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Need help

I’m 61 kg and 5’1”, with a rectangular body shape. My clothes have started feeling tight, and I really want to lose weight.

I’m planning to focus on walking and a clean, balanced diet rather than anything extreme.

For women who’ve been in a similar situation:
How much did you walk daily?

What did your diet look like?

How long did it take to see a noticeable difference?

Would really appreciate practical advice and realistic expectations.

I’m 61 kg and 5’1”, with a rectangular body shape. My clothes have started feeling tight, and I really want to lose weight.

I’m planning to focus on walking and a clean, balanced diet rather than anything extreme.

For women who’ve been in a similar situation:
How much did you walk daily?

What did your diet look like?

How long did it take to see a noticeable difference?

Would really appreciate practical advice and realistic expectations. ❤️

Hi everyone! 👋
Looking for an **independent room / 1RK for 3 months** for a female.
📍 **Preferred area**s: Sector 135, 143, 126 or nearby
💰 **Budget: Up to ₹10,000/mon**th
🏠 **Independent room/1RK only – not looking for a** PG
🛏️ Furnished or semi-furnished preferred
🔐 Safe and decent locality preferred
If you have any leads or know someone renting out a room for 3 months, please DM me. Thank you! 🙏

Hi everyone! 👋
Looking for an **independent room / 1RK for 3 months** for a female.
📍 **Preferred area**s: Sector 135, 143, 126 or nearby
💰 **Budget: Up to ₹10,000/mon**th
🏠 **Independent room/1RK only – not looking for a** PG
🛏️ Furnished or semi-furnished preferred
🔐 Safe and decent locality preferred
If you have any leads or know someone renting out a room for 3 months, please DM me. Thank you! 🙏

Hi everyone! 👋
Looking for an **independent room / 1RK for 3 months** for a female.
📍 **Preferred area**s: Sector 135, 143, 126 or nearby
💰 **Budget: Up to ₹10,000/mon**th
🏠 **Independent room/1RK only – not looking for a** PG
🛏️ Furnished or semi-furnished preferred
🔐 Safe and decent locality preferred
If you have any leads or know someone renting out a room for 3 months, please DM me. Thank you! 🙏

Hi everyone! 👋
Looking for an independent room / 1RK for 3 months for a female.
📍 Preferred areas: Sector 135, 143, 126 or nearby
💰 Budget: Up to ₹10,000/month
🏠 Independent room/1RK only – not looking for a PG
🛏️ Furnished or semi-furnished preferred
🔐 Safe and decent locality preferred
If you have any leads or know someone renting out a room for 3 months, please DM me. Thank you! 🙏

Looking for a room near sector 144 Noida

**Looking for a room/flatmate near Sector 144, Noida**
Hi everyone! I’m looking for a **room for my female friend** who is working near **Sector 144, Noida**.
Looking for a **safe and decent place** with a budget of around **₹10–12k max**.
Preferably:
Female flatmates only
No smoking 🚭
No drinking
Clean and hygienic
Some decent space in the room
**Furnished would be a plus, but unfurnished is also absolutely fine.**

If anyone knows of a **room/flat available near Sector 144** or is looking for a female flatmate, please DM me. 😊

**Please be kind and respectful. If you genuinely have any leads or information, please comment or DM. Kindly don’t engage just for timepass—genuine responses only. Thank you!** 🤍”

**Looking for a room/flatmate near Sector 144, Noida**
Hi everyone! I’m looking for a **room for my female friend** who is working near **Sector 144, Noida**.
Looking for a **safe and decent place** with a budget of around **₹10–12k max**.
Preferably:
Female flatmates only
No smoking 🚭
No drinking
Clean and hygienic
Some decent space in the room
**Furnished would be a plus, but unfurnished is also absolutely fine.**

If anyone knows of a **room/flat available near Sector 144** or is looking for a female flatmate, please DM me. 😊

**Please be kind and respectful. If you genuinely have any leads or information, please comment or DM. Kindly don’t engage just for timepass—genuine responses only. Thank you!** 🤍”

Looking for a room/flatmate near Sector 144, Noida
Hi everyone! I’m looking for a room for my female friend who is working near Sector 144, Noida.
Looking for a safe and decent place with a budget of around ₹10–12k max.
Preferably:
Female flatmates only
No smoking 🚭
No drinking
Clean and hygienic
Some decent space in the room
Furnished would be a plus, but unfurnished is also absolutely fine.

If anyone knows of a room/flat available near Sector 144 or is looking for a female flatmate, please DM me. 😊

Please be kind and respectful. If you genuinely have any leads or information, please comment or DM. Kindly don’t engage just for timepass—genuine responses only. Thank you! 🤍”

Looking for a Room on Rent – East Delhi

Hi, I’m a working woman looking for a room on rent in East Delhi.

Looking for a safe and decent place. Single room / PG / flat sharing — all options are okay.

Preferred areas: East Delhi

Please DM me if you have any leads.

Thanks!

Looking for a Room on Rent – East Delhi

Hi, I’m a working woman looking for a room on rent in East Delhi.

Looking for a safe and decent place. Single room / PG / flat sharing — all options are okay.

Preferred areas: East Delhi

Move-in

Please DM me if you have any leads.

Thanks!

Looking for a Room on Rent – East Delhi

Hi, I’m a working woman looking for a room on rent in East Delhi.

Looking for a safe and decent place. Single room / PG / flat sharing — all options are okay.

Preferred areas: East Delhi

Please DM me if you have any leads.

Thanks!

Sorry for posting like this, but I genuinely need advice.

I’m Female in thirties early and my mother is in late fifties. We fight almost every day. She speaks nicely to other children, but with me it feels like she spends the entire day criticizing, shouting or arguing.

Even when I’m on an office call, I repeatedly ask her not to come behind me, shout or talk loudly. But she doesn’t listen. I’ve already received warnings from work because of the background noise during my calls. I use my office headphones, but apparently they don’t have good enough noise cancellation.
I’ve explained this so many times that I’m completely exhausted.

She just does what she wants and gets angry when I say anything. If I try to communicate calmly, she either argues or starts crying.

Even something as basic as cooking my own healthy food has become difficult. I feel like I can’t even do simple things for myself peacefully at home.

I don’t remember the last time we had a normal, polite mother-daughter conversation. Most of our communication is just shouting and fighting. I’m so irritated and resentful now that I’m scared I’m starting to hate her.

I don’t want to feel this way about my own mother. I just want some peace.

**What can I actually do?**

Sorry for posting like this, but I genuinely need advice.

I’m 31F and my mother is 58. We fight almost every day. She speaks nicely to other children, but with me it feels like she spends the entire day criticizing, shouting or arguing.

Even when I’m on an office call, I repeatedly ask her not to come behind me, shout or talk loudly. But she doesn’t listen. I’ve already received warnings from work because of the background noise during my calls.

I use my office headphones, but apparently they don’t have good enough noise cancellation.

I’ve explained this so many times that I’m completely exhausted. She just does what she wants and gets angry when I say anything.

If I try to communicate calmly, she either argues or starts crying.

Even something as basic as cooking my own healthy food has become difficult. I feel like I can’t even do simple things for myself peacefully at home.

I don’t remember the last time we had a normal, polite mother-daughter conversation. Most of our communication is just shouting and fighting.

I’m so irritated and resentful now that I’m scared I’m starting to hate her.

I don’t want to feel this way about my own mother. I just want some peace.

What can I actually do?

Why do people react like it’s some shocking thing if a 32F is a virgin and has never had a boyfriend?

Yes, we exist. Some women simply have different values, boundaries, or personal choices and want to experience sex only after marriage.

Why do both men and women judge someone for that?

It’s my life, my choice. What’s so shocking about it?

I’ve been working in an MNC for 8 years now. My “survival” English at work is fine — I can handle basic meetings, emails, simple conversations. But I really struggle with:
\\- Quick spontaneous responses in conversations (I freeze when I need to answer fast)
\\- Causal/small talk — it’s honestly harder for me than work talk
\\- Articulating longer thoughts smoothly
\\- Grammar and vocabulary gaps that hold me back from sounding confident

I’ve improved a lot compared to before (used to struggle even writing simple posts like this one), but I want to take it to the next level — especially for fluency and confidence in real-time conversations, not just written English.

(Small disclosure: I wrote this in my own language and used AI to polish it into proper English — my actual writing level is still quite basic, kind of childish honestly. That’s part of the problem I’m trying to fix.)

Would really appreciate practical tips, resources, or personal experiences from people who’ve been through similar journeys.

Thanks in advance

**Am I lonely? Or lost? Or desperate? I honestly don’t know anymore.**

32F
I want to feel love. I want to be loved. I am so hell tired now. I don’t know what is wrong with me.
But yes, I always think nobody can love me.
Single since birth.

I feel empty.

I feel jealous of other girls. They are getting love, fame, everything at such a young age. And I was so dumb when I was in my early 20s.
Now I feel like my luck, my destiny, everything has betrayed me.

I don’t want to accept that I have no love in my life.
I want someone to choose me so badly.
I want someone who can take a stand for me.
Someone who will be there always, every day, every hour. Someone who actually wants me, chooses me and stays.

I don’t know if I am lonely or lost or just desperate for love anymore.

Maybe I have some psychological problem?
It’s been years. I don’t feel happiness anymore.

I forgot how happiness feels.

What is wrong with me?

Am I lonely? Or lost? Or desperate? I honestly don’t know anymore.

32F
I want to feel love. I want to be loved. I am so hell tired now. I don’t know what is wrong with me.
But yes, I always think nobody can love me.
Single since birth.

I feel empty.

I feel jealous of other girls. They are getting love, fame, everything at such a young age. And I was so dumb when I was in my early 20s.
Now I feel like my luck, my destiny, everything has betrayed me.

I don’t want to accept that I have no love in my life.
I want someone to choose me so badly.
I want someone who can take a stand for me.
Someone who will be there always, every day, every hour. Someone who actually wants me, chooses me and stays.

I don’t know if I am lonely or lost or just desperate for love anymore.

Maybe I have some psychological problem?
It’s been years. I don’t feel happiness anymore.

I forgot how happiness feels.

What is wrong with me?

Hi all, currently looking to switch jobs and wanted to find some active Discord communities and other one also to focused on job hunting and referrals — mainly for data-related and technical support roles (not core development).

Most groups I come across are heavily dev-focused, so looking for something more relevant to my kind of work. If you’re part of any good servers (or know one), please share — would really appreciate it!

Thanks!