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▲ 134 r/ABCDesis

I miss the reputation that Desis had when I was a kid in elementary school like 15 years ago

In the early 2000s I feel like the worst stereotypes we had were "cow lovers" and terrorist or other Islam-related stereotypes which were pushed onto us from appearing similar to Middle Easterners.

Even in middle school, I remember having some redneck white kid telling me to go eat curry; like that's genuinely the best roast they were able to think of.

I mean like it wasn't even until around 2008-2012 when scam calls started getting common and known about. If people heard an Indian accent prior to 2010, they didn't think "Oh, probably a scam call" yet.

Mostly, when people thought of India, they thought of Bollywood at that time. Which was silly, but not in a manner that caused us to receive hate, rather it was just goofy, like the bollywood overly-dramatic action scenes or singing randomly. We were known for singing and dancing, that's not bad.

But nowadays, it feels like racism is actually hate-based rather than ignorant of slight mockery.

Maybe because I was a kid I wasn't exposed to the real world at that point, like I'm 24 right now, but it feels insanely worse.

Even at that time, we were socially considered part of the model minority in that people saw us as people who never commit crimes and remain highly educated, which a lot of desis complained about, because it means we are held to a higher standard than others, but have you seen what they're saying about Indian immigrants in the west now? It's objectively worse since they're expecting perfect behavior while having preconceptions of us defaulting to littering and illegally working or entering the country.

One positive change though seems to be that people are less colorist. When I was growing up dark skin was seen as a negative trait, while now it's a neutral thing.

It's crazy to think that at one point, India had 32% of the world's GDP. Even 1700 years after that 32%, it only dropped to 24% of the world's GDP. No other country has been that much of the world's GDP at any other point than China. Imagine the perception of us at that time, and what could've happened if colonialism didn't destroy India after 1700. I wish I could experience it.

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u/DownvoteIfYouWantMe — 2 days ago

What are some things that make you super nostalgic?

I feel like even in my teen years or before that, I experienced nostalgia.

I'd get nostalgic over stuff like

TV Shows

  • Icarly
  • Victorious
  • Zoey101
  • Wizards of Waverly Place
  • Good luck Charlie
  • Drake and Josh

Video Games

  • Halo Reach
  • Runescape
  • Wizard101
  • Black ops 1
  • League Of Legends
  • Clash of Clans
  • Fireboy and watergirl
  • Minecraft
  • New super mario bros wii
  • Club Penguin

Songs

  • Good time by Owl City
  • You make me Feel by Cobra Starship
  • Bring me to Live by Evanescence
  • Thousand Miles by Vanessa Carlton
  • Just Dance by Lady Gaga
  • Lolipop by Lil Wayne
  • Wall to Wall by Chris Brown
  • Firework by Katy Perry
  • Windows Down by Big Time Rush

Now the thing is, with some of these things, I feel like I'm on the younger side of the majority which gets nostalgic over it.

For example, Runescape is a game that most people who are in their early twenties or younger haven't heard of or played probably. Zoey101 is probably the same case. Artists like Sum 41, Akon, or Linkin Park as well. So similarly, there's probably things even early teens share nostalgia with me about.

So I'm curious to know what those of you younger than 17 feel the most intense nostalgia about

Oh and I'm a 2002 baby

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u/DownvoteIfYouWantMe — 3 days ago

Songs with this nostalgic melody/instrument in the back?

Another one that also has something similar is this

It's a Korean song, but the song I feel drawn to is definitely not Korean.

I'm sure it's the instruments in the back from 00:00 to 00:15 which also come in on other parts of the song that remind me of some nostalgic song I've heard or my heart wants to hear.

At like 1:15 or 1:16 it reminds me of the song Pretty Little Psycho by Porcelain Black, especially the part at 1:50 "pretty little pretty little...."

I thought it reminded me of Big Time Rush, but I don't think that's the one.

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u/DownvoteIfYouWantMe — 3 days ago
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Moving to China soon for work, specifically to Lanzhou. I was born and raised in the US, but my parents are Pakistani, and my ancestors, Gujarati Indian.

I've heard in lower tier cities, you might face some animosity from taxi drivers or restaurants if they know youre American, but is the perception of Americans worse than the perception of Pakistanis considering that Pak and China have a political friendship which is opposite to their impression of the US?

Or would being brown just make "Indian" come up in their mind first?

It's not that I care so much, I don't easily get offended or angry, but I'm just curious about the social dynamics and thought it was an interesting question that popped up in my head.

Which identity would Chinese people most likely be friendly towards?

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u/DownvoteIfYouWantMe — 18 days ago