u/Any_Comparison_8760

Honestly just want to open up about what I saw the other day. I saw a video of a young boy doing a stunt from a semi-high cliff to water. One of the comments said ”I’m so glad I have two daughters”, that itself shows that she thinks girls are automatically calm and gentle and boys aren’t, which leads to unfair parenting and growing with different opportunities despite the actual character traits and interests.

But HOLY FUCK the replies. All grown ass men commenting how the girls will be doing of and porn, one literally said something like ”both come with flaws, you will either be scared they die (boys) or get raped form dressing like a slut (girls)”. Everyone was liking and laughing at the of comments while I was reading them feeling sick. Mind you, they were talking about the children that the mother had posted publicly for the internet to see.

When it comes to reddit, I have never seen so many men comment about women’s periods. Whenever there’s a post that even slightly talks about periods in a sub that isn’t only for women, the comments are full of men sharing their opinion about it. And they are alwaysss negative. Some try to hide it behind kindness by saying stuff like ”as a man I will never understand what women go through every month blablabla… BUT”, and there is always the but that follows with something negative.

And that was only one of my observations I’ve made here.

**And honestly I hate how people say ”it’s just internet, no one acts like that in real life”. It’s still the same real people with the same exact thoughts that walk past us on the street every single day. They just get to voice their thoughts without consecuenses and continue thinking that ”feminists are just nagging about everything, I know all the other people think like this too they just don’t want to say it out loud”.**

I sent my bf a pic today with a bit more revealing top on, and when I’m on my period my breasts tend to look a bit different. He replied with ”I wish you had your period every day, it makes your boobies look so good”.

I got so mad, probably mostly because I was on my first day and they can be very painful, and the thought that he would want me to go through this every day so he can enjoy my breasts made me irritated. Also, does he not like my boobs normally, why are they ”so good” only when I’m on my period?

I replied with a few sentences explaining why I didn’t like that. He said it was just a joke and sent another unrelated message, I didn’t even open those. After a few hours he said ”can’t believe you’re mad over a joke”.

It’s been around 4 hours from the latest message now and I still haven’t replied. Am I overreacting?

I wanted to write here some of my thoughts. I don't have enough knowledge on the technology, nor is my vocabulary large enough for that, so I will only comment about the idea of planes being fully electrical in the future.

Usually when people hate on electric things, they think it makes the vehicles soulles. And I have to agree with that, I love loud motorcycles, 90's cars and old planes with my whole heart. They just have a different vibe.

But I also love nature, and the fact is that burning fossil fuels is the biggest cause of emissions, and traveling with a plane creates a lot more co2 than travelling with a car, regardless of the number of passangers. Therefore I see that the pros (environment, future, nature, animals), outweigh the cons (aesthetically pleasing, cool vibes, history).

(For this I only have facts about cars): When it comes to the emissions from making the batteries, you would have to buy a new electric car every other year to pollute as much as a fuel car does during that time.

Honestly, I think electric planes are the hope of future aviation. They offer to make traveling more affordable for everyone and people that avoid flying due to the pollution it causes could fly freely, therefore it creates more demand.

What do you think?

Nyt tällä viikolla jo kolmannet kissanpaskat heitetty pihalta helvettiin. Se vasta mukava onki ku paskovat lasten hiekkalaatikoille tai astuu päälle kun tulee autosta ulos…

Oon muuttamassa turkuun opiskelemaan ja rakastan käydä automiiteissä, onko turussa omaa järjestäjää vai onko nää enemmän maalaisjuttuja? 🫣

I feel like I have too much empathy. I carry all the problems of the people I care about on my shoulders, even if I can’t do anything about it, to the point that I feel exhausted. I feel bad for the people I don’t know and cry for strangers on the internet. Like it would be my job to help everyone and make them feel better. Then I feel guilty if I don’t have the resources and energy to do that. It’s unfair that I try to deal with all of my own stuff yet I still take everyone else’s on my shoulders too.

I want to be less empathetic but I don’t want to loose all my empathy. I don’t want to drown myself with other peoples problems but I want to be able to help when I can and feel decent amount of empathy. How can I get that?

Rakastan sen persoonaa ja ne loppupulinat ennenku poistu lavalta oli niin hauskat et haluisin kuulla sen uudestaan 😭

My family friend divorced her ex husband after he cheated on her and was acting very threatening towards her, there was also some other stuff and problems in their marriage. They were married for 12 years and the husband was always very close with her family, also us.

Today he walked past me in a store. I gave him a smile and thought in my head that I hope he isn’t very lonely, after all he lost a big part of his life and I hoped he’s doing okay. But now I’m wondering if it’s wrong to think that. He hurt and did a horrible thing to a person that I care about a lot and I feel pity for him? He got what he deserved, I shouldn’t feel anything besids anger towards him, right?

I’m a 21yo woman working on a male dominated field. Today I was carrying a stack of heavy traffic cones, I held them with one arm on my knee while closing the car trunk with other, jumping back on one foot because I was too close to the car. Then I heard an older man saying behind me ”oh look at that, little girls working hard nowadays”. I looked him in the eye and said ”you find that hard?” when he just laughed it off I continued ”maybe you should train a little more”.

I’m just so proud of myself, I never say a word back if someone disrespects me, that I had to share this with someone😂 I don’t care if it’s cheesy or embarrassing, I’m happy I didn’t stay quiet like I normally would

ja nyt oon wide awake voiko joku pliis samaistua tähän nii mun häpeä ei oo niin tuskallista

I’m obsessed with beluga and have always wanted to see b747 live. There’s an embraer 190 always flying over my house but haven’t got a chance to fly on one yet :( looking forward for that

My fave short journey was with crj900 and for longer journeys I always fancy an a350 or b787

Aloitan opinnot syksyllä ja energia ei meinaa nytkään riittää 8,5h työpäiviin. Kauhistuttaa ajatus että koulun ja opiskelun lisäksi pitäisi vielä jaksaa käydä töissä jos ei ota lainaa/ottaa sitä vähän eikä vapaa-aikaa jäisi palautumiseen, lepäämiseen ja omiin harrastuksiin.

Olen toki vielä ihan pihalla yliopistojutuista, mutta lukion ohella kävin 3-4x viikossa töissä ja jo se teki rankkaa. Maleksin kuitenkin lukion vähän kahta kättä heittäen ”kunhan läpi pääsee” mentaliteetilla.

Mutta kadunko myöhemmin jos elän nyt ainakin alkuun pelkästään tuilla ja lainalla? Onko se edes mahdollista nykytilanteessa?

I was at the beach with my friend but I’m on my period so I wasn’t swimming. I was making some jewlery when about a 3-4 years old girl walked curiously past me. She stopped to look and I asked her if she wanted to try one on. The parents were having a little chat with me too and when the girl started to bring her sand toys to me I offered to play with her while the parents packed their stuff next to us.

After a while my friend came by and went back to swim. The girl asked why I wasn’t swimming too and I told her I was menstruaiting. She asked what that was and I said ”it’s a thing that helps women to have children if they want to and it makes us bleed a little bit so it makes it a tiny bit uncomfortable to swim”. (looking back at it I could’ve explained it better but I wasn’t prepared for that so I tried to come up with the most child-friendly way) The parents must have heard what I said because the dad came back and told the girl to go play with her mom. He then said they want to teach that stuff themselves and went away. I was so confused of what had happened that I didn’t realize to go back to them and apologize before they left.

Was I the asshole for teaching that kind of stuff to a child that I don’t know?