u/chobanieggs

I really enjoyed gabbianos, although it was a little too spicy for my liking. would love some recs!

just got an email about yearbook photos! the basic package is free, but honestly the quality doesn’t look too good lol. if you’ve taken pics with the company (Lauren or laurel something?) how did they turn out?

second question, are the yearbooks even worth it? I don’t need one but I would like a studio picture in my regalia ofc

if you’ve been a part of THV, how did you feel about it? im a pre-health student looking to gain some volunteer hours before applying to nursing school, so I want to see if this is worth my time or I should look elsewhere

I’m taking anatomy this upcoming semester, and I don’t have the means to afford an iPad. I know people managed without this type of tech for a longggg time, but when I constantly see classmates using their devices, I can’t help but feel like im lacking.

That said, any tips on how to manage the anatomy course load/note taking/etc on a simple computer + notebook?

TYIA!

I’m taking anatomy this upcoming semester, and I don’t have the means to afford an iPad. I know people managed without this type of tech for a longggg time, but when I constantly see classmates using their devices, I can’t help but feel like im lacking.

That said, any tips on how to manage the anatomy course load/note taking/etc on a simple computer + notebook?

TYIA!

hi! im trying to download my memories from Snapchat, however, there’s no option to download them once I open the zip file & open the html link. does anyone know how to troubleshoot this?

TYIA!

hi! im trying to download my memories, however, there’s no option to download them once I open the zip file & open the html link. does anyone know how to troubleshoot this?

TYIA!

hi! im trying to download my memories, however, there’s no option to download them once I open the zip file & open the html link. does anyone know how to troubleshoot this?

TYIA!

to make a long story short, got discarded by an avoidant & he turned very mean. saw him out this past weekend after ~2 months fizzling out & 1 month NC & he was extremely mean/cold to me in multiple ways lol.

when I told people how he acted, they said I should’ve been mean back & that the next time I see him (if I run into him in public bc im over him in a dating sense), be equally as cold to him.

that’s not how I naturally behave, but im wondering if being nice is pointless? Do avoidants detest you more if you’re nice to them after everything they’ve done to you? while I do think im over him in a dating sense, I do want to make it known that it wasn’t my loss lol

just curious on opinions

edit: the more I read this, maybe im not fully over him, but nonetheless my question still stands.

ran into a guy I had been dating for a bit at a bar last night. For context, he randomly turned cold one day after lovebombing, etc etc.

I saw him first and said hi in a friendly way. I wasn't trying to start a conversation but moreso just acknowledging him bc he was genuinely right in front of my face. He said hi back but he made a really weird facial expression first, almost like he was disgusted to see me

Later, I saw another girl grinding on him. We're over clearly so I don't care too much that he was dancing with someone else, but it felt hypocritical because he always preached against acting that way.

The BIGGEST part that confused me happened when I was standing next to a table (there were plenty of other places he could have set his drink). he walked up, reached around me without saying excuse me and placed his cup right next to my waist. A little later he came back and did the exact same thing again but this time smiling and laughing.

Am I overthinking this, or does it seem like he was intentionally trying to get my attention? Either way I think it’s juvenile for him to behave this way which makes me disappointed cus he was so good in the beginning. Don’t want him back after last night but am genuinely curious if these tactics are used by people to get other people’s attention, if he’s just a rude guy, etc. like ig would you guys ever do smth similar to a girl you dated?

ran into a guy I had been dating for a bit at a bar tonight. For context, he randomly turned cold one day after lovebombing, etc etc.

I saw him first and said hi in a friendly way. I wasn't trying to start a conversation but moreso just acknowledging him bc he was genuinely right in front of my face. He said hi back but he made a really weird facial expression first, almost like he was disgusted to see me

Later, I saw another girl grinding on him. We're over clearly so I don't care too much that he was dancing with someone else, but it felt hypocritical because he always preached against acting that way.

The BIGGEST part that confused me happened when I was standing next to a table (there were plenty of other places he could have set his drink). he walked up, reached around me without saying excuse me and placed his cup right next to my waist. A little later he came back and did the exact same thing again but this time smiling and laughing.

Am I overthinking this, or does it seem like he was intentionally trying to get my attention? Either way I think it’s juvenile for him to behave this way which makes me disappointed cus he was so good in the beginning. Don’t want him back after tonight but am in DESPERATE need of some words of reassurance/confidence that it’s not my loss.

If u read this far, thanks.

ran into my ex situationship at a bar tonight. For context, he randomly turned cold one day after lovebombing, etc etc.

I saw him first and said hi in a friendly way. I wasn't trying to start a conversation but moreso just acknowledging him bc he was genuinely right in front of my face. He said hi back but he made a really weird facial expression first, almost like he was disgusted to see me

Later, I saw another girl grinding on him. We're over clearly so I don't care too much that he was dancing with someone else, but it felt hypocritical because he always preached against acting that way.

The BIGGEST part that confused me happened when I was standing next to a table (there were plenty of other places he could have set his drink). he walked up, reached around me without saying excuse me and placed his cup right next to my waist. A little later he came back and did the exact same thing again but this time smiling and laughing.

Am I overthinking this, or does it seem like he was intentionally trying to get my attention? Either way I think it’s juvenile for him to behave this way which makes me disappointed cus he was so good in the beginning. Don’t want him back after tonight but am in DESPERATE need of some words of reassurance/confidence that it’s not my loss.

If u read this far, thanks.

Car got broken into recently & no windows were broken. thought I locked the car but maybe not. are 2019 outbacks easy to unlock via picking?

kind of a peculiar ask, but are there any restaurants recs in Portland that have orange and/or warm lighting? like moody lighting without it being too dark

thanks in advance!

landed at pdx the other day & I was like wow🫪this is insanely gorgeous!

I was out at a bar last week (F) & a guy approached me asking for my Instagram. I gave him my number instead because my Instagram was deactivated, but now that I’m back on Instagram, I was wondering if it’s weird to follow him? He didn’t give me his @ but I found it from our mutual friend’s following.

For a little more context, he didn’t text me after that night, so maybe he’s not that interested? Would you guys be weirded out if a girl you met found your Instagram or should I just do it?

thanks in advance

edit: I didn’t reactivate for him, I had a goal for myself to be off of Instagram for a certain amount of time, and now that its up im back on it. interesting timing I guess lol

I (22F) was out last weekend at a bar & this guy approached me at the end of the night. He asked for my Instagram & I told him it’s deactivated right now, so I gave him my number instead. Well, he didn’t text me after that night out, but I’m still interested in following & getting to know him.

Im reactivating my Instagram soon after a mental health break & im wondering if it’d be weird to request to follow him on Instagram? He never gave me his @ but we had a mutual friend (more of HIS friend, I just know the guy loosely) introduce us, so it’s not too hard for me to find his @ based on the guys following

is this weird? lol I need opinions cus he didn’t text me after that night, so maybe he wasn’t that into it?

I (22F) was out last weekend at a bar & this guy approached me at the end of the night. He asked for my Instagram & I told him it’s deactivated right now, so I gave him my number instead. Well, he didn’t text me after that night out, but I’m still interested in following & getting to know him.

Im reactivating my Instagram soon after a mental health break & im wondering if it’d be weird to request to follow him on Instagram? He never gave me his @ but we had a mutual friend (more of HIS friend, I just know the guy loosely) introduce us, so it’s not too hard for me to find his @ based on the guys following

is this weird? lol I need opinions

visiting la & I want to check out Sam first jazz bar. what’s the dress code there, if any? and what is seating like (first come, first serve, or alternative?)

nobody else im going with likes jazz so I’ll likely go by myself :) just looking for more info in general so I can know what to expect!

tia!