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A period piece

A period piece

I blocked my mother's phone number about 2 weeks ago because of how she treated me my whole life.

When I was a kid, she told me that I was an unwanted child and she only had me because her sister told her "an only child is a lonely child" and she originally planned to have me kicked out of home as soon as I turned 18.

When I was a teenager, my father suspected me of being gay and told me "if you turn out to be a faggot, you won't be welcome here"

When I was 17 after my ex girlfriend had broken up with me, I was very depressed and my mother told me that I was a pathetic piece of shit and she was better off without me

When I was 19, I'd just finished my first year at university and during the holidays I got a part time job working at a local record store and during this she mocked me for working at a music store.

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I've felt alone for most of my life, I've never had any real friends and I've only been in 1 relationship which ended in 2016 and nobody that was significant in my life liked her.

I've tried going to social events to meet people but have never found anyone that I actually have anything in common with.

My father has called me asking me to join my family on Mother's Day when she expects a minimum $100 gift that I can't afford and if I agree we'll be going to a cafe that's closer to me because they don't want to pay for the taxi that I'll use to get there and she'll complain about how it isn't the cafe that she wanted to go to.

My mother has treated me very poorly for as long as I can remember because she only wanted my older sibling.

I don't know what to do about this, if I **don't** join my family for Mother's Day then I risk never having a relationship with my father and sibling because they are the only ones that I actually care about and I've been putting up with all of my mother's abusive behavior because I want to have a relationship with my other relatives.

My father has called me asking me to join my family on Mother's Day when she expects a minimum $100 gift that I can't afford and if I agree we'll be going to a cafe that's closer to me because they don't want to pay for the taxi that I'll use to get there and she'll complain about how it isn't the cafe that she wanted to go to.

My mother has treated me very poorly for as long as I can remember because she only wanted my older sibling.

I don't know what to do about this, if I **don't** join my family for Mother's Day then I risk never having a relationship with my father and sibling because they are the only ones that I actually care about and I've been putting up with all of my mother's abusive behavior because I want to have a relationship with my other relatives.

A few weeks ago I decided to block my mother from all forms of contact after she treated me badly for years and verbally abused me amongst other things.

When I was a teenager she told me that my ex girlfriend was a gold digger because I paid for everything and she also told me that my ex girlfriend's mother had passed away, this was proven to be untrue because I had a brief conversation with my ex girlfriend a few weeks ago and she confirmed that her mother was alive and well.

A few days ago I had a visit from my father, a few minutes before he arrived I texted him a reminder that Mum isn't welcome.

He complained about how this situation is affecting him and how he wants me to forgive her whilst she wouldn't even acknowledge or recognize the abusive behavior and tell me that I overreacted

I'm seriously thinking about separating myself from both of them and keeping it that way until I drop dead.

I was heavily verbally abused by my mother and still am.

I often use my sense of humor with other people but I don't think that they understand that it is to cover being a victim of child abuse.

I'm also bicurious and when I was interested in a guy, my father called me a faggot and told me that if I turned out to be bisexual I would no longer be welcome in his house.

I was also heavily ignored as a child.

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My father has called me asking me to join my family on Mother's Day when she expects a minimum $100 gift that I can't afford and if I agree we'll be going to a cafe that's closer to me because they don't want to pay for the taxi that I'll use to get there and she'll complain about how it isn't the cafe that she wanted to go to.

My mother has treated me very poorly for as long as I can remember because she only wanted my older sibling.

I don't know what to do about this, if I don't join my family for Mother's Day then I risk never having a relationship with my father and sibling because they are the only ones that I actually care about and I've been putting up with all of my mother's abusive behavior because I want to have a relationship with my other relatives.

I've felt alone for most of my life, I've never had any real friends and I've only been in 1 relationship which ended in 2016 and nobody that was significant in my life liked her.

I've tried going to social events to meet people but have never found anyone that I actually have anything in common with.

My mother has treated me poorly since childhood and my father has pretty much always been there for me.

She has over fed me then criticized me for being fat, treated my ex girlfriend poorly, made the assumption to me that she was a gold digger and made fun of me when she broke up with me, telling me that my ex was better off without me when I was seriously depressed and in therapy.

She forced me to find my own apartment because she didn't want to renew the lease on our old house.

After I had been discharged from hospital, she then regularly came over and treated my apartment like it was hers, demanded that I buy cake for them when they came over, complained about my lactose intolerance because it was expensive and then fed me cake which had lactose in it and gave me a stomach ache for the rest of the day.

I've been tolerating a bad relationship with her for over a decade because I wanted to have a relationship with my father.

I've forgiven her for so much.