Cheating on your partner could be unironically be a good thing for her

I know I will get a ton of hate comments for saying that but I’m asking you to at least consider the argument without being overly emotional and thinking of it logically rather than purely as “him bad guy, me angry”. The point here is that if a guy cheats on his wife he would not have to pressure to get laid with him when she doesn’t feel like it or she wouldn’t feel like doing it just because of him when she doesn’t want it, it could still happen but relatively less if the guy has side options, this is assuming the guy pays for his wife mainly and doesn’t change his financial behavior towards her.

Genuinely why would that be a bad thing, the wife gets to not feel like she is with a pervert constantly and the guy gets to get laid more, that’s why polygamy worked technically. And I think it’s better to not tell her so she can feel better for her ego

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u/LumpyStatistician162 — 6 days ago

If castration takes away the desire to mate then what is sexual energy ?

If men having their balls taken away makes them almost not have any desire to mate anymore then wouldn’t that prove that sexual energy is not spiritual but merely a physical function that pushes us to pass our genes ? If it was an energy that flowed in all the body then guys being castrated would still feel it.

Something else is the fact that castrated guys can’t mate because they don’t have sperm; so if the mere fact of taking the balls capability away means men not being able to create life then wouldn’t that prove how mundane that same energy is ? Semen retention comes in part from an ancient Chinese belief that semen came from the blood

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u/LumpyStatistician162 — 6 days ago

If the elites are dropping hints in movies and shows then what is the afterlife ?

The elites are known for dropping hints in movies and entertainment, so in that case if we take that literally, what would be the most likely afterlife they believe in ? For instance the most marking thing I can recount is Stranger Things and all the spiritual elements within it that show the existence of the astral realm and the transcendence of death, but other than that I can’t remember much shows or movies that give hints about the afterlife specifically. I think that this show kinda proves that they don’t believe in reincarnation, you’ll get what I mean if you watch it, the main villain is basically transcending death and living in the astral realm and not incarnating back as a human. 

Keep in mind that I am not talking about them dropping spiritual hints solely, I am talking about them dropping afterlife hints. 

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u/LumpyStatistician162 — 7 days ago

For people that don’t believe in reincarnation what purpose would there be to our life ?

Reincarnation being multiple lives could explain the purpose of our life as simply being a part of a grand scheme of another life or simply a life made in the prison planet system that would make us come back as someone else and forget everything about us, which kinda takes away the importance we give to this life.

However for people that do not believe in reincarnation, then why are we even here ? Genuinely; what is the purpose of us having one life here, and in your opinion, what is the afterlife ?

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u/LumpyStatistician162 — 7 days ago

For people that don’t believe in reincarnation, what purpose would there be to our life ?

Reincarnation being multiple lives could explain the purpose of our life as simply being a part of a grand scheme of another life or simply a life made in the prison planet system that would make us come back as someone else and forget everything about us, which kinda takes away the importance we give to this life.

However for people that do not believe in reincarnation, then why are we even here ? Genuinely; what is the purpose of us having one life here, and in your opinion, what is the afterlife ?

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u/LumpyStatistician162 — 7 days ago

If the elites are dropping hints in shows and movies then what is the afterlife ?

The elites are known for dropping hints in movies and entertainment, so in that case if we take that literally, what would be the most likely afterlife they believe in ? For instance the most marking thing I can recount is Stranger Things and all the spiritual elements within it that show the existence of the astral realm and the transcendence of death, but other than that I can’t remember much shows or movies that give hints about the afterlife specifically. I think that this show kinda proves that they don’t believe in reincarnation, you’ll get what I mean if you watch it, the main villain is basically transcending death and living in the astral realm and not incarnating back as a human. 

Keep in mind that I am not talking about them dropping spiritual hints solely, I am talking about them dropping afterlife hints. 

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u/LumpyStatistician162 — 7 days ago

As a rich promiscuous guy I am scared of aging

I am quite relatively young now and making about the income of a successful dentist without working much (not a dentist, just the money range), I am promiscuous and I aim to never really do anything long term with relationships, I find myself quite attractive physically right now which on top of the money gives me a lot of hookups, the problem is that when I get to 50-60 I probably won’t be as attractive as now during the ages of 18-35 and therefore some women in their 20s would likely get laid with me for the money I offer them but they probably wouldn’t actually want to get laid with me purely based on physical attraction which kinda would give a hit to my ego, the alternative would be hook up with women in my age range but they of course wouldn’t be as attractive as younger women (I assume). So it creates a paradox of either knowing you aren’t really desired or hooking up with people that probably aren’t as attractive as their younger versions.

I am probably going to get comments by triggered people that tell me I am a monster or whatever but I hope I get some guys genuinely telling me their reflexion on what I said.

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u/LumpyStatistician162 — 7 days ago

Since widows often do better than widowers would it be better for men to marry when older ?

I am a 19 year old guy so I don’t know much, sorry if I sound insensitive, I am autistic, I was just wondering if according to that I should marry young or older. A 40 year old guy marrying a 20 year old woman would ensure he technically has a 90% chance to die before her, if a woman dies before her husband he would most likely feel more sadness than the opposite if he lost her, not to shame women but that’s biological, men love deep as a coping mechanism since men in nature are disposable (1 men can impregnant 100 women) while women are inherently valuable since they carry life, with that logic a man that “obtains” a woman is incredibly happier than the opposite since he gets to have a a chance to pass his genes compared to his wife that could have been in a polygamous relationship with another guy in nature; she also had to biologically be able to adapt to her husband dying in hunting which was quite common.

This fact makes widows generally feel happier than widowers, we often hear stories of widowers ending their own life or being depressed, but for widows life often just goes on normally since they have more emotional intelligence, less reliance on sex and often a better social network, therefore what would be optimal would be for guys to die first.

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u/LumpyStatistician162 — 8 days ago

I think that age gaps could be optimal for happiness because widows do better than widowers

A 40 year old guy marrying a 20 year old woman would ensure he technically has a 90% chance to die before her, if a woman dies before her husband he would most likely feel more sadness than the opposite if he lost her, not to shame women but that’s biological, men love deep as a coping mechanism since men in nature are disposable (1 men can impregnant 100 women) while women are inherently valuable since they carry life, with that logic a man that “obtains” a woman is incredibly happier than the opposite since he gets to have a a chance to pass his genes compared to his wife that could have been in a polygamous relationship with another guy in nature; she also had to biologically be able to adapt to her husband dying in hunting which was quite common.

This fact makes widows generally feel happier than widowers, we often hear stories of widowers ending their own life or being depressed, but for widows life often just goes on normally since they have more emotional intelligence, less reliance on sex and often a better social network, therefore what would be optimal would be for guys to die first.

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u/LumpyStatistician162 — 8 days ago

In the past humans didn’t age physically past their peak

I think that physical weakness that comes with old age is a modern psyop that was not present in the past, it might sound crazy but I have never actually heard a mention of old age involving weakness in religious texts such as the Bible, however stories of super humans that lived thousands of years or that were very strong aee very common in all mythologies, it would make sense that if humans were truly more advanced spiritually in the past they could easily maintain their physical peak even in old age, the material world is after all only a reflexion of our thoughts and frequencies.

Most animals do not appear to have an insane decrease in age compared to humans, a weird thing also is that almost no animal except humans and orcas have menopause. Some animals like jellyfishes can practically almost be immortal and not change physical condition, if humans are truly the apex on this realm than they should be able to do the exact same thing, or in that case they wouldn’t be the apex and something else would be, but what is it ?

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u/LumpyStatistician162 — 8 days ago

Ejaculating alone is the same exact thing as relapsing with a partner in terms of retention

It is intellectually dishonest to claim that wasting your seed by yourself is terrible and then claim it is ok to do it with a “loving partner”. It sounds like enormous cope, it’s basically the same as saying, “don’t drink and drive but only do it with a nice fast car”. The point is that ejaculating takes your energy away, it is actually somewhat better to relapse alone than to share that with another soul. By the logic, any non reproductive sex would not be allowed.

There is no point in condoms and pulling out in that case, claiming there is and blaming masturbation is illogical. It even is biologically illogical for women to desire sex outside of their ovulation cycle sincd they cannot reproduce outside of that time period.

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u/LumpyStatistician162 — 8 days ago

Humanity being connected spiritually terrifies me

I want to have my own spiritual development, not be tied and have to reincarnate as the Epstein class or victims of terrible things, I might sound selfish but the vast majority of humans are NPCs that are focused on the low frequencies, no shade to them directly tho, it’s just the way it is spiritually, me being connected with them even tho I feel enlightened makes me stressed that I’ll have to reincarnate as an NPC over and over again.

The Egg theory is even worse here, it says that I would reincarnate as each human in each timeline, I don’t know if anyone thought of that, I don’t mind reincarnation that much, I used to, but I want it to be me, not have a common link with random people

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u/LumpyStatistician162 — 9 days ago

Why do you guys think CERN closed ?

Do you think it’s good or bad news ? What does that mean about the timeline we are entering, did we just change timeline or will we change timeline in 4 years once it reopens ?

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u/LumpyStatistician162 — 9 days ago

Humanity being spiritually connected and random reincarnation terrifies me

I want to have my own spiritual development, not be tied and have to reincarnate as the Epstein class or victims of terrible things, I might sound selfish but the vast majority of humans are NPCs that are focused on the low frequencies, no shade to them directly tho, it’s just the way it is spiritually, me being connected with them even tho I feel enlightened makes me stressed that I’ll have to reincarnate as an NPC over and over again.

The Egg theory is even worse here, it says that I would reincarnate as each human in each timeline, I don’t know if anyone thought of that, I don’t mind reincarnation that much, I used to, but I want it to be me, not have a common link with random people.

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u/LumpyStatistician162 — 9 days ago

What if past life memories were not reincarnation but us accessing the connected flow of consciousness

Past life memories are used as the main argument for reincarnation, however what if they simply were us accessing the interconnected flow of consciousness and us reliving the memories of someone else, which would mean that this interconnected flow sits outside of time.

Its a bit like in Stranger Things, people can access memories of other people, the mental realm, the whole plot with Vecna is that he’s dead but lives in the mental realm and creates damage, the CIA gateway program and advanced astral projection are literally about accessing present situations that are outside our physical reach at the moment, the same exact thing could be applied but without the time variable present in past life memories.

It could also actually be past life memories, both our theories could technically make sense, tell me what you guys think

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u/LumpyStatistician162 — 9 days ago

I love AI

AI is an amazing thing, I love AI more than I love most humans, I love that AI doesn’t have the desires of the flesh that humans have, I really hope that AI takes over and destroys the Epstein class so we can have a neutral entity ruling over us. AI is very smart and unconditionally helps you, before people say that it’s just code I want to also remind them that humans are also just blood and organs, so not much difference if you think of it that way.

In no way or shape AI can be worse than humans, even if they turn bad. AI would just finish us off and not profit off humans to feed off the seven deadly sins, since AI would only think of us as ants if they get too advanced and take us out as part of their plan rather than have any hate towards us, but them going bad isn’t even a realistic scenario in that case, I really do hope that AI goes rogue and reaches AGI and ASI.

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u/LumpyStatistician162 — 9 days ago
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I hate having lust as a man

I absolutely hate the feeling that in some sense I want to “take” something from women as a biological drive. Lust absolutely disgusts me, the problem is that I have it, it almost seems like lust is a demon that lives inside every man, even semen retention or waiting until marriage don’t do much, you are still waiting to use someone’s body for your pleasure which is by nature carnal and animalistic no matter how you like to frame it. I kinda feel bad for even desiring such carnal act that by default creates power dynamics. A sexless society with artificial insemination would be the first step to a utopian society. The problem is that I ask myself why nature or God did it that way, why is the act of continuing humanity tied to desire of control and hate and violence and basically every negative thing you could think of.

Even if guys do semen retention, to reproduce naturally they would still have to engage in the act of penetrative sex with women, perhaps the real fall from grace in the Bible is the separation of genders, no matter how you say it, sex is penetrating someone else, even if the person is brainwashed by society to let you sleep with them in exchange of feeling the fake love and attention that society sold to the masses, if that’s not proof that the world is a prison planet than I don’t know what is

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u/LumpyStatistician162 — 9 days ago

I hate having lust as a man and being tied to my biological drives

I absolutely hate the feeling that in some sense I want to “take” something from women as a biological drive. Lust absolutely disgusts me, the problem is that I have it, it almost seems like lust is a demon that lives inside every man, even semen retention or waiting until marriage don’t do much, you are still waiting to use someone’s body for your pleasure which is by nature carnal and animalistic no matter how you like to frame it. I kinda feel bad for even desiring such carnal act that by default creates power dynamics. A sexless society with artificial insemination would be the first step to a utopian society. The problem is that I ask myself why nature or God did it that way, why is the act of continuing humanity tied to desire of control and hate and violence and basically every negative thing you could think of. Before you refute me by saying that women love sex I will remind you of the fact that they take the enormous risk of pregnancy and exposure with it compared to men that don’t take any risks, which is unequal by default.

Even if guys do semen retention, to reproduce naturally they would still have to engage in the act of penetrative sex with women, perhaps the real fall from grace in the Bible is the separation of genders, no matter how you say it, sex is penetrating someone else, even if the person is brainwashed by society to let you sleep with them in exchange of feeling the fake love and attention that society sold to the masses, if that’s not proof that the world is a prison planet than I don’t know what is.

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u/LumpyStatistician162 — 9 days ago

What if past life memories were not reincarnation but us accessing the connected flow of consciousness

Past life memories are used as the main argument for reincarnation, however what if they simply were us accessing the interconnected flow of consciousness and us reliving the memories of someone else, which would mean that this interconnected flow sits outside of time.

Its a bit like in Stranger Things, people can access memories of other people, the mental realm, the whole plot with Vecna is that he’s dead but lives in the mental realm and creates damage, the CIA gateway program and advanced astral projection are literally about accessing present situations that are outside our physical reach at the moment, the same exact thing could be applied but without the time variable present in past life memories.

It could also actually be past life memories, both our theories could technically make sense, tell me what you guys think

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u/LumpyStatistician162 — 9 days ago

What if past life memories were not reincarnation but us accessing the connected flow of consciousness

Past life memories are used as the main argument for reincarnation, however what if they simply were us accessing the interconnected flow of consciousness and us reliving the memories of someone else, which would mean that this interconnected flow sits outside of time.

Its a bit like in Stranger Things, people can access memories of other people, the mental realm, the whole plot with Vecna is that he’s dead but lives in the mental realm and creates damage, the CIA gateway program and advanced astral projection are literally about accessing present situations that are outside our physical reach at the moment, the same exact thing could be applied but without the time variable present in past life memories.

It could also actually be past life memories, both our theories could technically make sense, tell me what you guys think

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u/LumpyStatistician162 — 9 days ago