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In the episode when Diana Jenkins is asked about the book, it cuts to Lisa's picture in there and she says how it's a sexy book this and that. She sounds proud of it.

Lisa has been in Hollywood for a long time. She obviously knows about the dark sides and seeing how she seems to do anything for some money... I wonder about her and how involved she is in these dark things....

Childhood abuse does tend to create addiction issues to help with coping with the pain. Kim was HURTING no doubt and there's lots in there in various ways. But seeing that she was also a child star in that same scenario we hear about many suffering abuse in different ways... I can't help but wonder what this poor woman has been through.

I hope she's well and continues to stay strong and focuses on the love in her life 💗

I plan to now become a RHONY fan finally all because of Luann. She really is the "cool girl" you know? Not uncool at all 😂

This is obviously a big issue in Victoria, some parts more than others.

Despite using all the deterrents, do you still struggle with them?

My husband walked in at that moment and said "why is she vibrating" 🤣

Do people actually like watching Vicki? She was the reason I couldn't get into OC and now she's the reason I'm thinking not to watch the rest of this show. She's a full on maniac and incredibly hard to listen to/watch/anything. Why is she on my screen? What am I missing?

I think about how different I am now vs before I began my healing journey. The understanding, patience and empathy I have now naturally leads to making better decisions in life for myself and others.

For example, how a unhealed boss vs a healed boss will make decisions for their employees. How someone will parent their children. This trickle down effect goes into bigger places and feels like the chain reaction to our society and pain. Hurt people continuing to hurt people.

Healing could be the answer to fixing everything. Create a healing chain reaction.

In the past year I've had and continue to have a variety of situations happen to remove people in my life. I continue to feel like the dead leaves shedding situation. Anyone else?

I have a sister in law that is identical to Kyle in almost every way. All sisters herself, all daughters, cheating husband, insecurities, tumultuous childhood, addict sister, etc.

It's actually insane how similar they are and with that comes the fun politics of having someone like that in my life. How would you manage a relationship with someone like her?

We are in a situation where we have to move to the other side of the country for work. It's an amazing city, I lived there for a good chunk of time during university and after. I know life will open amazing doors for us there and all but I'm really struggling to leave extended family despite not even being overly close to them.

But I think I was attached to the idea of my kids growing up with their cousins but they have huge age gaps and likely wouldn't be that close anyways. This idea of stopping by grandparents house for dinner, or having cousins over on weekends, etc is stuck in my head because it's not like that anyways!

I'm stuck in this loop of thoughts and really struggling to accept this move. It feels very life changing. Any help would be appreciated. Thank you.