u/Every_Strawberry_543

As soon as I came to work today i was told to go home for the day because they think business will be slow because of how bad the weather was. It was raining heavy and it was also windy at the same time. Then later they texted me that they told EVERYONE else at my store to go home too for the day cause of the weather. But i saw a bunch of other places were still open like mcdonalds, zaxbys, goodwill... all of them were still open.

I went to urgent care cause of all of my flu like symptoms that wouldn't go away. It started as just a migraine. And then over the course of a few days more symptoms were added.

Migraine, sore throat, stuffy nose, heavy cough, dizzyness, fatigue, eyes randomly getting watery, ear pain, shortness of breath, and increased appetite. They said there was no fever (even though it felt like i did.) And they said i had low blood pressure. They checked my blood pressure 3 times i dont know why. They also looked at my ears and said they see nothing wrong with my ears. They also swabbed me for covid and strep throat. They got the results after 15 minutes and said it was all negative. Then they gave me one last test to see if it was a bacterial infection but they said that test will take a couple days. Someone in my family recently had strep throat before i got my symptoms. So of course i was surprised when they told me that I do NOT have strep throat. So... what is it then? There is no way i had all these symptoms ans then got told they couldnt find anything. Do they think i was lying? I told them that i took dayquill but that the dayquill didn't do anything.

Also, the doctor who looked my ears and throat had a lazy eye. Idk if that matters or not. She said all she saw was mucus in my throat. And they said i had low blood pressure. What caused the low blood pressure though?

Did they change the names of some of the apartments on riverbend parkway? I use to live at the redland apartments. I was thinking of moving there again or moving to the apartments near them.

Is padsplit better than roomster? In my experience roommster had scammers ans bots on it. Both of the apps cost money though. Is it worth it?

This is part 2 of my original post. The original post was about the owner of the store. This one is about the GM.

It started before i even clocked in. I was scheduled 4pm to close but several hours before i clocked in my GM sent me a text asking if i could come in at 12pm instead.

Now usually when they call me in or ask me to come in extra early like that I said "yes" cause i really needed the extra money. I am NOT paid salary. I am paid hourly. But this time i said "I can't today. I will see you at 4pm though." The reason I said no this time was cause I was exhausted and needed more sleep cause I already worked an 11 hour shift right before that.

When i got to the store it was super busy. I was told to be a dishwasher for that day. And he somehow managed to criticize almost everything I did even though i have washed dishes before. When i tried to explain my reasoning for why i did what i did, he called me a "smart ass". And he also thought I was being sarcastic when I spoke to him. I was not being sacrastic at all. I was serious.

He also cursed at me and said "this bitch is fucking crazy" and he also slammed a lot of stuff and kept screaming and saying "lord give me strength"... wtf.. seriously!? I am NOT that bad at my job. If i was so terrible then why did my customers give me tips when I bussed tables? If i was so terrible why did my bosses have a history of calling me in a lot? In my original post i mentioned that my other boss threatened to fire me. Well, he changed his mind. I think a big part of it is cause he found out that the new lady they just hired 2 weeks ago was already quitting. And also cause they put 2 people on vacation at the same time this week.

Oh, and the GM told me NOT to listen to the owner when the owner is not here. He called the owner lazy and said the owner does not help us om the weekends and that he cheats on some of the work tasks by adding water to some of the cleaning supplies. He also said "if you complain about me to him we will have a problem. Would you rather me say things to your face or would you rather me talk behind your back? Every manager here has complained to me about you." What the fuck.... it feels like he is trying to make me sound like a rebellious teenager. I am a 31 year old woman... i do my job, i try to do my job efficiently, and I am one of their most relaible employees because i am one of the only ones who goes in early or on my days off cause i need the money and also cause i like that overtime pay.

He also makes "jokes" like "don't do this or I will cut you." It is very distasteful. He has never actually tried to cut me or anything like that but everytime he makes that joke it just feels weird. And at the end of my shift he said "You did much better today. What do you think?" I just felt dumbfounded and said "I don't know anymore." He was worried about my taking too long after the store was closed, yet, after i clocked out i saw 2 people who were still clocked in and still working... my bosses also use to complain about me "being too quiet" but now he wants to call me a smart ass for trying to explain why I do what I do because I was tired of him trying to make me look stupid all the time.

I work at a restaurant. When I first started working here my boss was really nice to me. But over time he got worse and worse. He use to think i was good at my job. But for the past few weeks he has found more and more random stuff to criticize me about. Some of it is brand new stuff that he never criticized me about until recently. I have worked here for almost 3 months. I have worked in multiple stations. But recently he has had me either bussing tables or washing dishes. Well, today he had me workimg BOTH dishwashing and bussing by myself at the same time. I kept feeling disorganized cause i kept going back and forth from bussing to dishwashing. Then after I wiped a table i started washing dishes again. Then my boss saw me washing dishes and said "I don't know how to communicate with you so I am just going to show you." Then he brought me back to the table that I just wiped clean and told me i forgot to sweep. Then he said "How did you not see that?" Then I said "I just got disorganized. I started washing dishes again. I was not done." Then i swept the spot. Then after I swept the spot i went back to dishes. Then he came back AGAIN to tell me I missed a spot when I swept. Then he told me "I am not impressed. Go clean that or you won't have a job. I don't know how else to talk to you." Then I swept the spot i missed and I also swept the rest of the dining room to make sure I didn't miss anymore spots.

Now the good news? I actually got some good tips today while bussing. If i was as bad at my job as he thought I was I don't think I would have gotten good tips!

Also, this same boss has had his nose almost touching my phone screen once while i was texting after i already clocked out. He has also made some weird comments in the past. He called my hair sexy. He said "You have friends?" When i told him i was gonna give some of the store flyers to my friends. He laughed at me when i screamed in fear when he walked into the bathroom by accident after he told me to clean the bathrooms (before the store opened).

Also, some of my coworkers have made some of the same mistakes I have. He seems to be hyperfocused on me about it though.

He also use to tell me I am too quiet. He would expect me to say hi to him as soon as I walk into the door (even if he didnt say it first) and he would be offended if I dont say hi to him.

He also had one time where he threw an apron at me when my back was turned. When I turned around to look at him after he did that he started laughing and said "Sorry I felt impulsive."

He is also very unpredictable. He has sometimes where he is really nice to me but today was the 1st time he threatened to fire me. He also kept saying he thought I was "frustrating" a lot today.

He has also called me in on my days off a lot in the past. He would either call me in on my days off or he would ask me to work a double shift if I was already working the morning shift. So... if i am so frustrating why would he call me in all the time? I have never called out and he calls me in a lot if other people call out or if the store gets extra busy.

My boss asked me if i can work all 7 days before he started making the schedule. I told him I need at least 1 day off. That was crazy... i am NOT a manager. I am just a regular worker there. Unless he is planning on promoting me or giving me a raise he has no reason to ask me to have zero days off for the whole week. Not only that but he waits until very last minute to make the schedule. He makes it once a week every sunday. But then I dont know if i have to work the next day or not (monday) until he is done with the schedule for that same night. They also either call me in on my days off OR they make me work a double shift if i am already working while someone else called out. The other day one of my bosses told me "You are going to work a double today" as soon as he saw me clock in that morning. I was originally scheduled 10 to 5. He last minute told me to work a double. He did not even ask me. He TOLD me.

Not only that but sometimes they try to make me feel stupid all the time even though they call me in all the time. Sometimes i wonder if they wanna fire me after how they talk to me sometimes but then they end up acting like they need me so much when they call me in all the time.

Okay, I am a crew member at a restaurant. I am cross trained in multiple stations. I like my job but I feel like my manager hates me sometimes. He is nice to me sometimes but he also singles me out a lot. He also acts unprofessional about my personal life and i feel like he bullies me in passive aggressive ways.

There was one time where i was already clocked out and done with my shift. I was texting on my phone (again my shift was over) and my boss snuck up behind me and bent down very low to the point where his nose almost touched my phone screen. When he did that i said "You are so nosey!" Then he laughed and said "Yes I am!"

He also seems annoyed if i text on the clock even though him and everyone else who works with me text on the clock all the time. They are on their phones a lot more than I am. Also, at least when I do use my phone I make sure not to use it in front of the customers. I usually go in the back to check my phone.

Today he made a weird comment. I found these mini flyers that advertised our stores app. I asked if they were coupons he said no and then he said I don't need them cause I work here. Then I said "What if I want them for my friends?" Then he gave me a mean look while saying "You have friends?" In a serious tone. He did not even sound like he was joking. He seemed angry. Why would he be angry about me having friends?

Also, he calls me in a lot which is good and bad. Its good cause I like the extra hours cause it helps my paycheck. Its bad because he changes my schedule last minute a lot. He either calls me in on my day off or he tells me last minute that he needs me to stay longer than scheduled. Last week when I was scheduled 10 to 5 he said "You are working a double today." He did not even ask me. He just told me.

He has sometimes where he makes jokes saying he wants to promote me and sometimes where he criticizes almost everything i do. I am one of his most reliable workers. The entire time that I have worked there I have never called out so far AND i am usually the person they call in or who they ask to stay longer if other people call out or if the store gets extra busy.

Some of the stuff he criticizes me for also seem irrelevant to the job. He gets upset if I don't say "Hi" to him as soon as I clock in even though he didn't say "hi" either. He also tells me I am too quiet.

He also had one time where he randomly asked me if I was lonely. Just out of nowhere.

And then today when he saw me cleaning the mens bathroom (before the store opened) he walked in and then started laughing at me when I got startled and when I m said "cleaning" over and over. Then he walked out laughing at me. I dont understand how he didnt know I was in there. He asked me to clean the bathrooms a few minutes before that. He also told me "Hurry up i have to pee" after that. I mean, even if he didnt know I was there i still dont see how it was funny.

Part of me wonders if he is either secretly inlove with me or if he just has high expectations for me cause I use to be an assistant manager at a different restaurant. But half the time he makes me wonder if he wants to fire me. But then i think "Well if he wants to fire me then he wouldnt be relying on me so much when he calls me in a lot." Part of me wonders if he is sexist. (I am a woman in my 30's. He is a man in his 50's.) Part of me wonders if he is just very immature. And sometimes I wonder if he is an alcoholic or something cause of how he is.

I'm a woman in my 30's and I have been through a lot. I know everyone has their own struggles but I have been through so much to the point where I worry people won't believe me or that they will either call me paranoid OR they will tell me the situation had to be my fault somehow. And when people don't believe me it just adds more to the trauma. Ive been through physical abuse, sexual abuse, homelessness, near death experiences etc. I do realize there are people who have been through worse but part of why I feel isolated is cause I feel like I don't fit in with anyone. Im not religious but I am not a rebel either. I have never done drugs in my life. I have no criminal record. But i still manage to have gone through too much.

She refuses to bring my son to me and then when I said i will go over to their house to pick up my son she threatened to call the police on me for tresspassing. I told her its not tresspassing if its me picking up my child. Then i said "so if you dont want me to come pick him up and you dont want to bring him to me do I need to get the police to bring him to me?" She said "Thats his child. He is the father." I said "I am the mother" and she said "I dont care who you are. You are not coming to my house." Yeah, he is the father but he does not have legal custidy and he is not even legitamized. I regret letting my son go to his dads house. The girlfriend is overbearing. She pretends to be married to him even though the probate courts told me they arent married. She also told me "im only allowed to talk to him through text from now on." Probably so she can keep impersonating him on his phone. I also have proof of her impersonating him. I recorded my calls now. I have proof of her answering the calls when I call the fathers phone and i have proof of the father telling me "those texts weren't from me they were from her." Cause I recorded the call. I also have proof of her beating up my sons dad in front of my son. I have her blocked but she still tries to contact me through my sons dads phone. My son is 3 and he is non verbal autistic. He is unable to tell me what he witnessed.

She refuses to bring my son to me and then when I said i will go over to their house to pick up my son she threatened to call the police on me for tresspassing. I told her its not tresspassing if its me picking up my child. Then i said "so if you dont want me to come pick him up and you dont want to bring him to me do I need to get the police to bring him to me?" She said "Thats his child. He is the father." I said "I am the mother" and she said "I dont care who you are. You are not coming to my house." Yeah, he is the father but he does not have legal custidy and he is not even legitamized. I regret letting my son go to his dads house. The girlfriend is overbearing. She pretends to be married to him even though the probate courts told me they arent married. She also told me "im only allowed to talk to him through text from now on." Probably so she can keep impersonating him on his phone. I also have proof of her impersonating him. I recorded my calls now. I have proof of her answering the calls when I call the fathers phone and i have proof of the father telling me "those texts weren't from me they were from kris." Cause I recorded the call. I also have proof of her beating up my sons dad in front of my son. I have her blocked but she still tries to contact me through my sons dads phone. My son is 3 and he is non verbal autistic. He is unable to tell me what he witnessed.

Yesterday was my sons birthday. My sons dad and his girlfriend wanna keep my son in underwear all the time instead of pull ups for potty training. Then when they took him to me to mcdonalds he had an accident in the play place playground. Then my sons dad and his girlfriend got mad at me for putting him in a pull up instead of underware. Then I i had to change his outfit for a 2nd time cause i had to wash his hair in the mcdonalds bathroom sink cause his hair got sticky. His dad said "he does not usually have accidents. He is potty trained" i told him "no he is still in the process of being potty trained. He just had an accident. He is not potty trained." The girlfriend also kept trying to override me and said "he has underwear" when i handed my sons dad a pull up for our son later. I think she wanted to embarass me on purpose. The dad also acted weird when they left. I offered him the rest of the pack of pull ups and he said no then his girlfriend gave me a mean look and then he changed his mind and said yes and took them. This is so weird to me.

Also, they conviently left right after they dropped him off at mcdonalds to me. I was the one who cleaned everything. After they left was when he had the accident and they came back after i cleaned up the mess. Then they came back after i cleaned him. Then he tried to cut the time short and said he has to go to work when he came back. Then i had to convince them to stay longer so i can give our son his cake and presents. I bought all the presents and the cake basically handled the whole thing. The dad ate some of the cake with us after i convinced him to not leave so soon. Before he left he asked me if i was okay. I said "no". I also told him later that the other family at mcdonalda gave me mean looks after he had the accident before the mcdonalds workers came into the playground to clean it up.

My son is 3 and he is non verbal autistic.

My sons dad and his girlfriend wanna keep my son in underwear all the time instead of pull ups for potty training. Then when they took him to me to mcdonalds he had an accident in the play place playground. Then my sons dad and his girlfriend got mad at me for putting him in a pull up instead of underware. Then I i had to change his outfit for a 2nd time cause i had to wash his hair in the mcdonalds bathroom sink cause his hair got sticky. His dad said "he does not usually have accidents. He is potty trained" i told him "no he is still in the process of being potty trained. He just had an accident. He is not potty trained." The girlfriend also kept trying to override me and said "he has underwear" when i handed my sons dad a pull up for our son later. I think she wanted to embarass me on purpose. The dad also acted weird when they left. I offered him the rest of the pack of pull ups and he said no then his girlfriend gave me a mean look and then he changed his mind and said yes and took them. This is so weird to me.

Im a woman in my 30s. I got assaulted by a man who was way too aggressive.

I don't drink that often. Only occasionally. But one night i decided to try something new cause i wanted to make new friends. I went to 2 bars. The 1st one, nobody spoke to me and i felt invisible. The 2nd one, the people were more socialable. That particular bar also had games in it too. One of the games was ski ball. I played ski ball and then a guy walked up to me to offered to pay for a few for rounds of the game. Then we both played. Then he offered me a drink. He seemed nice at first. The red flags did not start to show until he kept trying to encourage me to finish my drink. (I was not drunk. I litterally had only 1 glass and i had trouble finishing it.) Then it started to rain when we were about to leave. He didn't start to get aggressive until we got in the uber. The guy kept pulling my hair really really hard to make me kiss him and he stuck his tongue all the way in my mouth. It hurt. He stuck his tongue really far back and it hurt. At first he was pulling my wig and then when my wig came off he pulled my real hair. He kept telling me what to say. I tried to like it but he was too aggressive. When i kept telling him i need to fix my wig after he took it off he didnt care and just said i look beautiful without it. If i tried to pull him off of me when he kissed me too aggressively i had difficulty with ir cause of how strong he was. He also bit me a lot during the kissing. He was not gentle about anything at all. Even after we got out of the car he kept trying to keep kissing me aggressively and i was afraid of falling. (We did not fall but i was worried we would.) When we got to his door he had a stack of amazon boxes at his door. Then he carelessly threw tossed the boxes in without being careful. Then he kept trying to aggressively kiss me in the hallway while pinning me to the wall. At one point he even put his hand on my neck for a second and then stopped. Then when we got upstairs he started to take his clothes off and tried taking my shirt off. Then i just kept saying i need to go home. He then kept saying "Oh youre scared of me?" And "Are you sure you don't wanna play just a little bit?" Then when i kept persisting that I need to go he offered to order me a lyft/uber but he had trouble ordering it cause he typed the address in the wrong app. Then as i walked away i heard a loud thump. Then i said "Are you okay?" Then when I went back upstairs e was laying on the floor then when he saw me he crawled to the toilet as he left the bathroom dolr wide open. Then he kept screaming "Go away! Leave me alone!" Then he kept making gagging sounds but i didnt know if he really was throwing up or if he was faking. I didnt actually see any vomit when he made those sounds in front of me. Then i left. I ended up walking out of his neighborhood after that.

He also claimed that he had a phd in folklore and poetry but i don't know if i believed him or not. Ive never been to college.

I feel really stupid. That was the first time i actually went to a guys house after meeting him at a bar. He didnt start to get aggressive until we got in the lyft ride though. We did not have sex. He obviously wanted to but it didn't happen.

I have some audio where the talking in the background is muffled. I hear part of it but not all of it. Is there an app that trascipts audio?

Here is what he texted me after i told him I finally got a job. The names are censored for privacy reasons. My ex lied to me and to his father (our sons paternal grandpa) and said we would get back together and that he would evict the new girlfriend so my son and I can move back in with him so we can be a family again. The grandpa didnt want me to have a job. Him and my sons dad both wanted me to be a stay at home mom while we waited for my sons dad to evict the new girlfriend. He really made it seem like he would evict her at first cause he even called the cops on her multiple times while i stayed at the grandpas house. Eventually i got alerts saying i needed to renew my sons medicaid. The grandpa was highly against me having a job. I even have screenshots of hin saying that. I still have legal full custody of our son because the father and I were never married and he never got our son legitametized. But then the dad waited until AFTER the grandpa kicked me out to get me to sign the legitatmezation papers so he can legitamize our son. My parents wont help me and i became homeless after the grandpa kicked me out. The family shelters and the dv shelters both kept telling me they were full. Because of that i had no choice but to let my son stau at his dads while i was homeless even though I didnt want him at his dads house. I had several interviews for months before i finally got a job.

Today my sons dad texted me "Are you gonna be able to send some money for (sons name) I'm not sure what your situation is."

My response "Your father kicked me out cause he didnt want me to have a job. You both wanted me to be a stay at home mom for you. You told me and your dad you would evict k! Instead you said you had a secret wedding not long after your dad kicked me out. I needed a job so i could renew his medicaid. Now i need to keep my job. When i was at the hotel you told me you didnt want me to bring (sons name) to a hotel but then you let k take him to a hotel in another state! You promised to provide. You waited until after your father kicked me out to ask me if you can legitemize our son. And then now you are saying you married k after YOU said she threatened to leave our son home alone over and over even though you wanted me to be a stay at home mom for you. Before we broke up you use to tell me you thought (sons name) was expensive all the time when he was a baby. I dont know how you afforded getting with k when she has 3 kids of her own that dont belong to you when you you use to say our son was too expensive for you before we broke up. Im waiting for my job to pay me. Stop acting like i owe you when you are the one who let your father kick me out cause i needed to get a job to renew (sons name) medicaid cause they needed paystubs for it. (Sons name) and i became homeless after the 1st time you made me a stay at home for you too! And then you moved in k and her kids into your home while (sons name) and I were still homeless! We were at the shelters. Shelters give people a limited time they can stay.

I had really bad roommates before i moved into the grandpas house. They constantly complained about my kid before he got his autism diagnosis. One of the old roommates there even threatened to shoot me before i got out of there. Thats part of how I ended up at the grandpas house. I got with those roommates after getting out of homelessness the 1st time before i moved in with the grandpa.

Also, his job takes the child support out of his check automatically cause he had too many times where he paid it late in the past.

He basically wants me to cash app him the money back. This is not the 1st time he asked me for money either. He just memtioned it again recently cause he knows I finally got a job now. But he also asked me for money a week after his dad kicked me out too. I was using my tax refund for a motel during that time while i applied for jobs and also while I biked for door dash but then they suspended my door dash account.

K has 3 kids of her own that dont belong to my ex. She had them years before she met him. Im shocked that he got with someone who has 3 kids. I was surpriswd he could afford it after he use to complain about how expensive our son was before we broke up. She is also very mean and constantly threatens me and the dad. She threatens to leave our son home alone, she has threatened cps on me since before she even met me (when i still lived with my old roommates) and she threatens to get my sons dad in jail and threatens to get him fired. I dont tell him about my personal life anymore since he is not honest with me either.

Here is what he texted me after i told him I finally got a job. The names are censored for privacy reasons. My ex lied to me and to his father (our sons paternal grandpa) and said we would get back together and that he would evict the new girlfriend so my son and I can move back in with him so we can be a family again. The grandpa didnt want me to have a job. Him and my sons dad both wanted me to be a stay at home mom while we waited for my sons dad to evict the new girlfriend. He really made it seem like he would evict her at first cause he even called the cops on her multiple times while i stayed at the grandpas house. Eventually i got alerts saying i needed to renew my sons medicaid. The grandpa was highly against me having a job. I even have screenshots of hin saying that. I still have legal full custody of our son because the father and I were never married and he never got our son legitametized. But then the dad waited until AFTER the grandpa kicked me out to get me to sign the legitatmezation papers so he can legitamize our son. My parents wont help me and i became homeless after the grandpa kicked me out. The family shelters and the dv shelters both kept telling me they were full. Because of that i had no choice but to let my son stau at his dads while i was homeless even though I didnt want him at his dads house. I had several interviews for months before i finally got a job.

Today my sons dad texted me "Are you gonna be able to send some money for (sons name) I'm not sure what your situation is."

My response "Your father kicked me out cause he didnt want me to have a job. You both wanted me to be a stay at home mom for you. You told me and your dad you would evict k! Instead you said you had a secret wedding not long after your dad kicked me out. I needed a job so i could renew his medicaid. Now i need to keep my job. When i was at the hotel you told me you didnt want me to bring (sons name) to a hotel but then you let k take him to a hotel in another state! You promised to provide. You waited until after your father kicked me out to ask me if you can legitemize our son. And then now you are saying you married k after YOU said she threatened to leave our son home alone over and over even though you wanted me to be a stay at home mom for you. Before we broke up you use to tell me you thought (sons name) was expensive all the time when he was a baby. I dont know how you afforded getting with k when she has 3 kids of her own that dont belong to you when you you use to say our son was too expensive for you before we broke up. Im waiting for my job to pay me. Stop acting like i owe you when you are the one who let your father kick me out cause i needed to get a job to renew (sons name) medicaid cause they needed paystubs for it. (Sons name) and i became homeless after the 1st time you made me a stay at home for you too! And then you moved in k and her kids into your home while (sons name) and I were still homeless! We were at the shelters. Shelters give people a limited time they can stay.

I had really bad roommates before i moved into the grandpas house. They constantly complained about my kid before he got his autism diagnosis. One of the old roommates there even threatened to shoot me before i got out of there. Thats part of how I ended up at the grandpas house. I got with those roommates after getting out of homelessness the 1st time before i moved in with the grandpa.

Also, his job takes the child support out of his check automatically cause he had too many times where he paid it late in the past.

He basically wants me to cash app him the money back. This is not the 1st time he asked me for money either. He just memtioned it again recently cause he knows I finally got a job now. But he also asked me for money a week after his dad kicked me out too. I was using my tax refund for a motel during that time while i applied for jobs and also while I biked for door dash but then they suspended my door dash account.

K has 3 kids of her own that dont belong to my ex. She had them years before she met him. Im shocked that he got with someone who has 3 kids. I was surpriswd he could afford it after he use to complain about how expensive our son was before we broke up. She is also very mean and constantly threatens me and the dad. She threatens to leave our son home alone, she has threatened cps on me since before she even met me (when i still lived with my old roommates) and she threatens to get my sons dad in jail and threatens to get him fired. I dont tell him about my personal life anymore since he is not honest with me either.

I don't drink that often. Only occasionally. But last night i decided to try something new cause i wanted to make new friends. I went to 2 bars. The 1st one, nobody spoke to me and i felt invisible. The 2nd one, the people were more socialable. That particular bar also had games in it too. One of the games was ski ball. I played ski ball and then a guy walked up to me to offered to pay for a few for rounds of the game. Then we both played. Then he offered me a drink. He seemed nice at first. The red flags did not start to show until he kept trying to encourage me to finish my drink. (I was not drunk. I litterally had only 1 glass and i had trouble finishing it.) Then it started to rain when we were about to leave. He didn't start to get aggressive until we got in the uber. The guy kept pulling my hair really really hard to make me kiss him and he stuck his tongue all the way in my mouth. It hurt. He stuck his tongue really far back and it hurt. At first he was pulling my wig and then when my wig came off he pulled my real hair. He kept telling me what to say. I tried to like it but he was too aggressive. When i kept telling him i need to fix my wig after he took it off he didnt care and just said i look beautiful without it. If i tried to pull him off of me when he kissed me too aggressively i had difficulty with ir cause of how strong he was. He also bit me a lot during the kissing. He was not gentle about anything at all. Even after we got out of the car he kept trying to keep kissing me aggressively and i was afraid of falling. (We did not fall but i was worried we would.) When we got to his door he had a stack of amazon boxes at his door. Then he carelessly threw tossed the boxes in without being careful. Then he kept trying to aggressively kiss me in the hallway while pinning me to the wall. At one point he even put his hand on my neck for a second and then stopped. Then when we got upstairs he started to take his clothes off and tried taking my shirt off. Then i just kept saying i need to go home. He then kept saying "Oh youre scared of me?" And "Are you sure you don't wanna play just a little bit?" Then when i kept persisting that I need to go he offered to order me a lyft/uber but he had trouble ordering it cause he typed the address in the wrong app. Then as i walked away i heard a loud thump. Then i said "Are you okay?" Then when I went back upstairs he was laying on the floor then when he saw me he crawled to the toilet as he left the bathroom door wide open. Then he kept screaming "Go away! Leave me alone!" Then he kept making gagging sounds but i didnt know if he really was throwing up or if he was faking. I didnt actually see any vomit when he made those sounds in front of me. Then i left. I ended up walking out of his neighborhood after that.

He also claimed that he had a phd in folklore and poetry but i don't know if i believed him or not. Ive never been to college.

I feel really stupid. That was the first time i actually went to a guys house after meeting him at a bar. He didnt start to get aggressive until we got in the lyft ride though. We did not have sex. He obviously wanted to but it didn't happen.

My sons father was very abusive. But i found out later that our son has autism and when we did the genetic tests after that we found out that my son was missing part of chromosome 16 and that it was cause of his father. His father is not only abusive, but he is also very very manipulative and a compulsive liar. I use to think he was too manipulative to be autistic. He was very very very controlling and he would often pretend to act surprised if people are mean back to him if he is mean to them first. He is also extremely wreckless. He makes impulsive decisions and changes his mind about everything all the time. He never thinks about how his actions affect others and he brings chaos into peoples lives. He also cheats all the time while he accuses everyone else of cheating. Its like he has no self control. He also lies a lot. I use to think that autistic people had trouble lying. But my ex, he is a compulsive liar. I don't want my son to act like him.