Just for context, I got a new manager about a year ago and initially we were sort of getting along but I never gave it much thought and just minded my own business. However, lately they have been acting weird and non-responsive and overly involved in day to day tasks.

They sometimes don't reply to teams messages, want to be involved in each and every tiny feature we are working on. Adding unnecessary processes and meetings just to track our work. Our design system is huge and extremely complex, and I was given the responsibility to review all the designs made by other designers to make sure that we are following the best practices and standards since I am well versed with the system. However, even there I am not being trusted when I raise concerns and they always have to give their incorrect opinion. They feel just because they are ex-FAANG their "personal opinion" is more valuable. It feels like they want to say something just for the sake of saying something even if it is wrong.

I am the best performer in my team with highest rating, other managers are trying to poach me to their teams so I am sure this issue is not due to my work. This is affecting me mentally and I really don't know what to do.

One side of the frame has cracked after approximately two years of regular use. There has been no misuse or intentional damage from our side. She is now saying that the bed has been destroyed completely and we are liable to change the bed which will cost us 30k easily. This is on top of 1 month rent she is deducting that is 71k.

This feels unfair and we don't know what to do. Can someone please guide us?

Not even 2 weeks old and I was using the mumba blade case which is a good case apparently. However I was waiting for the JSAUX split case which arrived today and when I removed the mumba case I could see a few scuffs on the top of my table not scratches but faint straight line. IDK if it is from factory itself or the case caused it

I am assuming it is factory scratch since it is an extremely straight line

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Been on hinge a while and I do alright there as a guy, around 1200 matches over time, so getting matches or dates isn’t really the issue. Even offline I’ve had people have approached randomly for modelling or girls call me good looking etc so I don’t think it’s a looks problem. But it just feels empty after a point. Almost every time it’s the same pattern, things start well, we talk, and within 2-3 days the energy drops and replies slow down. Sometimes we meet, but it either fades out or turns into “not looking for anything serious” or they just want to F around. The moment I say I’m looking for something real, the vibe dips even more.

Tried being upfront, tried being chill, changed my profile, taken breaks, nothing really changes. At this point even a new match doesn’t feel exciting, just feels like it’ll go the same way. Anyone else in India dealing with this or am I missing something?