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Yliopisto on vasta just alkanut ja tuntuu että oon jo ihan loppu. Oon yksinäinen ja stressaan pienimmistäkin asioista.

Tuntuu että pitäis olla onnellinen ja kiitollinen että pääsi kouluun, varsinkin kun pääsin vähän vahingossa alalle johon ei moni hae. On varmasti monia jotka on tehnyt paljon töitä ja hakenut monena vuonna eikä vieläkään ole tullut hyväksytyksi.

Onko täällä muita jotka kärsii samoista asioista? Haluaisi hakea apua mutta hävettää. Mitä jos oonkin vaan kiittämätön ja laiska?

Vau, tulipas pitkä otsikko.

Itsellähän ei ole kokemusta, mutta monelta taholta olen kuullut että uusien kirjailijoiden on vaikea saada kustannussopimuksia ja kirjojaan myyntiin asti. Mutta tuntuu, että kokoajan jostain pomppaa uusi ”nuorten suosikki kirja - siltä ja siltä sometähdeltä”.

En sano että somettajien kiinnostus kirjallisuuteen ja nuorten innostaminen lukemiseen olisi huono juttu. Enkä tiedä miten prosessi kokonaisuudessaan etenee, mutta eihän ne somettajat niitä kirjoja itse edes kirjoita. Ja varmaan silti haalivat rahasta ihan mukavan osuuden omiin taskuihin?

No, menipä jossitteluksi tämä teksti. Mutta mitä haen takaa on se, että mielestäni kirjailijoita pitäisi arvostaa enemmän. Kaikki resurssit mitä käytetään jonkun youtubettajan tai tiktokkaajan kirjaidean kehittämiseen voitaisiin käyttää jonkun intohimoisen ja hyvän kirjailijan teoksen eteenpäin viemiseen.

Reported by Luonnonsuojeluliitto. 200 hectares is the logging limit before requiring environmental impact assessment.

Mun poikaystävä on muuttamassa tänne Saksasta ja olis kiva jos se löytäis kavereita. En googlettelemalla tai somesta löytänyt muuta kun opiskelijoiden jotain toimintaa, mutta poikaystäväni ei ole opiskelija niin niihin ei varmaan oikeen voi osallistua :/ Kaikki vinkit otetaan vastaan

My bf is moving here from Germany and it’d be nice if he could find some friends. I only found student activities from google and social media, but he isn’t a student so I don’t think it’s possible to join those. Any tips are welcome!

I’m a beginner photographer and my bf took me on a date to an airport (I’m very nerdy about planes haha). There is a few very good spots where you can get good pictures over the fence and I found one of them empty. I was waiting for my favorite plane to land there to get some good pictures of it. A more experienced photographer with proper equipment came behind us, we didn’t really notice him yet.

However, after a while (~5 minutes), he came to us and asked if he could have the good spot. I told him that I’m only waiting for this one plane that should be landing any minute now and we were probably going to leave shortly after. He said that he actually also wanted to get pictures of that plane for his blog and that it was very important. I was hesitating and about to give out the spot when my bf told him that it was also important for me as we lived 1,5 hour drive away from the airport and this was my first time having the chance to take pictures of that plane. The man was very frustrated and I asked if he could go ask from the other spots if they would let him have the pictures. He only mumbled something about professionals and beginners and marched away.

Now I’m thinking if I was the asshole for not letting him have the spot, I don’t post the pictures anywhere and they are very beginner level, allthough I like them, and it was clearly important for him to have the pictures..

I have a very big fear of dentist and the main reason is the feeling of my mouth being full of stuff, being totally out of control and I have the thought in my head about something falling into my thorat or suddenly not being able to breathe. Is that possible to even happen? And how can I get over this fear? Also, is it okay to stop the dentist at any time during cavity filling? I always tell the dentist about my fear and they do things slowly with explaining but sometimes I get so anxious during them working that I could cry, but I’ve never wanted to interrup their job.

I was on a call with my bf when I had to pee very bad. I have peed in front of him and he has peed in front of me COUNTLESS times. I mentioned that I had to pee and continued the conversation when he suddenly hang up on me. I though it was an accident and called him back, he then proceed to tell me how disgusting I am for peeing on a call and not even muting myself while doing that. I said that I didn’t even think he could hear it and asked why it was such a big deal. He told me to never do that again… I can’t understand if I actually did something wrong or if he’s just being dramatic?

Muutin mun ekaan omaan kämppään ja täällä on pistorasiat miten sattuu. Vessassa on yks joka jää pesukoneen taakse. Keittiönurkassa on yks joka on lavuaarin vieressä eikä esim. toisella tasolla jossa ei ole mitään veteen liittyvää tai sähköiskun vaaraa. Huone on jaettu ns kahteen osaan, josta toisessa ("olohuone") on kaksi pistorasiaa ja toisessa (sänky ja työskentelytila) tasan yksi, kaapin sisällä.. lisäksi kapealla eteiskäytävällä on yksi pistorasia jolle en oikeastaan keksi mitään käyttötarkoitusta.

Onko tämä yleistäkin vai onko mun kohdalle vaan sattunut omalaatuinen yksilö?

Me (21) and my bf (20) are long distance. I had a 3 month break between a job and school and we decided that I’m gonna move to his place for that. It was okay with everyone.

My bf has his own seperate ”living space” upstairs with a bedroom and livingroom, there is also a mixed bathroom and laundryroom that his parents also use. His parents were paying for our food, therefore me and my bf barely paid for anything. For that, I cleaned the kitchen every morning, washed the dishes after dinner, kept the upstairs bathroom clean all the time, I walked their dog once a day and vacuumed the downstairs about once a week. I also offered to buy groceries but his parents absolutely didn’t want me to do that, but I did make the dinner and buy the ingredients few times.

The problem was that my bf keeps his place clean, but he is also very quick to mess it up again. However, when I moved there he stopped to clean it at all. I tried to keep it clean but I got tired of picking things after him, like dishes, clothes or workpapers. I told him I’m not gonna clean the livingroom anymore if he doesn’t start to put things back after using them and also joining me to keep it clean every now and then. He kept making it messier so I stopped and upstairs I only cleaned the bathroom.

a while ago we were discussing about something when he mentioned that I kept the place pretty dirty while living with his parents money and him working all day. I mentioned that I told him I would stop doing that if he didn’t help me with it at all. He said that he’s always so tired after work and I was just laying around. I reminded him that I helped around the house a lot but he keeps saying that it wasn’t fair to him. So now I’m thinking if I was the asshole for not cleaning and demanding him to do so even tho he had to work and I didn’t?

harkitsen vakavasti osallistumista mut googlettamalla ei löytyny muuta ku englanniksi

I still haven’t forgiven to the duffer brothers tbh…

Sain vr sivuilta käsityksen että voi jos junassa on täyttä. Muissa vaunuissa oli vaan harvakseltaan käytäväpaikkoja ja lemmikkivaunu lähes tyhjä joten varasin paikan sieltä. Mun kaveri nyt kuitenkin väittää että kaikkien muiden paikkojen pitäis olla täynnä ennen kuin voi?

Honestly just want to open up about what I saw the other day. I saw a video of a young boy doing a stunt from a semi-high cliff to water. One of the comments said ”I’m so glad I have two daughters”, that itself shows that she thinks girls are automatically calm and gentle and boys aren’t, which leads to unfair parenting and growing with different opportunities despite the actual character traits and interests.

But HOLY FUCK the replies. All grown ass men commenting how the girls will be doing of and porn, one literally said something like ”both come with flaws, you will either be scared they die (boys) or get raped form dressing like a slut (girls)”. Everyone was liking and laughing at the of comments while I was reading them feeling sick. Mind you, they were talking about the children that the mother had posted publicly for the internet to see.

When it comes to reddit, I have never seen so many men comment about women’s periods. Whenever there’s a post that even slightly talks about periods in a sub that isn’t only for women, the comments are full of men sharing their opinion about it. And they are alwaysss negative. Some try to hide it behind kindness by saying stuff like ”as a man I will never understand what women go through every month blablabla… BUT”, and there is always the but that follows with something negative.

And that was only one of my observations I’ve made here.

**And honestly I hate how people say ”it’s just internet, no one acts like that in real life”. It’s still the same real people with the same exact thoughts that walk past us on the street every single day. They just get to voice their thoughts without consecuenses and continue thinking that ”feminists are just nagging about everything, I know all the other people think like this too they just don’t want to say it out loud”.**

I sent my bf a pic today with a bit more revealing top on, and when I’m on my period my breasts tend to look a bit different. He replied with ”I wish you had your period every day, it makes your boobies look so good”.

I got so mad, probably mostly because I was on my first day and they can be very painful, and the thought that he would want me to go through this every day so he can enjoy my breasts made me irritated. Also, does he not like my boobs normally, why are they ”so good” only when I’m on my period?

I replied with a few sentences explaining why I didn’t like that. He said it was just a joke and sent another unrelated message, I didn’t even open those. After a few hours he said ”can’t believe you’re mad over a joke”.

It’s been around 4 hours from the latest message now and I still haven’t replied. Am I overreacting?

I wanted to write here some of my thoughts. I don't have enough knowledge on the technology, nor is my vocabulary large enough for that, so I will only comment about the idea of planes being fully electrical in the future.

Usually when people hate on electric things, they think it makes the vehicles soulles. And I have to agree with that, I love loud motorcycles, 90's cars and old planes with my whole heart. They just have a different vibe.

But I also love nature, and the fact is that burning fossil fuels is the biggest cause of emissions, and traveling with a plane creates a lot more co2 than travelling with a car, regardless of the number of passangers. Therefore I see that the pros (environment, future, nature, animals), outweigh the cons (aesthetically pleasing, cool vibes, history).

(For this I only have facts about cars): When it comes to the emissions from making the batteries, you would have to buy a new electric car every other year to pollute as much as a fuel car does during that time.

Honestly, I think electric planes are the hope of future aviation. They offer to make traveling more affordable for everyone and people that avoid flying due to the pollution it causes could fly freely, therefore it creates more demand.

What do you think?