News about my boyfriend is breaking my heart
My bf (m22) and I (m23) are both bisexual, and recent news has me immensely hurt. Early in our relationship, he stopped talking to two of our mutual friends (former for me) because I had a falling out where they were super mean to me. I told him many times I didn't mind if he stayed their friend but he insisted on cutting them off to stick up for me.
I found out for the past 5 months (we've been dating for almost a year) he's been talking to them and hanging out behind my back. These friends are also gay/bi and flirt with him often. It feels disrespectful he let them back in his life without telling me, and his reasoning hurt deep. He said something to the effect of "I am not going to stop talking to people for someone I don't love. I don't regret it at all"
I asked him why he is still with me, and he said "I was hoping to fall for you again but I haven't." On one hand, at least he is honest, on the other, I don't get why he had to do all this stuff behind my back if he knew he didn't love me. And for him to say it so bluntly and cold is breaking my heart. I don't know why he never communicates his feelings until way after :(