twins from the i side was so kick ass

Then we got Rhuun finally coming in clutch with the starsword BYE BYE FAE KINGS LETS GOOOOO

Ngl im losing my love for Ithan. Bro just cant get his head in the game like buddy were at war we can NOT worry about your reaper alpha rn.

I was kind of hoping Bryce would find a way to MAKE the people there share homes and like come together but whatever lol

Rhuun and Lidia still cant keep it in their pants smh

I have a very strong feeling that Ember is gonna die and im gonna be so pissed off if she does.

Also WHY WAS SIGRID WITH SABINE AND THE ATRONOMER WTF WAS THAT ABOUT AND WHY DID THE UNDERKING ALLOW IT???

I love how Ithan is like “i didnt come here to cause trouble” and immediately trouble ensues and hes now the prime. And hes low key still throwing fits uuuuugh

NESTANESTANESTANESTANESTANESTANESTAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!

Bryce has some BALLS on her asking for that mask i was mindboggled. Then i was pissed and sad what do you MEAN YOU BARGAINED YOUR PARENTS FOR THE MASK
I really hope we see how they’re doing over there

onto the river queen. Tharion is redeeming himself fr. Im sooooo glad he finally yelled at whatsherface and her mom is like aight you’re cool now ok ill take anybody in

However i feel like her daughter is gonna turn them in out of spite.

Finding out Pollux took the boys feels so random and out of place like how did he even get them? The ocean queen DEF gave them up im calling it rn

IM TEAM HUNT CELESTINA FUCKED UUUUPPPPP

I cried a little when he cut Isaiahs halo😭😭my sweet boy fr

Anyways i have one more reading sesh before im done with the massverse til october. Its been a hell of a ride😭💛💛💛

u/TopQueenBee20 — 1 month ago
▲ 2 r/Moms

Could any moms help me with some homework?

Im writing a “child case study” journal for my child development class and for #10 it says

“interview a friend or family member to find out what they know about baby blues and PPD and if they experienced it. How can family members and friends help prevent it”

the issue is i literally know nobody,zero friends and my family is not in contact with me or each other (this is not “poor me” its just a fact)

So i was hoping any mothers here if they are comfortable sharing could tell me how it was for you

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u/TopQueenBee20 — 2 months ago
▲ 26 r/FAFSA

My fasfa doesnt cover all of my tuition and i am not employed

EDIT: i talked to the people in the office after class(took like two hours to get through the line) they said my fasfa pell grant is on hold bc i am an out of state resident, (just moved to CA like a fee months ago) and all they did was give me a number and said “call this guy and appeal”🫠 he didnt answer

This is my first time at college at 25 and i am panicking. I cant get ahold of the financial aid office by phone, my highschool gpa is 1.6 so scholarships are not an option

Theres never anyone at the financial aid office and when there its theres an entire mob of about 50ish people.

My tuition is 5k for this semester. But aid only covers 3k.
Do i just say bye bye college? School takes so much time im only free on fridays and weekends so im not sure a job will do much.

I dont see any options and im stressing so bad its hurting my school work like im literally writing this during math 110

(EDIT: not sure why but r/college banned me for this so im posting here)

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u/TopQueenBee20 — 2 months ago

CC3 thoughts part 3:chapters 41-60(spoilers)

okay friends I have a TON to unpack holy moly.

first let me start by saying im pretty sure the fourth book for CC is gonna be titled "house of many waters" which you all most likely know and I probably sound so silly but I just had to put it out there because I recently heard there's gonna be a book four!!!!

okay onto my thoughts: so we got Ithan in with jesiba rn and my stomach DROPPED when the astronomer made a comeback I was really hoping Ithan would put that rifle to use.

correct me if im wrong but in acotar being daemati is like mind reading and stuff right? so wouldn't that make the murder twins daemati?? can they break minds like Rhys can?

I was kinda hoping Hypaxia would fight for her crown nil I feel like she would be an amazing queen if she would give some witchy attitude!! I feel like Manon would smack her tbh

as someone with little sisters in foster care who later got adopted Lidia's situation with her boys really hurt my heart I so hope she can build a relationship with them its breaking my heart

finding out the underling rules FaS should not have been surprising to me but I feel like it was mentioned before and I just missed it but my jaw was on the floor fr. bc how can he rule a house in Midgard if he's in her it didn't make sense to me

finding out the magic lesbians broke up kinda make me sad for Hypaxia but tbh id be pissed too if my lover sold out my friends to protect me

now things are getting pretty interesting bc what do you MEAN were bringing Sigrid back to life?? hello????? girl sewing on her head like she's just a ripped doll im weak

ooohhhh Tharion. Tharion, Tharion, Tharion...... im trying soooo hard to like him I really am.

Im tired of this whole woe is me I suck and im scared mentality. when he jumped off that boat to get away from the ocean queen I damn near threw my book. is he EVER going to stop running and pick somewhere to stay? PICK AN EYE PEEP JUST PICK ONE

istg he's going to end up fucking Bryce over and run away again I do not trust this fish at aaaalllllllll

now my girl Bryce. I love her so mf much. the ENTIRE SCENE meeting oven was so sweet.

"you spit on our traditions" "get over it" YES GIRL TELL THAT MF!!!!!!

Tharion did in fact get some brownie points for offering to marry Flynns sister

so yes we do in fact have some zombie Sigrid action but I was not expecting her to go full on reaper? I thought she would like go rouge and run off to kill sabine or something

while were on the subject of Sigrid, can we take a moment to study the fact that "acid" is being used a lot as well to describe colors and tastes? I should've kept a tally its been a lot lol

now here is where Ithan is starting to irk me. Girl took SEVEN HOURS out of her day and risked herself to bring back someone FOR YOU and now you're mad bc ms zombie doesn't want to listen to you? now he's throwing a whole ass tantrum for Hypaxia to fix her and I can't with him he's such a baby (but he's MY baby so I forgive him a little)

ONTO THE CAVE LETS GOOOOO so brice really grossed me out licking the dust made from ghoul claws. anyone else? just me? okay. I was very relieved to find out later that It was salt but still, nobody thought to be like hey don't do that its gross

now at this point Rhun kept thinking about how Flynn and Dec were missing and didn't seem to be bothered which bothered ME

Morven and Bryces dad showing up made me almost shit myself ngl and OH LOOK THERES THE MISSING FELLAS I SHOULDVE KNOWN

and what are Rhun and Lidia while they were actively being nabbed? getting down and freaking dirty like babies this is NOT the place are we fr?????

Bryce is really pulling some Aelins in this book and I just know they would get along so well. however I need hunt to chill bc being between two fae kings a wall and a river is noooot the time to spiral snap out of it old chap but also I get it

I was kinda on Hunts side during their argument after the river she was being so harsh like girl he was tortured for you and you're screaming that him going with you is not good enough? of course he's scared and she's not thinking about the bigger picture like fr what IF the aster goes after everyones family? what is she gonna do then?

it was pretty funny how the rest of the group stood back and watched mom and dad fight lol

I really want to know more about Thanatos and if someone could tell me his lore that would be lovely like why is he so salty all the time who pissed in his socks?

also can someone elaborate for me on hunt literally being Made for Bryce? so basically they bred hunt to kill the aster but then Bryce came along?

anyways that's the gist of my thoughts thank you for reading and stay tuned bc I have about two reading sessions left whew

u/TopQueenBee20 — 2 months ago
▲ 1 r/Hair

Why is one patch of my hair always so dry?

I have washed conditioned, put in leave in conditioner, and hair oil. This one patch is always so frizzed up no matter what i do. I even use a hair mask once a week

u/TopQueenBee20 — 2 months ago
▲ 1 r/Hair

I hate my hair.

How on earth do people find it do easy to work on the back of their heads??? I cant even do a basic style even with a mirror i cant see anything and my hair is poofy and wont separate without ripping out of my head. Am i just cursed to live in a bun because im ready to go bald. Im going to a concert tomorrow and i wanted to do my hair but atp its just basic ponytail or bun and im so sick if it.

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u/TopQueenBee20 — 2 months ago

What can i do with my hair? Going to an event tomorrow!!

Thick shoulder length and 2B i have zero clue what to do with it 😭😭😭pls help

u/TopQueenBee20 — 2 months ago

What can i do with my hair? Going to an event tomorrow!!

Thick shoulder length and 2B i have zero clue what to do with it 😭😭😭pls help

u/TopQueenBee20 — 2 months ago

CC3 thoughts part 2: chapters 20-40(spoilers

I cant put this book down yall its too good 😭 im already almost halfway through and were on day two of reading

So we have the full backstory regarding theia and her daughters so my understanding is Rhys must be a descendant of silene while bryce is a descendant of helena.

Its all kinda fucked how silene dipped and then didnt take anyone with her and kept it under wraps but the while ASTERI BEING UNDER GROUND AND NOBODY NOTICED??

i would think the bat boys would investigate the prison more thoroughly tbh.

Ithan is breaking my heart this boy has literally lost like everything but hey Jesiba is back in the game lets go baddie but also holy shit she was a whole human priestess??

How old IS this woman?!?!?

Ithan is like a grown ass man tho right? Because hes really giving “im a young teen and im basically an adult shut up mom i hate you” like lots and lots of emotional thinking going on here but i still love my baby boy!!!

Has anyone else noticed the curling lips thing? Im gonna make it a drinking game atp lol

Bryce landing in her dads study gave Aelin vibes like what do you meeeaaaannnn it was intentional lol
And like how long was her dad gonna keep her there??
Giving this whole poor me i loved your mom then were back to you little bitch fuck you like sir youre horrible

I loooooooved when she was like get in the closet heres a bucket😂😂😂 i know he was pissed as hell i think hes gonna die soon ngl

I shouldve known Lidia would live no big character stays dead for long in the Maasverse but finding out shes a MOTHER almost took me out 😭😭😭 do the boys know her??? Is Rhun gonna be a stepdaddy???

Also lets talk about the ocean queen because a dress made of kelp with a train of sea fans and coral/shells sounds so ugly like they just went and grabbed anything to throw on her id look up a pic but ik how that goes and i know id get spoiled so like feel free to enlighten me on that and drop one below

Ill most likely finish this tomorrow or tomorrow night😍😍😍 still no clue what to predict tho😭

u/TopQueenBee20 — 2 months ago

CC3 LETS GO BABYYY (spoilers)

So i dont have any predictions yet because honestly this is NOT going at all how i thought it would

Firstly lets just say im honestly not torn up about Cormac dying but ugh the way his dad talked about uim really rubbed me the wrong way

Im so starved for ACOTAR im eating the Bryce POVs UUUPPPP WELCOME TO THE NIGH COURT GIRLIE😍😍😍

Speaking of her POVs, can someone give me like a Thiea family tree because it is so hard to keep up and im trying to make sense of all the info that was just unloaded onto my brain

Also something i havent seen anyone talk about, Sarah totally heard us clowning on her for the watery bowels and have replaced them with curling lips! Every other page someone is curling them word flappers

If i made a drinking game out of it id be tipsy FOR SURE

Also i thought Bryce was in the prison because of all the monsters she heard but now im no so sure considering at some point of them going through the tunnel nesta mentions them just now getting there? So was she just UTM?

Pollux is fucking gross and if he doesnt die by the hinds or Ruhns hand im gonna be so mad. Also i dont eeevvveeerrrr want to read about an antagonists dong described as “heavy” , is bro hung like a horse? Ewww

I loved Nesta talking about how everyone in the IC were trying and failing to figure out Bryces phone lmaooo

So the midgard fae came from Prynthian, but the TOG fae are from their own world? It was really cool to see them mentioned!! I really hope i get to hear about Aelin and Rowan at some point!!

Over all im very much enjoying this😍😍

u/TopQueenBee20 — 2 months ago

Just finished CC2….(spoilers)

Oh. My. God. I dont even know where to start.

First off i need to know how Ariadne is pronounced

I fucking KNEW there was something up with Celestina and i cant wait to see what Hypaxia thinks about what she did also HELLO THEYRE LOVERS??

remember in TOG when that super big thing happened and we all freaked but Maas was like its ok just turn the page….literally the same thing when the death stalker got to Ithan i was a mess and then oh boom he was fine

I looooooved the big fuck you to Bryces dad when she announced to the world that hunt was her mate and he had no choice but to accept it ugh it was great.
Then theyre getting spicy and shes like “fuck me like the prince you are” YES GIRL GET IIITTTTT

The Mystic wolf being a Fendyr is crazy to me and her being in captivity and the prime basically knowing about it and not doing anything is sending me. Thats a member of your FAMILY broski. Also where did she come from????

Onto the biggest most confusing bombshell of the entire book for me….

THE HIND IS DAYBRIGHT?! ARE WE SERIOUS?? I DIDNT SEE THIS COMING AT FREAKING ALL AND IT WAS SO FAR FROM BEING A POSSIBILITY TO ME I REALLY THOUGHT SHE WAS GENUINELY INTO POLLUX
ALSO HOW IS SHE NOT SUSSED BY THE ASTERI BC SHE CLEARLY LEFT BRUCES SHACKLES UNLOCKED AND SLIT MORDOCS THROAT LIKE HOW IS SHE STILL ALLOWED TO CHILL?!

Also the VIPER QUEEN of all people i least expected Tharion to go to. Hes never escaping im calling it now

“Hello Bryce Quinlan, my name is Rhysand” SHES IN PRYNTHIAN AAAAAAAHHHHHHH THE BAT BOYS ARE BACK WE GOT THE IC AGAIN BABY LETS GOOOOOOOOO
its midnight and i was screaming into my pillow im so excited to start book three tomorrow

Oh something i was thinking about, Urd was described as the “vat of life” could that be the cauldron or am i reaching??

u/TopQueenBee20 — 2 months ago