u/Junior-Daikon9849

ADHD symptoms are worse from mid 20s

so I was an academic and but my ADHD has worsened since mid 20 and I cannot focus and be consistent with things. I cannot just focus . I just rush off to do things that give me thrill and dopamine, and I have been facing this cycle of postponing one exam that I need and I keep on thinking that next 2-3 months would be enough, but then the same cycle happens and up doing very little preparation in the next 2-3 months as the exam is adjustable, I keep on postponing it. I don’t know what to do. How do I stop it ?

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u/Junior-Daikon9849 — 8 days ago

Where do u see if you’re eligible for healthcare category?

so I recently made my file for express entry and when I open it, it on the eligibility part, it shows eligible for FSW. My question is I can’t see any eligibility point or any approval that it is eligible for healthcare category. Is it mentioned also in your profile. Does it come like that to anyone that has applied under healthcare category? Please guide me on this.

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u/Junior-Daikon9849 — 10 days ago

at this point, I am so so he doesn’t even do half of the work that he needs He kind of wants that everything be me like even just for five minutes if I am free for some reason, something happens to him and he deliberately pushes work towards me for no reason at all. I mean, I don’t know what is wrong with him. He thinks that I don’t work at all or something like I am doing 4 as him. I even sometimes don’t complain if the work that he needs to do you know me, but this is getting too much out of hand like for one second, even if he sees that you know, I am breathing with no work. He’ll just push off things to me.

And I am an introvert, I do not you know, go and talk a lot around. So obviously like I see that with male colleagues of my age, he is quite frank at you know doesn’t say anything to that guy, but with me, I don’t know what is wrong with him.

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u/Junior-Daikon9849 — 16 days ago

so she is very caring and kind of drink. Her being a medical student, she has seen a lot of cases that person because of alcohol, and as we all know that people have this myth that drinking a bit won’t do you any harm, but it’s not so. So her boyfriend kind of says that he just drinks a little bit, sometimes here and there, but it’s like he hangs out with his friends, drinking almost 2-3 or more times a month.

I mean, people can always make better choices. They can say that they won’t prefer drinking alcohol, but any other stuff. Even red wine in a moderate amount is fine with her because somewhat red wine is kind of a healthier thing which provides you with antioxidants, but the thing is her boyfriend, did not listen to her, and told that she is obsessively controlling.

This thing hurt her a lot, I mean, she was just trying to look out for him. She did not want him to be unhealthy or face problems that she sees daily in her day-to-day life at hospitals, family breaking apart people dying in families and other people having to suffer and everything.

She just wanted him to be healthy and did not want to suffer losing him.

are controlling, you can’t see me happy you just want to control my life. I am not drinking every day. I’m just drinking sometimes with friends.

And gaslighting, saying that is necessary for stress for men and everything

she is very, I don’t know To even say that guy told him that he would break up with her if she keeps on telling him not to drink.

He termed her as very controlling, and apparently blocked her because she was repeatedly telling him not to drink anymore.

I don’t know what to tell to her at this point.

what do you guys think? What should she do? She just feels hurt and won’t stop crying because to her. It feels like she only wanted good things for him, and did not want to lose him to anything at instead that guy couldn’t even let poison for her.

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u/Junior-Daikon9849 — 22 days ago