What are some things women do when you are around/talking to a person they find attractive?

aka what, as a guy, should I be looking for

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u/GreenDiver09 — 2 days ago

Beetle species in pinning, really big eyes, cool 3d pattern on elytra and armor, blue iridescence on abdomen, about an inch and a half long, found in central OR, species id?

I can get better pics too if needed

u/GreenDiver09 — 5 days ago

Is moby dick worth the read?

reading some more of the “classic“ books lately (Sherlock Holme, 20,000 leagues under the sea, etc.) lately and I realized I havent read moby dick ever but i am slightly intimidated by the 650ish pages, as someone who enjoys more nautical sorts of stories, do you all think it would be a good book or should I read another book?

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u/GreenDiver09 — 6 days ago

Is moby dick worth the read?

reading some more of the “classic“ books lately (Sherlock Holme, 20,000 leagues under the sea, etc.) lately and I realized I havent read moby dick ever but i am slightly intimidated by the 650ish pages, as someone who enjoys more nautical sorts of stories, do you all think it would be a good book or should I read another book?

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u/GreenDiver09 — 6 days ago

I gave a girl my number, she didn’t text, but then approached me later—what should I do?

hey, I recently approached a girl working at a cafe with a note asking if she’d like to go out to eat sometime with my number on it, a number of days pass and i had sort of given up hope but a random day i was checking out a bookstore where (completely of her own accord and out of the blue) approached me and started talking (it’s a long story but essentially she was working on collage work in the back and I didn’t see her) she gave me what I think might have been some flirtatious comments and then had to go bc of a phone call.

i would really like to see her again but since the bookstore was j about one in a million the only other place I know she’ll be is at the cafe. would it be creepy or even allowed for me to ask one of her coworkers if/when she’s working? and if yes then what should I do

also in WA if there’s any state specific laws

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u/GreenDiver09 — 6 days ago
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I gave a girl my number, she didn’t text, but then approached me later—what should I do?

hey, I recently approached a girl working at a cafe with a note asking if she’d like to go out to eat sometime with my number on it, a number of days pass and i had sort of given up hope but a random day i was checking out a bookstore where (completely of her own accord and out of the blue) approached me and started talking (it’s a long story but essentially she was working on collage work in the back and I didn’t see her) she gave me what I think might have been some flirtatious comments and then had to go bc of a phone call.

i would really like to see her again but since the bookstore was j about one in a million the only other place I know she’ll be is at the cafe. would it be creepy or even allowed for me to ask one of her coworkers if/when she’s working? and if yes then what should I do

also in WA if there’s any state specific laws

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u/GreenDiver09 — 6 days ago

I gave a girl my number, she didn’t text, but then approached me later—what should I do?

hey, I recently approached a girl working at a cafe with a note asking if she’d like to go out to eat sometime with my number on it, a number of days pass and i had sort of given up hope but a random day i was checking out a bookstore where (completely of her own accord and out of the blue) approached me and started talking (it’s a long story but essentially she was working on collage work in the back and I didn’t see her) she gave me what I think might have been some flirtatious comments and then had to go bc of a phone call.

i would really like to see her again but since the bookstore was j about one in a million the only other place I know she’ll be is at the cafe. would it be creepy or even allowed for me to ask one of her coworkers if/when she’s working? and if yes then what should I do

also in WA if there’s any state specific laws

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u/GreenDiver09 — 6 days ago

Continuing last post - she’s flirting with me(?)

I went in this bookstore I’ve never been in bc I wanted to check it out and she was in the back working on her computer, in the moment I wasn’t sure but I got that “tingle” feeling even from 20 feet away. I almost said hi but then left bc I was getting lunch w/ some friends, then I went back up after to buy a book and she came over (I could clearly see it was her now) i was looking at the classics (Holmes, moby dick, 20k leagues, etc.) and she started playing what I can only describe as “eye tag” while “looking” at books, we sort of “chased” each other for about two minutes then we locked eyes and she asked if I was the guy from the restaurant to which I responded yes to, end then we talked for I think around 15 minutes, she asked me about age, where I live, if I work, what I do, and then I asked her some things too. Along the whole interaction she was trying to look like she was looking at books but I don’t even think she looked at the titles half the time and she would just pull them out halfway just to push them back in, also she pulled the same book once or twice. The interaction was cut short when she had a phone call and had to go somewhere, the last thing she said to me was “please don’t die out there, yeah?”. she never told me anything about meeting up or anything and idk what to do? should I go back to the cafe and try and say hi now we’re acquainted? i still don’t know her shifts besides on sunday and I only have one more week (meaning one more Sunda, before I’m out of town for a month. I really got no clue what to do and frank im quite flabbergasted bc this is the first tome any woman has shown even a bit of attraction if it could even be called that.

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u/GreenDiver09 — 7 days ago

Update on last post-she’s flirting with me(?

I went in this bookstore I’ve never been in bc I wanted to check it out and she was in the back working on her computer, in the moment I wasn’t sure but I got that “tingle” feeling even from 20 feet away. I almost said hi but then left bc I was getting lunch w/ some friends, then I went back up after to buy a book and she came over (I could clearly see it was her now) i was looking at the classics (Holmes, moby dick, 20k leagues, etc.) and she started playing what I can only describe as “eye tag” while “looking” at books, we sort of “chased” each other for about two minutes then we locked eyes and she asked if I was the guy from the restaurant to which I responded yes to, end then we talked for I think around 15 minutes, she asked me about age, where I live, if I work, what I do, and then I asked her some things too. Along the whole interaction she was trying to look like she was looking at books but I don’t even think she looked at the titles half the time and she would just pull them out halfway just to push them back in, also she pulled the same book once or twice. The interaction was cut short when she had a phone call and had to go somewhere, the last thing she said to me was “please don’t die out there, yeah?”. she never told me anything about meeting up or anything and idk what to do? should I go back to the cafe and try and say hi now we’re acquainted? i still don’t know her shifts besides on sunday and I only have one more week (meaning one more Sunda, before I’m out of town for a month. I really got no clue what to do and frank im quite flabbergasted bc this is the first tome any woman has shown even a bit of attraction if it could even be called that.

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u/GreenDiver09 — 7 days ago

Update on last post-she’s flirting with me(?)

I went in this bookstore I’ve never been in bc I wanted to check it out and she was in the back working on her computer, in the moment I wasn’t sure but I got that “tingle” feeling even from 20 feet away. I almost said hi but then left bc I was getting lunch w/ some friends, then I went back up after to buy a book and she came over (I could clearly see it was her now) i was looking at the classics (Holmes, moby dick, 20k leagues, etc.) and she started playing what I can only describe as “eye tag” while “looking” at books, we sort of “chased” each other for about two minutes then we locked eyes and she asked if I was the guy from the restaurant to which I responded yes to, end then we talked for I think around 15 minutes, she asked me about age, where I live, if I work, what I do, and then I asked her some things too. Along the whole interaction she was trying to look like she was looking at books but I don’t even think she looked at the titles half the time and she would just pull them out halfway just to push them back in, also she pulled the same book once or twice. The interaction was cut short when she had a phone call and had to go somewhere, the last thing she said to me was “please don’t die out there, yeah?”. she never told me anything about meeting up or anything and idk what to do? should I go back to the cafe and try and say hi now we’re acquainted? i still don’t know her shifts besides on sunday and I only have one more week (meaning one more Sunda, before I’m out of town for a month. I really got no clue what to do and frank im quite flabbergasted bc this is the first tome any woman has shown even a bit of attraction if it could even be called that.

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u/GreenDiver09 — 7 days ago

Update on last post-she’s flirting now(?)

I went in this bookstore I’ve never been in bc I wanted to check it out and she was in the back working on her computer, in the moment I wasn’t sure but I got that “tingle” feeling even from 20 feet away. I almost said hi but then left bc I was getting lunch w/ some friends, then I went back up after to buy a book and she came over (I could clearly see it was her now) i was looking at the classics (Holmes, moby dick, 20k leagues, etc.) and she started playing what I can only describe as “eye tag” while “looking” at books, we sort of “chased” each other for about two minutes then we locked eyes and she asked if I was the guy from the restaurant to which I responded yes to, end then we talked for I think around 15 minutes, she asked me about age, where I live, if I work, what I do, and then I asked her some things too. Along the whole interaction she was trying to look like she was looking at books but I don’t even think she looked at the titles half the time and she would just pull them out halfway just to push them back in, also she pulled the same book once or twice. The interaction was cut short when she had a phone call and had to go somewhere, the last thing she said to me was “please don’t die out there, yeah?”. she never told me anything about meeting up or anything and idk what to do? should I go back to the cafe and try and say hi now we’re acquainted? i still don’t know her shifts besides on sunday and I only have one more week (meaning one more Sunda, before I’m out of town for a month. I really got no clue what to do and frank im quite flabbergasted bc this is the first tome any woman has shown even a bit of attraction if it could even be called that.

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u/GreenDiver09 — 7 days ago

Update on last post-she’s flirting now(?)

I went in this bookstore I’ve never been in bc I wanted to check it out and she was in the back working on her computer, in the moment I wasn’t sure but I got that “tingle” feeling even from 20 feet away. I almost said hi but then left bc I was getting lunch w/ some friends, then I went back up after to buy a book and she came over (I could clearly see it was her now) i was looking at the classics (Holmes, moby dick, 20k leagues, etc.) and she started playing what I can only describe as “eye tag” while “looking” at books, we sort of “chased” each other for about two minutes then we locked eyes and she asked if I was the guy from the restaurant to which I responded yes to, end then we talked for I think around 15 minutes, she asked me about age, where I live, if I work, what I do, and then I asked her some things too. Along the whole interaction she was trying to look like she was looking at books but I don’t even think she looked at the titles half the time and she would just pull them out halfway just to push them back in, also she pulled the same book once or twice. The interaction was cut short when she had a phone call and had to go somewhere, the last thing she said to me was “please don’t die out there, yeah?”. she never told me anything about meeting up or anything and idk what to do? should I go back to the cafe and try and say hi now we’re acquainted? i still don’t know her shifts besides on sunday and I only have one more week (meaning one more Sunda, before I’m out of town for a month. I really got no clue what to do and frank im quite flabbergasted bc this is the first tome any woman has shown even a bit of attraction if it could even be called that.

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u/GreenDiver09 — 7 days ago

Update on last post-she’s flirting now(?)

I went in this bookstore I’ve never been in bc I wanted to check it out and she was in the back working on her computer, in the moment I wasn’t sure but I got that “tingle” feeling even from 20 feet away. I almost said hi but then left bc I was getting lunch w/ some friends, then I went back up after to buy a book and she came over (I could clearly see it was her now) i was looking at the classics (Holmes, moby dick, 20k leagues, etc.) and she started playing what I can only describe as “eye tag” while “looking” at books, we sort of “chased” each other for about two minutes then we locked eyes and she asked if I was the guy from the restaurant to which I responded yes to, end then we talked for I think around 15 minutes, she asked me about age, where I live, if I work, what I do, and then I asked her some things too. Along the whole interaction she was trying to look like she was looking at books but I don’t even think she looked at the titles half the time and she would just pull them out halfway just to push them back in, also she pulled the same book once or twice. The interaction was cut short when she had a phone call and had to go somewhere, the last thing she said to me was “please don’t die out there, yeah?”. she never told me anything about meeting up or anything and idk what to do? should I go back to the cafe and try and say hi now we’re acquainted? i still don’t know her shifts besides on sunday and I only have one more week (meaning one more Sunda, before I’m out of town for a month. I really got no clue what to do and frank im quite flabbergasted bc this is the first tome any woman has shown even a bit of attraction if it could even be called that.

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u/GreenDiver09 — 7 days ago

Continuing my first post- she’s flirting W/ me(?)

I went in this bookstore I’ve never been in bc I wanted to check it out and she was in the back working on her computer, in the moment I wasn’t sure but I got that “tingle” feeling even from 20 feet away. I almost said hi but then left bc I was getting lunch w/ some friends, then I went back up after to buy a book and she came over (I could clearly see it was her now) i was looking at the classics (Holmes, moby dick, 20k leagues, etc.) and she started playing what I can only describe as “eye tag” while “looking” at books, we sort of “chased” each other for about two minutes then we locked eyes and she asked if I was the guy from the restaurant to which I responded yes to, end then we talked for I think around 15 minutes, she asked me about age, where I live, if I work, what I do, and then I asked her some things too. Along the whole interaction she was trying to look like she was looking at books but I don’t even think she looked at the titles half the time and she would just pull them out halfway just to push them back in, also she pulled the same book once or twice. The interaction was cut short when she had a phone call and had to go somewhere, the last thing she said to me was “please don’t die out there, yeah?”. she never told me anything about meeting up or anything and idk what to do? should I go back to the cafe and try and say hi now we’re acquainted? i still don’t know her shifts besides on sunday and I only have one more week (meaning one more Sunda, before I’m out of town for a month. I really got no clue what to do and frank im quite flabbergasted bc this is the first tome any woman has shown even a bit of attraction if it could even be called that.

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u/GreenDiver09 — 7 days ago