u/tru_ass

I think I am having a chronic procrastination problem. It has gotten too bad now that it is harming me.

• I am "fat" and from last 6+ years I am thinking about reducing my weight but- No Action
• I didn't develop any skills in my college thinking "Will see, will think"- No skill now
• I didn't apply to colleges for this year intake thinking "Will see, will think". Now it's too late
• I have missed important examinations because I was too lazy to check the date of the exam and only saw the date months after the exam had passed.
• I have failed exams just because I didn't prep for it. Just to give you a perspective- One day, I was watching youtube till 3am in the morning and only after that started studying when I had exam at 9am that same day.
• I have missed important projects, events, internships, job openings. A lot more

Why? "Will see, will think"
My dreams are sky high, but actions?- 0

The worst thing? I am aware about everything yet I am that same cycle.
I am even aware that making small tasks and small goals and completing them may help but yet here I am...

Youtube has been one of my biggest addictions, I am spending hours and hours a day on it. But it's not just one platform.

I have this problem that I get addicted too quickly. Youtube has been the most of it but there was time when it was reels, and once it was reddit.

Heck! I am weeks (months) late to even write this post.

Any help will be appreciated.

I think I am having a chronic procrastination problem. It has gotten too bad now that it is harming me.

• I am "fat" and from last 6+ years I am thinking about reducing my weight but- No Action
• I didn't develop any skills in my college thinking "Will see, will think"- No skill now
• I didn't apply to colleges for this year intake thinking "Will see, will think". Now it's too late
• I have missed important examinations because I was too lazy to check the date of the exam and only saw the date months after the exam had passed.
• I have failed exams just because I didn't prep for it. Just to give you a perspective- One day, I was watching youtube till 3am in the morning and only after that started studying when I had exam at 9am that same day.
• I have missed important projects, events, internships, job openings. A lot more

Why? "Will see, will think"
My dreams are sky high, but actions?- 0

The worst thing? I am aware about everything yet I am that same cycle.
I am even aware that making small tasks and small goals and completing them may help but yet here I am...

Youtube has been one of my biggest addictions, I am spending hours and hours a day on it. But it's not just one platform.

I have this problem that I get addicted too quickly. Youtube has been the most of it but there was time when it was reels, and once it was reddit.

Heck! I am weeks (months) late to even write this post.

Any help will be appreciated.

I think I am having a chronic procrastination problem. It has gotten too bad now that it is harming me.

• I am "fat" and from last 6+ years I am thinking about reducing my weight but- No Action
• I didn't develop any skills in my college thinking "Will see, will think"- No skill now
• I didn't apply to colleges for this year intake thinking "Will see, will think". Now it's too late
• I have missed important examinations because I was too lazy to check the date of the exam and only saw the date months after the exam had passed.
• I have failed exams just because I didn't prep for it. Just to give you a perspective- One day, I was watching youtube till 3am in the morning and only after that started studying when I had exam at 9am that same day.
• I have missed important projects, events, internships, job openings. A lot more

Why? "Will see, will think"
My dreams are sky high, but actions?- 0

The worst thing? I am aware about everything yet I am that same cycle.
I am even aware that making small tasks and small goals and completing them may help but yet here I am...

Youtube has been one of my biggest addictions, I am spending hours and hours a day on it. But it's not just one platform.

I have this problem that I get addicted too quickly. Youtube has been the most of it but there was time when it was reels, and once it was reddit.

Heck! I am weeks (months) late to even write this post.

It's been years since I am sick of it and I want to improve myself.
Any advice is appreciated 🙏

Should I go to some coaching?

Should I do self study?

Should I take some online course?

Not that crap with fake carbon in the middle. Also not the synthetic one.

Genuine alcantara one.

This post is primarily for lawyers.

If you or anybody you know who is their at Jantar Mantar giving their support, how can we contact?

I am seeing police doing illegal detainment all over and it's scary af!

Heck, they are detaining people going to the site.

I recently saw few posts where women were saying that they are done with female gynacs and will move to a male gynac.

I think the common points were-

• Being too judgy and incompassionate
• Asking the question "Are you sexually active" for everything
• Asking that question in front of moms, which lead to reduced transparency with the doctor.

Heck, I saw one young girl saying that she will take her dad rather than her mom to the gyne as both the female gyne + mom combo is a headache for her.

What are your thoughts on this? Do you have similar or opposite experience?

In 4 years of my North Campus life, I have had 0 dates. And it's not that I didn't try to....I tried everything. I must've right swiped 10k+ people but didn't receive a single like back. Yeah! Not even a single.

I am not that bum of a guy either (I think, lol).

I tried asking in offline (which is super out of my comfort zone). That didn't work either. Both from women of college and outside of cllg.

Just wanted to share my experience, it's a little disheartening allwhile I see now redditors getting a date on reddit. Don't even know what I am even doing wrong....

So I just graduated with B.Tech in CS and now I am 21. Just out of college and completely blank about what I have to do next. I am from a 3rd world country.

Traditional routes are either going for masters or apply for jobs.

But none of those things I love.

My dream is to become filthy rich. Why? Because I want to become president one day. Beside this naive idea of mine...

I love to travel, love gardening and I love content creation (Youtube mostly).
I love cars a lot. I love aviation. (But not as much as cars)

From the few internships I did, I didn't like corporate at all. Like not at all...

I am not from a rich family. A lot of career paths plans are getting hindered due to financial reasons.

How can I make a career out the things I love? Is that even possible?

Thanks in advance. Any advice or suggestion is appreciated.

So I recently graduated this summer and I am confused as anything about what should I do.

On one half I think-

Hmm, there a so many problems here...(You know the deal, every negative thing that may come to your mind)

Then on the other half I think-

Hmm, I would have to "abandon" my parents, leave this food, have to adjust to so much cultural change and not to mention that you won't have much rights there as you are just a "visitor" there. You would be one of the weakest sections of society there (initially atleast).

I know it's not easy to move out. The loneliness is not a joke. The money problems...A whole lot. But then I see here....

tl;dr- Want to go abroad but can't seem to make up my mind.

Hi folks,

I just graduated from my BTech in CS. Now I am at crossroads.

I have 2 confusions-

1. Should I do an MBA or MS/MTech
2. Should I do it from India or abroad

Any person with experience please kindly suggest me.

The thing is, that I have interest in neither of those things and I am just doing for the sake of it.
From whatever few internships I have done, I didn't like corporate at all. But Alas! What can be done eh...

I also, want to go out (abroad) and a masters may be the stepping ladder for that.
Do you think it would be wise to do some management masters abroad with 0 YOE? Like MiM, MSc. in Management , MBA...

Here as in India and Out as in Abroad
My qualitification- B.Tech in CS this summer, 0 YOE, 3 internships

So I recently graduated this summer and I am confused as anything about what should I do.

On one half I think-

Hmm, there a so many problems here...(You know the deal, every negative thing that may come to your mind)

Then on the other half I think-

Hmm, I would have to "abandon" my parents, leave this food, have to adjust to so much cultural change and not to mention that you won't have much rights there as you are just a "visitor" there. You would be one of the weakest sections of society there (initially atleast).

I know it's not easy to move out. The loneliness is not a joke. The money problems...A whole lot. But then I see here....

My qualitification- B.Tech in CS this summer, 0 YOE, 3 internships

So I recently graduated this summer and I am confused as anything about what should I do.

On one half I think-

Hmm, there a so many problems here...(You know the deal, every negative thing that may come to your mind)

Then on the other half I think-

Hmm, I would have to "abandon" my parents, leave this food, have to adjust to so much cultural change and not to mention that you won't have much rights there as you are just a "visitor" there. You would be one of the weakest sections of society there (initially atleast).

I know it's not easy to move out. The loneliness is not a joke. The money problems...A whole lot. But then I see here....

Edit- Here as in India and Out as in Abroad

So my question is a little broad.

I am a 21M rn. Graduated this summer from B.Tech in IT. I interned at a company for my last sem. And now I am at home.

I am here seeking guidance on what could I do in the future because some people suggest, that I should do something that I have interest in. But the truth that I want to share is that I have interest in nothing.

I have options open for Govt. Exams, Masters from India or abroad, Govt. job contractual, corporate job.

I don't romanticize corporate jobs as I know their reality. I am not sure which masters shall I do- Management related or Tech related.

I found doing Content Creation on Youtube interesting and working on cars, But It's gonna take time and what would I tell my parents.
I love traveling and seeing the world...If it helps.

Apologize if I am sounding naive and stupid. Whatever I wrote here was genuine.

Seeking your help and advice.

Discuss regarding Civil Rights.

I'm hoping to get some perspective from lawyers in the United States. (Can be extended to Canada, UK, Australia)

Lately I've been seeing a huge amount of content about police brutality, and it's honestly starting to take a mental toll on me.
I'm trying to understand whether the situation is truly as pervasive as it appears in my feeds or whether my online activity has caused algorithms to disproportionately show me this type of content.

I watched a few videos on the topic and bamm, it's like every new video is of a "fresh" victim.

From your professional experience or observations, do you think the volume of police brutality content I see online reflects how common these incidents actually are?

I'm not asking anyone to minimize or dismiss victims' experiences. I understand that even one unjustified incident is serious.

I'd really appreciate thoughtful, evidence-based perspectives rather than political opinions.

Thank you in advance.