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So I'm very bad at managing my workers or employees,like i am not able to order them, scold them,and I'm super sarcastic,kind and also respectful to them

The thing is bcz of me being like this they get out of hand,they stop respecting me more and stop giving value to my orders

I'm like this bcz i don't feel okay and sensible to act arrogant and bossy with them without any reason,yeah if they do something wrong then i should act bossy but not without any reason,and another thing is I'm kind so I'm not able to scold them that way

I know if I start acting bossy kind of arrogant,keep a distance with them,scold them on small things,amd act a little bit rude, they are going to act like the best workers, but that's just not in me

So How can I change myself,and should i even change,and what things are needed to be changed?

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So I'm very bad at managing my workers or employees,like i am not able to order them, scold them,and I'm super sarcastic,kind and also respectful to them

The thing is bcz of me being like this they get out of hand,they stop respecting me more and stop giving value to my orders

I'm like this bcz i don't feel okay and sensible to act arrogant and bossy with them without any reason,yeah if they do something wrong then i should act bossy but not without any reason,and another thing is I'm kind so I'm not able to scold them that way

I know if I start acting bossy kind of arrogant,keep a distance with them,scold them on small things,amd act a little bit rude, they are going to act like the best workers, but that's just not in me

So How can I change myself,and should i even change,and what things are needed to be changed?

So I'm very bad at managing my workers or employees,like i am not able to order them, scold them,and I'm super sarcastic,kind and also respectful to them

The thing is bcz of me being like this they get out of hand,they stop respecting me more and stop giving value to my orders

I'm like this bcz i don't feel okay and sensible to act arrogant and bossy with them without any reason,yeah if they do something wrong then i should act bossy but not without any reason,and another thing is I'm kind so I'm not able to scold them that way

I know if I start acting bossy kind of arrogant,keep a distance with them,scold them on small things,amd act a little bit rude, they are going to act like the best workers, but that's just not in me

So How can I change myself,and should i even change,and what things are needed to be changed?

So I'm very bad at managing my workers or employees,like i am not able to order them, scold them,and I'm super sarcastic,kind and also respectful to them

The thing is bcz of me being like this they get out of hand,they stop respecting me more and stop giving value to my orders

I'm like this bcz i don't feel okay and sensible to act arrogant and bossy with them without any reason,yeah if they do something wrong then i should act bossy but not without any reason,and another thing is I'm kind so I'm not able to scold them that way

I know if I start acting bossy kind of arrogant,keep a distance with them,scold them on small things,amd act a little bit rude, they are going to act like the best workers, but that's just not in me

So How can I change myself,and should i even change,and what things are needed to be changed?

For me, i went swimming, then I went to the padel court but didn't play,then i went to doubleshot,phir udher se i went to charsi tikka and had some Afghan food,after that i tried velo for the first time in my life and kind of got high lol

Phir just went to the liberty roundabout at around 2 am

Although I'm not a nationalist or patriot but that was how I spent my time,wbu how did you spend it?

15 ki age keh baad maro na, bache ko kyun marte ho

15 ki age keh baad woh bhi apko sahi lesson dega agar apne usko wrongfully mara toh

Guys i just realised baloch people did the right thing when they started hating punjabis instead of the army

It's right bcz the people of punjab can never ever go against the army (no matter how much they say that we don't like army)and also can never question the existence of Pakistan,so baloch people were sensible they started hating the civilian punjabis along with the army bcz they realised this truth that asal fasaad ki jarh is this civilian punjabi not the army itself or the politicians

And the people of kpk were fools they kept hating only the army but didn't hate the people of punjab and the result is in front of your eyes that they have very less resistance on ethnic bases if compared to baloch people

Disclaimer:i no where said that what they do is right,i just said they did the right thing from their pov,and I'm myself a Punjabi

So guys i need a gym partner in lahore model town c block matrix gym, I'm a 22M so i would prefer males but if some girl wanna join she can join too, preferable timing:7-11pm, preferable age:19-25,

And mods plz don't remove my post it's about lahore

(read the complete post otherwise don't)So I'm gonna share my religious views,my political views,my views about society,and my views on myself,so i wanna know do you think that i need therapy or am I a legend?

So the purpose of my life is to establish islamic socialist system, I want to establish the khilafah and Shari'a law(the real version not the molvis version) but I would govern the system by socialism as we don't find any complete laws in islam,and i want to establish it either by hook or either by crook,even armed warfare if needed,and i want to establish justice in the world

I consider mutah,nabidh alcohol,non sexual, music as halal,and i think whatever a girl wears it's between her and Allah we can't enforce anything

I consider jinnah to be a British agent and the biggest enemy of the Muslims,and i consider Pakistan to be created by the Britishers for British interests

I support pashtun and baloch against the state,even their armed warfare

My biggest flex is that I'm a descendant of prophet pbuh,and i do judge people by their casts and lineages a lot

I consider 98 percent people on earth as "ghatya and neech",and i consider myself better than them

I consider myself a king!

The most courageous thing I've ever done is that I've escaped from a prison, although not a real prison but kind of a prison

And I used to run my own gang at the age of 15,and i was 14 when I brought my first unlicensed gun to my house,even without my parents getting to know about it

I tried hash(chars) at the age of 15 for the first time,at the age of 17 i made my dad waste 4 alcohol bottles in the sink,worth around half million pkr at that time

I want to name my son as Akbar,sultan,jalaluddin..and daughters as hoorain and malaika

I was a strong supporter of polygamy but rn reviewing my thought process

I hate shareef people,who like to mind their own business and like to spend a peaceful life

I hate mentally inferior and mentally poor people the most,like the mostt,like i get a vomit even by sitting with them

The biggest inspiration of my life is NAWAB AKBAR BUGTI SHAHEED

Sahil adeem is amongst the people i love alot

My favourite quote is: "What's better than taking your enemy's woman to your bed" ofc forcefully

The important thing in my life for me is my Masculinity and my dignity

According to me the job of a woman is to make kids and make food

So do I need therapy or am I a legend, what do you think?

So 15 minutes ago i went to the kitchen opened the freezer and found 3 full packs of bounty chocolates in it that my sister brought from ksa

I just wished kuch sweet perha ho and i found these,woh bhi it's been 10 years since i ate bounty, I'm happy rn

So my sister shouts a lot at her 15 year old maid,the maid that takes care of my sisters 1yo daughter, whenever she comes to my house she shouts at her very badly and scolds her that even mein bhi darr jata hun,and I don't feel okay her shouting on a 15yo child

So should i talk with her? And in what tone should I talk,and how should I talk?

It's been 4 years since we talked,and tbh since the last 4 years not even a single day passed when I didn't cry for her,we both were 19 at that time and now we both are 23

Although i ended up with her, bcz of my Masculinity and my sigma attitude that idgaf to girls, but I regret it,i really regret it!

I'm not gonna wish her bcz of my self respect,i wished her last time and didn't get any response from her side,bcz i broke her heart and ended up with her,i was the first person in her life whom she shared her everything with (like all her secrets) amd trusted me but I broke her heart

Tbh rn I am listening to this song pehle bhi mein and my eyes have tears and i was thinking about her lol

I wish her all the best,and i pray to Allah that all her wishes of this world and the next becomes true!

I miss you hoorain,not in this life but next life mein milenge insha'Allah!

Mf mere hi time pe yah business loss hona tha,now I can't even marry a girl of my choice,bcz the type of girls i like are fair,gym lean,rich baddies and those girls like rich big business owners,and humara loss hi tab hua jab mera time tha, doing business in Pakistan is literally a curse, every 5 years bad policies change hojati hn totally

Alhamdulilah I'm still rich enough, but it's not like before

I wish our hospital was still running and was successful,so mein marriage toh apni preference ki lerki se ker pata,a girl of my standard,i wish🥲

Do uber super rich people live in very large houses in the outskirts or suburbs of lahore, I'm not talking about having a farmhouse but living there 24/7,and I'm talking about Houses larger than 30 kanals

If yes, how common is it? like idk anyone from my circle living in large houses in the outskirts or suburbs of the city

Btw I'm talking about houses like jati umra and bilawal house in bahria town or khokhar palace or like imran khan bani gala House in isb, is it even beneficial in daily routine as it takes more than 40-50 minutes reaching in the centre of the city, is it getting common amongst the uber rich people?and how common is it?

Do super rich people live in farmhouses or very large houses in the outskirts or suburbs of lahore, I'm not talking about having a farmhouse but living there 24/7,and I'm talking about Houses larger than 30 kanals

If yes, how common is it? like idk anyone from my circle living in large houses in the outskirts or suburbs of the city

Btw I'm talking about houses like jati umra and bilawal house in bahria town, is it even beneficial in daily routine as it takes more than 40-50 minutes reaching in the centre of the city,and how common is it?

Idk why do desi parents are that much reserved and never talk about this,tbh 9/10 kids become p\*rn addict nowadays before the age of 14,and many kids try to explore things they even try to get real physical experiences out of their curiosity,and many times it's unprotected and etc

So all the blame goes on the parents,that they didn't educate their kids!