im not coming out as nonbinary any time soon :(

Hey so I am obsessed with pink. I don't want to bring any more attention to myself/individualize myself further.

I will have to continue to be the most npc white woman imaginable.

Bullying has happened too much. My union is mean. Most contractors, managers, and people on sites are mean. This contractor is the only safe haven, and I want it to stay that way.

They do not need to know my sexuality.

They do not need to know my culture.

They do not need to know my gender identity.

leftists and conservatives, both could bully me.

reddit.com
u/SnooCrickets346 — 13 days ago

I am bisexual (and poly) here are some things I want you to know about it

  1. I was with a woman. We broke up. End of sentence. I am with a great and lovely and supportive man, who just happens to be a man. I did not "switch teams" or "ditch the ladies" or "turn straight."

  2. I support Transgender people (both as a concept and also as I looove to compliment people bonus if its gender affirming) and believe you should not be denied HRT or anything. And if the opportunity presents themself, and we get along well, I would date a transgender person/people. But it's not because you are "best of both worlds for bisexual people" as my friend said it.

  3. I respect peoples time

  4. I am not attracted to everybody

  5. I do not flirt with people all the time, even if I find them attractive.

  6. Nonbinary people are cool. But I am not going to start identifying as Pansexual. If I get along with a nonbinary person/people, I would date you.

reddit.com
u/SnooCrickets346 — 22 days ago

How do you deal with casual insults and dogwhistles/secretive insults from either gender?

In work, and in life, people say things to get under your skin. Such as pointing out insecurities, poking and proding for information that could be used against you, and saying things that sound innocent out of context but are actually extremely rude. Such as "my hair appointment went so well, they gave me a balayague better than people who have boring straight hair." While you have straight hair.

How do you deal with that? How do you not take it personally when they try so hard to catch you off guard? How do you win or walk out unscathed?

I'm asking for advice as a younger woman who has been picked on in this way and then chided for my reactions.

reddit.com
u/SnooCrickets346 — 1 month ago

complete disregard for my tools

I have worked places with disrespectful people who take and break my tools/ppe.

I worked somewhere I let someone borrow a tool and he never gave it back even when I asked him to.

I worked somewhere that my apron and one of my sleeves were thrown in the trash and the foreman wouldnt give me a new one.

I worked somewhere that one of my tools got all bent out of shape because I asked a guy to help me use it and he was too rough with it and then I got in trouble for telling him to let go of my tool because he was breaking it because he was a higher rank than me.

I worked somewhere that I had personalized a piece of PPE but I had to do training elsewhere and they told me to leave it in the work area and by the time I got back it was gone and I was very sad about that. My foreman was upset that I left my stuff out but I had no choice/say in the matter because the person who took me to training didnt give a shit.

Someone from work who shouldnt have had my address brought it not to my door but to my general neighborhood and I was scared so I ran inside and because he didnt get to give it to me personally I never saw him or my equipment again.

Of course I told the contractors and the foremen. Of course they did nothing. Also I intentionally kept some things vague because I don't want to get in trouble/booted for using social media. Stupid NDA.

reddit.com
u/SnooCrickets346 — 1 month ago

They should teach these guys sex ed.

On a scale of 1/10, how mad would you be if your blue collar boyfriend got you pregnant in the middle of the apprenticeship program?

reddit.com
u/SnooCrickets346 — 2 months ago

I want to make friends and ask for references but I'm scared

I want to get an additional part time job so professional references would be helpful.

I want to make friends but I dont want to be seen as flirting with these guys.

Im worried about getting rejected or worse giving them the wrong impression or looking unprofessional.

reddit.com
u/SnooCrickets346 — 2 months ago

Any good playgrounds on Georgetown?

Takin my kids on a roadtrip to see their uncle (my brother) for the week of July 4th. They're pretty crazy bunch gonna want to play.

reddit.com
u/SnooCrickets346 — 2 months ago

Older Women (Ajummas) in KPOP Would be A Very Good Idea

I apologize that my sleepy brain on three different cold medicines mispelled "Ahjummas".

Shows and bands that celebrate older generations combat ageism.

They would benefit the public good and Koreans learning to cook. They could sing about making Korean foods, such as Kimchi, Kimbap, and Tteokbokki.

It would be a job opportunity to show off the skills of singing, dancing, and cooking.

I am looking at this like a wholesome, educational, variety-show style project. Having older women sing catchy songs while teaching traditional cooking is literally just like the plot of a successful Netflix cultural documentary or a wholesome Korean variety show (such as Jinny's Kitchen or Culinary Class Wars).

Pop is not restricted to cooking. MAMADOLL (마마돌): This was a real K-pop group formed in 2022 made up of established idols who took a break to become mothers. They returned in their 30s and 40s to sing powerful, modern, high-energy pop music, proving that older women don't have to change their style just because they aged.

reddit.com
u/SnooCrickets346 — 2 months ago

KPop Band Idea: Just a group of Ajimas singing about making Dimsun

I am a fan of the younger groups already, but I think that the industry could really benefit from expanding the age range.

I could see the charm of Older Aunties/Ajimas singing about making Dimsun and Kimchi.

It would be a public good teaching people to cook. And a good job opportunity for another age to show off their skills.

What would they sing about? How would their choreography go?

reddit.com
u/SnooCrickets346 — 2 months ago

Online DND2E available 2000 hours CET to no later than 030 hours CET Looking for GM

Hello

I am an experienced player who recently was a Dwarven Rogue with two cats and a wheelbarrow full off eggs.

I am only fluent in English.

Thats 030 CEST/BST. I apologize because summer was not available as a timezone in the title.

reddit.com
u/SnooCrickets346 — 2 months ago
▲ 0 r/lfg

Online DND2E Looking for Game Master Online Early Afternoons/Ends Early Evening EST or Late Evening BST/CEST

Hi I can't be up past 7:30PM EST or 12:30 BST/CEST or 030 BST/CEST for my job. I am an experienced player looking for a DM/GM who will accommodate my schedule.

I most recently played as a Dwarven Rogue with two cats and a wheelbarrow full of eggs.

reddit.com
u/SnooCrickets346 — 2 months ago