




Struggling with hair… cut?
I feel like I’ve been struggling with my hair for 2 to 3 years now.
Three years ago, I cut it into a bob. It started growing out nicely, but then I cut it again, and again. For the last almost year, I’ve been trying to grow it out and I’m struggling. I got a trim back in April, a blunt cut because obviously my hair needs a blunt cut. I have tried to baby trim it here and there. I touch up my roots with professional wella demi -dye every 4 to 6 weeks. I use good shampoo and conditioner, leave in conditioner, and heat protectant. I use scalp treatment a few times a week and well as kerastase leave in on the ends at night. I use a protein treatment once a month. I use K 18 every once in a while. And I just can’t get my hair to grow and or look good.
I have no deficiencies, health issues, and I’ve never been pregnant. Take vitamins + supplements. I’m 35. I feel like I never had these issues til I cut my hair short 3 years ago.
At this point, I find myself using clip in extensions when I have to do my hair (2/3x a week) because I hate how short and fine it constantly looks. It only looks good for a few hours after I wash and style it. I have to use mousse, thickening spray, and texture spray.
I’m trying like hell to just leave it alone, let it grow past the awkward phase, but as you can see I clearly need some kind of shaping. Wanting to go in a Friday to get a trim and also maybe add some cool brown/taupe highlights to add some dimension. (See last pic) Also want to get my front framing pieces trimmed so I could wear my hair up or half up sometimes and leave those out.
Any tips? I feel ugly without extensions at this point. I would really like to get to stop hating my hair (and the way I look) while trying to grow it out.