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Is it better to go to a different church if you can’t make it to an Orthodox Church?

I have felt called to Orthodoxy for several years now, but I had to move from the Orthodox Church where I was an inquirer for my husband’s job. I am not currently able to drive to the nearest Orthodox Church, and my husband isn’t interested in taking me, as he’s very settled as a Baptist.

I was raised Catholic and could go to a local Catholic Church, but it would really be a placeholder until I could get to an Orthodox Church. At the moment I feel pressured to go to my husband’s Baptist church. I have genuine concerns about the theology personally, but the people are generally nice and offer opportunities for social interaction. I just feel like if I go I’m essentially lying since I don’t truly buy into their statement of faith. The church is very much a “relationship not religion” type church, and has made comments that hint on anti-Catholicism (and I imagine the same would be true of Orthodoxy if it were more well-known in my area).

At this point, as I’ve been starved for social interaction, I’m wondering if it is best to participate in my husband’s church until I have the ability to regularly go to an Orthodox Church. I would be exposed to the Bible and people who are seeking Christ, albeit in a bit of a different manner.

I feel torn because I don’t exactly feel like I’m being authentic by attending, but I’m not sure it’s best to avoid going to church altogether. I have asked whether anyone from my town travels to the Orthodox Church in another city, but no one responded.

What would you do?

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u/bookish_cat_ — 8 days ago

Depressed, dehydrated, and trying to do better. Is there anything that can help soften the lines around my lips?

I have been going through it for several years now. My nervous system is near-constantly on edge, and I’ve been super stressed to the point of neglecting myself. I know that I am also very dehydrated, which doesn’t help matters. I am actively trying to work on that.

I also have rosacea, and many products break me out. I do well with SuperGoop’s mineral glow screen, but I’m struggling to find a good moisturizer. Ingredients like shea butter seem to aggravate my skin, and Vanicream surprisingly didn’t work well either.

Beyond drinking more, are there products that could help soften the lines around my mouth? I feel like it’s all I see when I look in the mirror, which I actively try to avoid lately. Please ignore my embarrassingly dry lips/skin. I’m trying to do better. 😭

u/bookish_cat_ — 8 days ago

Research related to the microbiome and overwashing hands?

I’m curious whether anyone has come across research regarding the microbiome and handwashing, specifically against overwashing hands and possible damage to the microbiome. I feel like it’s a balance to protect ourselves from harm by keeping hands clean, but overwashing must do harm as well.

Any resources would be greatly appreciated!

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u/bookish_cat_ — 11 days ago

Wrap tops and dresses/skirts just like Sozy (but not Sozy)?

I have really liked the look of Sozy’s wrap tops and dresses, but I keep running into bad reviews. Reviews have said that the pieces fell apart quickly and dye has stained skin despite several washes. Needless to say, I’m pretty hesitant to purchase from Sozy.

I can’t quite find pieces very similar to these, though. I’ve looked at Quince, Sezane, Boden, Pact. and tried to just google something, but I haven’t found precisely what I’m looking for.

Do any fashion sleuths have recommendations?

u/bookish_cat_ — 11 days ago

Your subway system is not only efficient but CLEAN. Having Philly’s subway as my primary point of comparison, I am seriously impressed. I mean, I wouldn’t want to eat a meal off the floor, but it is miles above what I have experienced in Philly. I’m also a huge germaphobe, so admitting that public transportation is pretty clean is a big deal.

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u/bookish_cat_ — 17 days ago
▲ 55 r/PMDD

I woke up and the feeling of darkness and dread is back. My feelings toward my husband changed. I just want to be alone. Aaand that’s all I’ve got. 🫠

u/bookish_cat_ — 24 days ago

It’s so hard to see it on the picture, but it looks like very light brown/reddish slime on part of the rice I just cooked. I rinsed it beforehand and cooked it on the stove. The pot was cleaned beforehand.

This happened before when I cooked a lot of rice on the stovetop, and I was worried it was that reddish bacteria that you find near water, so I threw it away. I’m imaging that’s not it, though….

u/bookish_cat_ — 24 days ago