How do Urban Planners find a balance when dealing with cities that have both extreme summer and winters?

In terms of reflectivity of infrastructure, shading and materials used.

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u/Kogituu — 5 days ago

I F19 am in a relationship with someone F20 who's really sensitive to any form of rejecting, what can i do to make her feel like she's accepted?

I've fallen into the habit of over-reassuring her and we both notice that isn't doing much. I'm considered very easy-going and I can accept that in a relationship we will annoy and get mad at each other. But anytime she prompts me to say how I really feel about a situation, I can feel her getting upset when the answer is slightly negative but we both said I never complain much about what happens but she finds herself complaining a lot more. I tell her "Well, we both process things differently." but it's starting to get to the point where I feel like I am being restricted emotionally or might accidentally feed into her rituals.

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u/Kogituu — 8 days ago
▲ 0 r/police

[Question] Do you think there should be more sociological and de-escalation skills taught to police?

And should the entry barrier be higher?

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u/Kogituu — 10 days ago

How does closing go?

I got an interview with Sprouts as a Produce Clerk and I was curious about closing. How long does it take for you to leave? Do you usually pre-close?

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u/Kogituu — 16 days ago
▲ 8 r/ps2+1 crossposts

Accidentally screwed long screw into short screw area for PS2. What to do?

u/Kogituu — 18 days ago

[SPOILER] Rewatching S2 E7, I can't imagine how disgusted Audrey feels.

The father that favored another mans daughter over you and to find out that he slept with that same daughter the same exact age as you? Ben Horne is truly disgusting in every way!

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u/Kogituu — 18 days ago
▲ 62 r/Cooking

Can cyclospora survive during the pickling process?

Currently pickling radishes and carrots, was wondering.

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u/Kogituu — 22 days ago
▲ 10 r/A24

[SEMI-SPOILERS] Is there anything Pillion is based off of?

This movies concept was completely original and intriguing. The first thing I noticed is in the beginning of the movie at that "bar" area, there was a bunch of "pillions" on the ground getting their hair pulled and all. Just the overall movie makes me wonder where the director gets all their ideas.

Is this a real thing like a biking subculture or a reference to something? What are the real life and media inspirations for this movie.

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u/Kogituu — 25 days ago

Wokeness isn't ruining comedy, it's just lack of nuance and originality.

It is actually so exhausting that the new craze is triggering "Gen Z" or the woke people. Especially from well loved and timeless comedians or series ruining their brand by recycling the same old "Spicy White" & gender joke.

What makes offensive and dark humor so funny is that it's offering a new retrospective on something controversial or some sort of commentary on a concept. For example, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia and Moral Orel is timeless because it's satirical humor can still be applied to today's issues. These show mock the systemic and societal failures by letting the worst people aggressively misunderstand them. Same funniness applies with South Park and even present day comedies like The Boys & Community. (Ik Community is like 16 years old.)

The reason why these people are afraid to get cancelled by "the woke mob" is because they're too out of touch with reality and because of that they can't combat the controversy in a clever way. (Also why is there a new wave of if I excessively curse that means I'm edgy and funny??)

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u/Kogituu — 25 days ago

Characters from other series/media that are like Henry Townshend.

I find his arc very intriguing and I can't think of who off the top off my head. W/ other protagonist I can easily draw comparisons like:

Cheryl reminds me of Laura Palmer from Twin Peaks or Rosemary from Rosemary's Baby.

Harry reminds me of Ethan Winters from Resident Evil.

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u/Kogituu — 26 days ago

What're your theories about how Korra spent her last years of life before the cataclysmic event?

I have a couple of theories/thoughts like:

The inner turmoil of Vaatu growing inside of her.

The cataclysmic event wasn't related to Raava and Vaatu at all and Korra just died while saving the world.

She lived a very long life actually.

She spent a lot of time in the Spirit World due to the knowledge she gained from her TLOK series and probably did become one of the most spiritual avatar.

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u/Kogituu — 27 days ago

Can ancestry DNA possibly help me find my family's history?

Everything is told through stories from my grandparents, my dad's side were just humble countrymen. But my maternal great grandfather was the chief of police and my grandmother & grandaunts have told me vague stories about their lavish house and how they had to burn all their documents and flee while my great grandfather was hunted down.

I wish to connect to this part of my history or at least see how far back my lineage grows. (I know my 4x great grandparents were french) but that's all I really know. It is a heavy topic for my family so they don't really like to tell backstories in detail.

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u/Kogituu — 29 days ago
▲ 1 r/OCD

Out of "Remission", for a lack of better words, I don't know what to do.

And while I do know and I was a well functioning human being who had my symptoms very well managed and was compassionate to myself but as of late, on top of depression, I feel envious for when I was in this period of my life. And I know that version of me would NEVER talk down on myself for feeling this way so it feels especially hard knowing that i've really destructed myself, my coping mechanisms and feel really disconnected from myself.

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u/Kogituu — 1 month ago

ELI5 Anyone else wonder how other animals feel seeing their subspecies?

It's been years since us humans came into contact w a human subspecies and all I can think of is like wow we procreated with neanderthals AND curious about how it must feel seeing an animal that is SO CLOSE TO YOU (not like seeing an orangutan but an actual other human.)

And I wonder how pigeons feel when seeing doves or how cats feel seeing lions. Someone explain.

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u/Kogituu — 1 month ago

Is this a common scam?

I got a comment claiming their niece is interested in the Camera I'm selling but the twist is they asked me to text their phone number because they don't have facebook.

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u/Kogituu — 1 month ago

Any Ex-Wrestler miss the routine?

For me personally, the years I felt most regulated were the years I was in wrestling. I miss the routine and having a priority tie me down even on days I wanted to quit. I am autistic so I found comfort in the repetitive behavior of wrestling, how everything was a chain and it made a lot of things in my life feel easier!

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u/Kogituu — 1 month ago
▲ 144 r/phoenix

Would a change in Phoenix architecture/urban planning provide heat relief?

The large asphalt roads are definitely responsible in their own way for heating this dang state up. It makes sense for this city to be car centric with the heat and poor public transit (in comparison to places like Oregon or Chicago) but does anyone else feel like the planning of this city is failing us?

Any urban planners or civil engineers have a take or solution on this?

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u/Kogituu — 2 months ago
▲ 20 r/PS3

Bought another PS3 to clean but the hard drive is literally stuck.

Usually slides out slip and easy but I'm too scared to pry it

u/Kogituu — 2 months ago