u/SheTookMeToTheSky_26

What are some good ways to give your brain a break between study sessions? Going for a walk would be great, but that isn’t possible for me here. Watching YouTube videos doesn’t seem like a good idea either. I honestly don’t know what else to do besides reading, but reading isn’t really the kind of break I need.

In no way, do we know the idols, so this is just a guessing game based on vibes. But I want to find a new lesbian ship I can genuinely imagine (!) being true. For reference, my favourite boy group ship is Minsung (Skz) and my favourite girl group ships are Chuuves (Loona), Moonsun (Mamamoo) and Satzu (Twice).

Again, this is just for fun.

I’m basically looking for the sapphic version of Avril Lavigne. It would be cool if she were a solo artist.

For reference, I’m currently listening to “she knows it” by Maggie Lindemann.

A girl that’s wild, if that helps.

Can you please recommend some Minsung fanfics on AO3 (or Wattpad) with the vibe of “Use Me” by PLAZA?

Something similar to “Dance for Him” by Cinn614 on Wattpad.

I’d prefer bittersweet or hopeful endings, though happy or sad endings are fine too.

Lots of angst, preferably with a “hurt/no comfort” vibe.

Not like “Brighter Days” by mrehk which is sad and angsty, but I want them to be dealing with their problems separately.

Can you please recommend some Minsung fanfics on AO3 (or Wattpad) with the vibe of “Use Me” by PLAZA?

Something similar to “Dance for Him” by Cinn614 on Wattpad.

I’d prefer bittersweet or hopeful endings, though happy or sad endings are fine too.

Lots of angst, preferably with a “hurt/no comfort” vibe.

Not like “Brighter Days” by mrehk which is sad and angsty, but I want them to be dealing with their problems separately.

Edit: What I specifically like about “Dance for him” was that it ended with a hopeful ending and they didn’t get together until the very last chapter. It was an unhealthy relationship with power imbalance and Jisung was giving himself up for Minho, while we could also see Minho struggling.

“Brighter Days” is a fic about Jisung with cancer (I think) diagnosis and the narrative is haunted by death. He’s basically living his last days with Minho on his side so it’s sad but also too sweet for my taste.

Hi, I really need new music.

Please drop me your favourite dark (horror concepts preferably) kpop gg songs and l'Il rate them . I’m also thankful for dark and sultry songs, like Tail by Sunmi but only from women. My favourites ones are Pixy, Awu and Dreamcatcher.

I answer every single message it just might take a few days.

And please don’t post more than five songs per group.

❤️ Love it
🧡 Nice song that I might add to my playlist
💚 Already in my playlist
💙 Okay (not something I would put in my playlist)
💛 Skippable ( I can listen to it once and that's it)
🖤 Didn’t like it

Some of my favourites are:

Rose by Awu

Swan Song by Pixy

Lucid Song by Craxy

Addicted by Pixy

Maison by Dreamcatcher

Sweet Juice by Purple Kiss

Tail by Sunmi

Red Sun by Dreamcatcher

Paradise lost by Gain

Ring Ring by Billlie

Poison by 핑크판타지

Disclaimer: I will answer every single message it just might take a few days.

I’m looking for exceptionally well-written K-pop girl group fanfiction. Works you would call literary masterpieces/ classics.

My ult group is i-dle, and my favorite ship is Yuyeon / Yuqi × Soyeon. It would be nice to read about them, but I’m completely open to other girl groups and ships.

I’m looking for K-pop girl group fics that are at least 20k words and genuinely well written, with strong prose, characterization, atmosphere, and emotional depth.

I especially love heavy angst, yearning, complicated relationships, bittersweet stories, and sad or hopeful endings.

Smut is fine if it serves the story, but no PWP or anything overly explicit.

I’d rather have something beautifully written than something popular, so please rank recommendations by writing quality and briefly mention the ship, length, premise, and ending tone.

I’m looking for exceptionally well-written K-pop girl group fanfiction. Works you would call literary masterpieces/ classics.

My ult group is i-dle, and my favorite ship is Yuyeon / Yuqi × Soyeon. It would be nice to read about them, but I’m completely open to other girl groups and ships.

I’m looking for K-pop girl group fics that are at least 20k words and genuinely well written, with strong prose, characterization, atmosphere, and emotional depth.

I especially love heavy angst, yearning, complicated relationships, bittersweet stories, and sad or hopeful endings.

Smut is fine if it serves the story, but no PWP or anything overly explicit.

I’d rather have something beautifully written than something popular, so please rank recommendations by writing quality and briefly mention the ship, length, premise, and ending tone.

I don’t want to mod any NSFW subs. It would be great if it’s a fairly small community, not more than 100 k subscribers so I don’t have to spend hours daily on it.

It would be good if it’s a community that is about a niche interest, just please no gaming.

Also, no modding experience but I’m willing to learn.

Edit: Since I’m mostly chronically offline (except for Reddit), meme subreddits or subreddits about shows/ series are probably not the best idea.

Edit2: Please mention the subreddit name if you write a message like “dm me”.

18F and in my last year of high school.

Maths is my favourite subject but I lack the motivation to do it alone. So if you also want to study maths and going to be in 12th grade or maybe even in college, write me a message (DMs are turned off).

Only women, and not older than 23.

Hey, I'm a 18 year old woman looking for friends. I'm a lesbian so if you're not queer friendly or want to
"change me", please don't message me.

I’m looking for someone who I can chat with regularly (but not 24/7), maybe play chess with together or analyse books/ series. I love learning about new things so we can study together or you can tell me more about some of your passions (I like to listen more than to talk)

A little bit about me.

Hobbies:
Reading, chess, writing, discussing series/ movies and Kpop

Details:

1. Love Reading and would be happy to discuss books with someone. My favourite genres are thrillers and fantasy but I can read almost anything.

2. Played chess since my childhood, now I'm trying to get back into playing. We can play a few games together or discuss something chess related.

3. Hobby writer and love writing fantasy thriller short stories. (If you like writing too, we can proofread read each other)

4. Don't like watching series on my own but would love to watch something to then discuss it in detail.

5. I'm a kpop fan (mainly of gg groups) so we can discuss stuff like comebacks or maybe watch some horror/ thriller kdrama since I'm not into romance.

6. I have a pretty dark sense of humour but I never intend to hurt people with if. If that's not your thing, we probably won't click.

Please don't message me if you're a man, want a romantic relationship or going to be a creep. Looking for purely platonic relationships.

Please be of age 18-21. If you’re significantly older, the argument “age is just a number” isn’t going to convince me.

If you didn't bother reading all of this and message me something like "What are your hobbies?", you can
expect to be ignored.

I love writing whole essays for responses so if you don't like that, you should ignore this post.

I'm a bit of a dry texter (it's probably clear from this post) so if I'm not using 1000 emojis, I'm not necessarily mad or being passive aggressive.

And I sometimes sound "mean" or "rude", so please ask if you're unsure what I meant by something.

Also, if I don't reply immediately I'm not ghosting you it could just take some time.

Last thing: If you ignore one of my "don't'"'s, you can expect to be ignored or blocked.

If you're still reading this and think we might match, please introduce yourself to me. Mention the hobbies/ interests we have in common and don't just message me a "hi", "how are you" or "dm me" (btw, my dms are turned off). You can ask me some questions, of course, but tell me also something about yourself.

I really hope to find some genuine friends here. And just a little disclaimer at the end: It's okay if we're only going to be movie/ reading buddies, we don't have to become bffs.

Last disclaimer (I promise): If sometime over the course of the conversation you notice that you don’t want to pursue a friendship with me or you just simple lost interest, please tell me so. Don’t ghost me for days and then be like “😂Sorry, forgot about this”. Nobody can force a friendship but it needs some effort or otherwise it won’t work.

Hey, I'm a 18 year old woman looking for friends. I'm a lesbian so if you're not queer friendly or want to
"change me", please don't message me.

I’m looking for someone who I can chat with regularly (but not 24/7), maybe play chess with together or analyse books/ series. I love learning about new things so we can study together or you can tell me more about some of your passions (I like to listen more than to talk)

A little bit about me.

Hobbies:
Reading, chess, writing, discussing series/ movies and Kpop

Details:

1. Love Reading and would be happy to discuss books with someone. My favourite genres are thrillers and fantasy but I can read almost anything.

2. Played chess since my childhood, now I'm trying to get back into playing. We can play a few games together or discuss something chess related.

3. Hobby writer and love writing fantasy thriller short stories. (If you like writing too, we can proofread read each other)

4. Don't like watching series on my own but would love to watch something to then discuss it in detail.

5. I'm a kpop fan (mainly of gg groups) so we can discuss stuff like comebacks or maybe watch some horror/ thriller kdrama since I'm not into romance.

6. I have a pretty dark sense of humour but I never intend to hurt people with if. If that's not your thing, we probably won't click.

Please don't message me if you're a man, want a romantic relationship or going to be a creep. Looking for purely platonic relationships.

Please be of age 18-21. If you’re significantly older, the argument “age is just a number” isn’t going to convince me.

If you didn't bother reading all of this and message me something like "What are your hobbies?", you can
expect to be ignored.

I love writing whole essays for responses so if you don't like that, you should ignore this post.

I'm a bit of a dry texter (it's probably clear from this post) so if I'm not using 1000 emojis, I'm not necessarily mad or being passive aggressive.

And I sometimes sound "mean" or "rude", so please ask if you're unsure what I meant by something.

Also, if I don't reply immediately I'm not ghosting you it could just take some time.

Last thing: If you ignore one of my "don't'"'s, you can expect to be ignored or blocked.

If you're still reading this and think we might match, please introduce yourself to me. Mention the hobbies/ interests we have in common and don't just message me a "hi", "how are you" or "dm me" (btw, my dms are turned off). You can ask me some questions, of course, but tell me also something about yourself.

I really hope to find some genuine friends here. And just a little disclaimer at the end: It's okay if we're only going to be movie/ reading buddies, we don't have to become bffs.

Last disclaimer (I promise): If sometime over the course of the conversation you notice that you don’t want to pursue a friendship with me or you just simple lost interest, please tell me so. Don’t ghost me for days and then be like “😂Sorry, forgot about this”. Nobody can force a friendship but it needs some effort or otherwise it won’t work.

I’m very conflicted right now.

It’s the stage of life for me where I decide what to do with my life and which job I’d like to work.

Since my childhood I always had a strong sense of judgement and what’s right or wrong. So, I always wanted to do something in that area. First a detective, then a policewoman and now I’m thinking about being a lawyer.

At the same time, my deepest childhood wish was to become a writer. It was something I fantasised about but not thought as something I could do, since I my works are always very personal. I’m a hobby writer already and have a lot of unfinished drafts on my PC.

Now I’m in this dilemma where I’m thinking if I should go the “safe” way and be a lawyer but neglect my writing passion. Or should I choose writing which would be far more difficult to succeed in and come with a lot of disadvantages? Or, my ideal scenario would be pursuing both. Being a professional lawyer while writing books under a pseudonym anonymously since it could negatively impact my career.

Has anyone been in a similar situation and did the right/ wrong thing? Are there lawyers here who can tell me if my dream is realistic?

By the way, I want to move to Switzerland and become a lawyer there, just for context.

I only recently started writing and I’ve seen quite some hate for the first person POV (mainly on Pinterest). What do you personally think about this POV and have you heard about this dislike before? Is it an internet trend or widespread among writers. I’m just unsure if a 3-rd person POV would be better since that seems more well-liked or nevertheless the 1-st one.

Also, are there some stylistic techniques to avoid using “I” every three sentences without it sounding harsh? Same as writing short sentences without it sounding dry or cutoff.

I’m looking for hobbies that teach practical, useful skills rather than just pass the time. Things like cooking, swimming, sewing, first aid, or gardening.

I enjoy crafting, but I often don’t know what to do with the finished product. For example, I like origami, but most of what I make just ends up sitting around. I’d rather learn hobbies where what you create or the skills you gain have a practical use.

What hobbies have genuinely improved your life?

I’ve been doomscrolling a lot lately, so I need to change that. As a result, my eyes have been hurting.

What are your favourite hobbies when you want to give your eyes a break? I’m looking for low-effort activities that still feel productive.

So, I want to talk about something deeply personal. I’m depressed. Still am but it’s getting better.

The thing is, my life absolutely crumbled a few years ago, and I’ve not been able to rebuild it yet. I’m going to therapy and it really changed my life for better.

Still, I want to know from people who experienced this: how do you rebuild your life? I mean productivity-wise.

Discipline and achievement were very important to me before and I want to be like I once was. But I don’t know where to start. What time should I wake up? What routines should I build? Should I start working out? What hobbies could help? Is there anything that I should definitely do?

A thing that complicates everything is that I have high-functioning autism and OCD, so not everything will work for me. Still, I’m hoping to learn something useful from this.

I also have another problem. I’m a bookworm, but I’ve been having trouble starting certain books. For years, my coping mechanism was reading fantasy novels. But even when I’m genuinely interested in a non-fiction book, I often just can’t bring myself to start it. I don’t really know why.

For context, I’m a female young adult. My hobbies are taekwondo and reading.

Should I just force myself to get out more, try new things, and meet people? Or is that something that could backfire if I push myself too hard?

If you could give me any advice on how to start really living instead of just surviving, I’d really appreciate it.

So, I want to talk about something deeply personal. I’m depressed. Still am but it’s getting better.

The thing is, my life absolutely crumbled a few years ago, and I’ve not been able to rebuild it yet. I’m going to therapy and it really changed my life for better.

Still, I want to know from people who experienced this: how do you rebuild your life? I mean productivity-wise.

Discipline and achievement were very important to me before and I want to be like I once was. But I don’t know where to start. What time should I wake up? What routines should I build? Should I start working out? What hobbies could help? Is there anything that I should definitely do?

A thing that complicates everything is that I have high-functioning autism and OCD, so not everything will work for me. Still, I’m hoping to learn something useful from this.

I also have another problem. I’m a bookworm, but I’ve been having trouble starting certain books. For years, my coping mechanism was reading fantasy novels. But even when I’m genuinely interested in a non-fiction book, I often just can’t bring myself to start it. I don’t really know why.

For context, I’m a female young adult. My hobbies are taekwondo and reading.

Should I just force myself to get out more, try new things, and meet people? Or is that something that could backfire if I push myself too hard?

If you could give me any advice on how to start reall living instead of just surviving, I’d really appreciate it.