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This electric blue fiddler crab looks straight out of an alien planet

u/Carles90ar — 3 days ago
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This is Sunda flying lemur, the sole colugo species of the genus Galeopterus.

u/BravePainting5577 — 5 days ago
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There are occasions when dolphin pods gather with other pods to form superpods of 100 or even several thousand dolphins. This superpod was observed in Laguna Beach, California in March 2020

u/LycheeDance — 9 days ago

2 minute prep dinner (+5 mins in microwave)

Chop tofu roughly & rinse frozen veg

Microwave covered veg together for 5-5:30 minutes on 800W. I do it in a ceramic microwaveable bowl and cover with plate and eat it from that to reduce washing up.

Mash in tofu, onion & garlic granules, olive oil, a bit a cayenne

Not fancy but nutritious

130gms tofu
100gms frozen broccoli
100gms frozen butternut squash chunks

u/LycheeDance — 23 days ago
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🔥lyrebird showing how good it's at mimicking

u/LycheeDance — 1 month ago

Extreme short term memory loss

My dad was super fit & sharp before treatment. He’s 85 in UK has been on daratunamab and lenilidomide for 3 years. He’s had bad short term memory loss since treatment started. It’s not really new we just hoped when we reduced the dose from 25mg down to 10 mg that it would get better. It’s to the point where you asked him what he just ate and he can’t remember. He can’t remember what he did during the day even if it’s quite eventful like we went into Hospital for my mom’s procedure and he didn’t remember that. He tries to cover up like if you ask him what he just read he’ll say oh it’s boring things like that. And just yesterday he got a bit lost when he was driving somewhere familiar with my mother.

Is this level of memory loss typical of chemo Brain or could this be somewhat thing else? I’ve read infections can do this but I mean he has regular bloods nothing shown up. I’m gonna get him tested for hypothyroid which I read can be a side-effect of lenilidomide but to be honest I don’t think it is that because it started very quickly after the treatment started.

Is there anything that can be done? I’ve got a Carer coming to take him out for a walk twice a week which is helped him physically because he was getting difficulty getting off the chair and that’s gotten a bit better. But it hasn’t helped the brain issues.

My mother was thinking of changing his schedule to be every five weeks instead of every four weeks. She previously asked the consultant about going down to 5 mg but he turned that down. He didn’t really give a reason he’s not a very good consultant and seems very uninterested in my dad. We had to go private because the treatment wasn’t available when he first needed it and there’s no complaint procedure on private. But considering my dad’s not a small man and he’s high risk genetically going down to 5 mg probably isn’t a good idea anyway. He said fine to the five weeks with two weeks off len each cycle instead of one week. But from what I read this is a complete experiment no one’s ever done this and from the biology of what I’ve seen if myeloma cells it’s kind of like taking a few weeks off antibiotics you’re inviting cell to become resistant but maybe someone else has more insight into this.

Any guidance would be appreciated. On one hand we are really grateful to have him respond well to this regime he’s been able to stop the dexamethasone after a year and he has had a clear scan last year and this year. Although his kidney scores are 3b they are staying stable at the moment. There’s a lot to be grateful for but it’s just hard because he’s a shell of himself. This spring I realised that my mother had been accidentally giving him way too much zinc and we reduced that back down to a normal level and he seem to really come back mentally quite quickly he got his memory back a lot and he was very different. But unfortunately he got a viral infection soon after that where he had got no infections this entire three years and ever since then he’s been back to bad memory. He’s also got two or three mild infections in the past six months so we’ve put his zinc up slightly thinking maybe the super high dose of zinc was actually preventing infection somehow even though that’s not medically sound.

It’s hard because although I have two other siblings they’re just not involved in his care and I as the only child without kids always seems to fall on us. It’s not that I resent it it’s just a lot of responsibility especially as the consultant is so unhelpful.

Sorry for rambling I’ll stop now if you got here thank you for reading I really appreciate it.

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u/LycheeDance — 2 months ago

Is cream more or less irritating than gel? Got prescribed 0.01% estriol (not estradiol) cream with huge applicator - looks so messy!

The prescription says use whole applicator. I’ve just seen the gel is way more concentrated so you don’t have to use as much. Dr asked if I wanted cream or gel I thought cream might be less chance of irritating me because I have had skin issues generally before and I react to things easily. I thought the gel might have alcohol or something in it that might be more irritating?

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u/LycheeDance — 2 months ago

Neuroplasticity technique question

I get the everyday techniques, eg you say to yourself my body is healthy my brain is safe, self-dialogue etc. But what about when objectively things occur - e.g you don’t sleep well multiple nights or you exercise much more than usual. There are times when no amount of compassion is going to change how the body is feeling because something has definitively changed (albeit not in a dangerous way) even for someone without a neuroplastic issue. How do you decide it’s best to try and stretch previous limits and reassure vs say actually I need to slow down again in x situation eg (lack of sleep).

It seems obvious, but it’s not if you have a neuroplastic condition because it will often overrespond so it’s tough to know how much to slow down if at all If you’ve underslept hours 2-3 nights in a row, obviously even a ‘normal’ person would feel different than if they have 8 hours. Or when exercising more, a normal person might feel some sensations indicating sore muscles.

How do you manage, in terms of distinguishing and self talk? Often obviously objective things can happen at the same time as neuroplastic thing so it gets murky. What techniques are people using to navigate these kinds of situations?

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u/LycheeDance — 2 months ago

How to know which is neuroplastic symptoms vs structural symptoms?

For example, if I’ve slept 5 hours 2-3 nights in a row, obviously even a ‘normal’ person would feel different than if they have 8 hours. Or when exercising more, a normal person might feel some sensations in muscles.

How do you manage, in terms of distinguishing and self talk?

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u/LycheeDance — 2 months ago
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Disdain from loved ones since illness

My brother just visited my parents and I made the effort to travel there despite the pain and exhaustion it would cause me. We were pretty close when I was a kid and into my early twenties. I always felt he was on my side and rooting for me. But since I’ve been ill he’s been very disbelieving. And the last few years, I feel this underlying disdain towards me. He once visited my city after a year away and didn’t even contact me to visit. He rarely initiates contact in the months between visits. I asked him does he ever think, I wonder how she’s doing, I’ll give her a call. His answer was that he could sense my illness even when I wasn’t talking about it and essentially it bummed him out so he avoided contact. That it was triggering for him. I told him that made me feel pretty lousy as not only am I losing my life to illness but mostly losing my brother too. He didn’t say anything and didn’t even hug me when he left. It’s left me feeling pretty bereft.

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u/LycheeDance — 3 months ago

A butterfly trusted me to untangle it

I found a butterfly caught in an abandoned spiderweb, it was fighting to get out but the web was too sticky. I managed to get it out but it couldn’t fly as it was too covered in spiderweb strands. I started pulling off the sticky strands being careful not to hurt it. It took time and was very tricky as the adhesive was surprisingly strong. When it got a bit free it took off and I thought that would be that. Instead it flew back to my hand and I worked on the strands some more. It must have took off and came back to my hand a half a dozen more times to let me help it until it finally flew free out into the sunny morning. Was a special encounter.

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u/LycheeDance — 3 months ago
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Those unable to work - How to answer What do you do?

I hate the question. Dislike lying but the truth is convoluted. Usually I say what I used to do or have done. I’m talking about those brief encounters like in taxis or even meeting new people (which I rarely do obvs).

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u/LycheeDance — 3 months ago

Jesse exhibit in Country music Hall of fame in Nashville!

On loan from Jesse it says.

Credit: Steve Olle FB post

u/LycheeDance — 3 months ago

Great long Hudson River fest intro

https://www.hudsonrivermusicfestival.com/lineup/jesse-welles

“From the middle ages up to the modern era, society has leaned on its traveling troubadours for truthful commentary on the times. These folks trek from one town to the next, relaying the news, putting pain into words, and healing with a little humor. Jesse Welles unassumingly upholds and continues this tradition. Fearless, he reports from the frontlines of a divided country on the brink, addressing inequalities and injustices, cutting through all bullshit and driving directly to the source of the matter. His songs leave the same mark in front of a sold-out club as they do under the unbiased eye of a smartphone camera as he strums his guitar alone in the wilderness of Arkansas. 

Following tens of millions of streams and a groundswell of acclaim from Rolling Stone, the New York Times, and more, the singer, songwriter, and guitar player cuts deep on his 2025 full-length album "Middle" 
"Breathe to write, write to breathe," he says. "Humans are meant to create, so I'm gonna create music and keep releasing it constantly." 
Jesse calls Ozark, AR home. You might've caught a glimpse of Ozark on the HBO documentary Meth Storm or in Paris Hilton's reality television show Simple Life, but neither do it justice. With a population of 3,590, it's a place where most families reside down dirt roads. The town consists of a turkey plant, an engine plant, a gas station or two and a handful of restaurants. 

Growing up, his father worked as a mechanic, and his mom a school teacher. Early on, his grandpa copied The Beatles' White Album and Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band for Jesse. Those cassettes would become the soundtrack to endless hours of bike rides and treks through the woods, long bus rides to and from school, and walks to the library. At 12-years-old, he finally scrounged up enough to dough for a “$56 first act guitar from Walmart.” It became like another limb to the boy. Bringing the guitar everywhere, he played along to the radio, studied “what the grownups did” during impromptu jam sessions at parties, and gleaned nuggets of wisdom from local old-timers. He fed his obsession by checking CDs out of the public library and ripping them to the family computer, embracing classics from Bob Dylan, Joni Mitchell, Joan Baez, and Woody Guthrie. He experienced another revelation “as soon as YouTube made its way to Arkansas.” “Once somebody showed me Led Zeppelin and Black Sabbath, I was fucked,” he laughs. “We had waited like 10 years for our library to get the internet. Then, the old Pentecostal women who worked there wouldn’t let me plug in my headphones!” Not one to take such news lightly, he actually wrote a letter to the Franklin County Seat and received permission to return to the library (with headphones in tow). Throughout high school, he balanced school band, playing football,and maintaining his GPA with jobs as a waiter at a Chinese restaurant, a DJ at the local country radio station KDYN Real Country, and chain-sawing trees at a local nature reserve. Simultaneously, he wrote, recorded, and performed original music, selling CDs at school. Upon graduating, he transferred from University of Arkansas to John Brown University where he picked up a degree in Music Theory. He further cut his teeth as the frontman for rock band Dead Indian, while also moonlighting as a standup comedian with “some rough characters.” 

Relocating to Nashville, he launched his eponymous band Welles, releasing music and touring incessantly. He logged 280 shows in a year, canvassing North America and Europe alongside the likes of Royal Blood, Highly Suspect, Greta Van Fleet, and Dead Sara. Dropped from his old label (mid-Pandemic), he quit a job at a vegan meat manufacturer and returned to Arkansas. He consciously put music on the backburner. Reading voraciously, he devoured books by everyone from Cormac McCarthy to Mary Oliver. He funneled his excess energy into running, completing and pacing half-marathons and marathons. 

In February 2024, life changed again when dad suffered a heart attack. Sitting in his father’s hospital room with a Woody Guthrie biography on his lap, Jesse realized what he needed to do. 
“I was like, ‘I’m going to sing the news’,” he recalls. “There was a lot of war going on. That was bugging me—on top of my own shit life. I’d done my best to give up music, but I couldn’t. I decided I'd do this.”  He walked into the Ozarks, placed his phone on a tripod, sang right to it, and posted the performance. The ensuing series of videos made a seismic impact online. He impressively attracted over 1 million followers on Instagram by performing tunes like “Cancer,” “Fentanyl,” and “War Isn’t Murder” out in the cold. On a creative tear, he served up two full-length albums, namely Hells Welles and Patchwork. Audience enthusiasm manifested on the road, and he sold out successive headline tours. Capping off 2024, he railed against the corruption of the healthcare system in the powerful polemic “United Health,” which Rolling Stone hailed as “a John Prine-like ballad.” 

Now, Jesse turns the page on another chapter with the single “HORSES.” The track hits its stride as guitar gives way to wailing fiddle. His gravelly delivery transfixes, “I’m singing this song about loving all the people that you come to hate…I thought I was gathering oats for my horses, but I was getting by whipping my mules.” 
“It’s a pro-love song,” he notes. “Fear leads to hate. Hate leads to all kinds of atrocities. You build up walls. If you love everyone, it’s a lot easier on you—and everybody else too. Hate is a whip for the mule. Nobody gets nutrition from it.” 
A steady beat sets “WHEEL” in motion. Jesse leans into the laidback groove and goes with the flow on the breezy hook. “You can roll the windows down and turn ‘WHEEL’ up,” he grins. “I love the notion of us being on a wheel that’s spinning forever. It’s a concept you’ll find in all sorts of religions and spiritual ideas” 
Then, there’s “WHY DON’T YOU LOVE ME.” He sets the scene right away, “I was reading Blood Meridian on the hood of my car.” A hummable acoustic melody underscores an emotionally charged refrain punctuated by harmonica and a scream, “Why don’t you love me, honey? What can I prove?” 
“I took everything I love about seventies Dylan and Nirvana and smashed it together,” he goes on. “I’m dealing with the angst you feel when you don’t get noticed by somebody, whether your partner, parents, friends, or boss. What more do I have to do to make you believe in me? The verses are just me being a weird space cowboy in Arkansas, reading books on the hood of my car and thinking about guitars and ponies.” 

Jesse is speaking the kind of truth you can’t get on the news or on social media. This is the kind of truth that’s best shared with a microphone over the vibrations of an open chord. 
“If my music helps you believe you can make art and tell the world how you feel, there would be nothing better,” he leaves off. “I hope you get those paints out of the garage or fill up your journal. Turn on your phone and say what you gotta to say. There’s so much wild stuff in my head. I want to see where it can go.”

u/LycheeDance — 4 months ago
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AGA people: How has topical minoxidil affected you, does it make your POTS/BP worse? Afraid it will lower my BP even lower

What the title says really.

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u/LycheeDance — 4 months ago