Why i overthink?

When i get dressed i overthink that people will think I am trying too hard to get attention and when I don’t look good and I don’t dress well. I feel like people will think that I don’t deserve to be here and I look ugly, and I always think that people are noticing me, and I just always have this fear and I don’t know what to do, and even when I’m going somewhere, I can’t even do my hair because I would overthink that maybe people will judge me for doing it, and when I don’t do it all day I just be quiet because I think I don’t deserve to talk today.

Also i don’t talk when someone is also there
Like if i am talking to someone and there are only 2
People me and the other person i am okay in talking
But when i see someone else is also listening i think they’ll judge me so i don’t say anything and feel conscious

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u/SaskiaShay — 2 days ago

Please suggest me

Please 🥺🙏🏼 tell me what work for you if any of these things you had i really wanna have glowup 🙏🏼🥺please please please
My problems :

  1. discoloration on face around mouth and forehead
  2. Dark circles
    3.Blackheads
  3. Darkness in
    Knees
    Elbows
    Neck
    Knuckles
    Back
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u/SaskiaShay — 2 days ago
▲ 7 r/NoOverthinking+3 crossposts

Why i overthink?

When i get dressed i overthink that people will think I am trying too hard to get attention and when I don’t look good and I don’t dress well. I feel like people will think that I don’t deserve to be here and I look ugly, and I always think that people are noticing me, and I just always have this fear and I don’t know what to do, and even when I’m going somewhere, I can’t even do my hair because I would overthink that maybe people will judge me for doing it, and when I don’t do it all day I just be quiet because I think I don’t deserve to talk today.

Also i don’t talk when someone is also there
Like if i am talking to someone and there are only 2
People me and the other person i am okay in talking
But when i see someone else is also listening i think they’ll judge me so i don’t say anything and feel conscious

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u/SaskiaShay — 3 days ago
▲ 3 r/RomanticAdvice+2 crossposts

How to ignore someone i love

Actually i(21F)don’t deserve to be treated like how my bf (25M)treats me
When i don’t use to care about him initially
He was good
Now as he know i love him he just treat me like shit
There use to be a us time night everyday now he is busy saying he is doing work
One day he didn’t go to gym and his friends call him and he went to meet them in coffee shop
And he told me he is sorry but after meeting his friend he’ll work
When i ask him why he loves me he say things like because you treat me well you care about me !
He is selfish and i know he doesn’t love me
He even says things like he wanna marry me but he can’t go against his family he don’t wanna hurt his mom
Still he is not letting me go
I try to go and then he i endup calling him and he also say things like without you i can’t do anything
Ok i know i don’t deserve love
But still i get hurt
I told him about my periods
Today
I’m having really bad cramps i told
Him about that he said oh I’ll take care of you
And after that message he didn’t text me its been so many hours
He’s in office
Even on lunch he didn’t ask me how am i
His only excuse is we are in a kong distance
I don’t wanna talk to him but i still beg him to treat me right

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u/SaskiaShay — 5 days ago

Quantitative aptitude in NIMCET?

Why our coaching teacher suggested us to buy Quantitative aptitude of rs aggrawal book?
Why it’s important for Nimcet. I recently found out about this exam, so I don’t know where is the subject that has quantitative aptitude. I’m so confused.
Can anyone explain me?

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u/SaskiaShay — 7 days ago

Quantitative aptitude in NIMCET?

Why our coaching teacher suggested us to buy Quantitative aptitude of rs aggrawal book?
Why it’s important for Nimcet. I recently found out about this exam, so I don’t know where is the subject that has quantitative aptitude. I’m so confused.
Can anyone explain me?

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u/SaskiaShay — 7 days ago

How to gain weight?

I’m 21F my weight is 39kg
Is it possible to gain weight eating only homemade food
Also i don’t eat much because I’m very selective with what i wanna eat and most of the time don’t eat because of that
I wanna gain 11 kg
So that i can be 50kg
I joined gym and gained 2 kg (i was 37 back then)
But i stoped because i can’t afford it right now im broke but i really wanna gain weight

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u/SaskiaShay — 7 days ago
▲ 1 r/SkinSolutionsindia+1 crossposts

How to get my real skintone

My skintone is wheatish my face and color of my shoulder doesn’t match
Also i my back became dark 🥺
How to glow up and get my real skintone

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u/SaskiaShay — 7 days ago

How can i earn ₹4000 as soon as i can

Hey i wanna buy some books for my coaching classes and i don’t have money
My grandparents pay for us as my father died before my birth
My grandparents are taking care of us
And few months have been so harsh
I don’t wanna ask money as he’ll give me money and he will not buy his medicines
🥺can you guys tell me how can i arrange ₹4000 please?

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u/SaskiaShay — 11 days ago
▲ 2 r/instagramAsk+1 crossposts

Is there any limit on insta follow request that i get??!

I’ve got so many requests but since 2-3 weeks it’s same 998 why it’s not increase when people are sending request

u/SaskiaShay — 11 days ago
▲ 4 r/Separation+2 crossposts

How to deal with breakup

Hii I’m 21F My bf doesn’t give a shit about me
After every fight i Block him from everywhere tell me
That ok will never talk again fr I endup unblocking him and texting him and explaining him that you did these things that hurt me still he is normal no reaction
He just say baby that’s it that’s his explanation nothing else still i stay
We are in a long distance
Just saw eachother once

I’m crying everyday
Today I didn’t blocked him from
WhatsApp but from everywhere else
Still he didn’t text me
I told him about the family problem
And told him that you know I’m on my periods still nothing I ordered food for myself because i give myself Princess treatment
He just never do anything for me
When we saw each other for the 1st time he didn’t even bring me a single rose 🙂or anything
🙂i mean its ok
But
Today he didn’t ask me anything about my family problem or anything
He is not even texting me 🙂
I hate this energy
I feel like i am the male in our relationship 🙌🏼

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u/SaskiaShay — 1 month ago

How to move on from people

I’ve people who left me in the past and some i wanna let go but still i can’t i just try to fix things for me it’s really hard to let someone go

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u/SaskiaShay — 2 months ago
▲ 3 r/u_SaskiaShay+2 crossposts

I really want username of my name but it’s already taken what to do ???

And the account that has that username is inactive and private acc

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u/SaskiaShay — 2 months ago

Hey, I’m 21F and I stay at home all the time. I want to go to the gym and become independent. I don’t want to ask my family for money. What should I do? How can I start earning quickly?

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u/SaskiaShay — 2 months ago