u/SeamanSample

I get the "punishment" aspect of just leaving mid-expedition, but in practice, about 95% of the time I lose those coins it's because of a server issue (I'm assuming) or the host leaving. Often times happening either as I'm still loading in, or barely starting the expedition.

Sure, it's not a ton of coins to start with, but it's pretty annoying to constantly start back at 0. Also I'm not sure it's really much of a deterrent for just regular leavers for the amount of times it's just punishing people who don't do that.

Maybe there's some sort of alternative solution?

Today I went to school wearing a long black skirt that literally only showed my ankles and shoes. My boyfriend asked me what I was wearing and when I told him, he got upset and said we “never agreed” on me wearing that skirt. Which honestly sounded weird to me because it’s not like it was a mini skirt or anything revealing. It’s a long skirt that I’d even wear to church.

His main issue was apparently that I didn’t tell him beforehand that I was going to wear it, but I genuinely didn’t think a normal long skirt would cause this kind of reaction. He called it disrespectful towards him and said I don’t care about him because I wore it without telling him first.

I really don’t think it’s okay for him to react like this over something that wasn’t inappropriate at all, but now I’m wondering if I’m missing something. AITAH?