u/Patient-Reality-8965

No discord, no insta. No one talks to me. No one messages me. Couldn't even pay someone to pretend.

Every time I picture mine I just think I'll end up crying or finish too fast and then cry

Her aging sped up in limbo until she was a teenager, then she got reverted back to a small child, then died... then came back and aged back up... how old really is this woman? Is this a Magneto situation where however old she looks shes technically double that?

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Bout negative generalizing. I don't like doing it and I don't like it in general. When its about gender, I see it as sexism. Race, I see it as racist. About LGBT, I see it as biggoted

And I was talking to this woman and she starts venting about men. Then goes, mid rant, "all men hate women. You probably hate women" and I'm just like... I don't. She notices I'm a little uncomfortable and I briefly tell about some trauma I had with women around me growing up constantly assuming I and every male kid around me was horrible or going to grow up to be horrible and treating me like I was already some kind of murdering rapist while also ironically not keeping their hands to themselves and it just felt like I was there again. She understood and basically apologized and said she'd lay off the random generalizing. I have to state she brought it up in a match of Marvel Rivals. It was just a random thing she said after seeing one toxic person in the chat who didn't even bring up gender.

Way later on, shes having a bad mood and I'm trying to offer a bunch of topics I know shes interested in and likes to talk about. She doesn't take and later says "I just think its funny how you're offended when women generalize men" and it came just as out of nowhere as that. Never mentioned gender or generalizing and back in the first instance, never even said I was offended but "uncomfortable" for reasons I gave. I don't think generalizing is okay at all. But she kept trying to frame it as me being sexist. She then says a few insults, apologizes later, and I have to tell her that wasnt okay with her bringing something up from months ago with text proof of the exact words said and deliberately twisting everything I said to be hatred even when i said I dont hate women. Despite MY repeated awful experience with the opposite gender, I don't hate or generalize.

She then REALLY tried to pin me with saying Id be "offended" at women generalizing and discussing experiences amongst themselves when I explicitly said I didn't mind that. It's when you do it around me or when a guy shows up and the first thing you do is poke fun at then for being in the talked about group. Then another bewildering try with her going "so I can just say 'fuck all women'" which naturally got a "what are you talking about and where are you even getting this from?" I rarely swear or ever insult anyone out of the blue unless they start first and never put a group under a negative umbrella. She got this because I like a Resident Evil running gag of series quip-man going "heh. Women." And said it was the same thing. She knew i found this gag funny. Only now is it a problem. And another attempt being "you always say the women in games are hard to beat" cause in the games I played, they are. I thought it was funny to go "women are scary" whenever I die to the tougher female enemies and it was the opposite of hating women if anything but no ig. Tell her to flip the genders and she goes "well it's different" and you get the idea. She keeps pushing for a full hour that I must be sexist because I am uncomfo- I mean offended and seethe apparently at the thought of generalizing men specifically. Even though I said I didn't like any kind regardless of group.

After weeks of her "thinking about it" because empathy is learned skill ig, she comes back to say "I don't have anything to think about and nothing to apologize for. Sorry that happened but you should get over it. Get therapy and help"

The most stupid thing I seen. And the dumbest end to what I thought was a 6 month friendship

Was talking to this woman and she starts venting about men. Then goes, mid rant, "all men hate women. You probably hate women" and I'm just like... I don't. She notices I'm a little uncomfortable and I briefly tell about some trauma I had with women around me growing up constantly assuming I and every male kid around me was horrible or going to grow up to be horrible and treating me like I was already some kind of murdering rapist while also ironically not keeping their hands to themselves and it just felt like I was there again. She understood and basically apologized and said she'd lay off the random generalizing. I have to state she brought it up in a match of Marvel Rivals. It was just a random thing she said after seeing one toxic person in the chat who didn't even bring up gender.

Way later on, shes having a bad mood and I'm trying to offer a bunch of topics I know shes interested in and likes to talk about. She doesn't take and later says "I just think its funny how you're offended when women generalize men" and it came just as out of nowhere as that. Never mentioned gender or generalizing and back in the first instance, never even said I was offended but "uncomfortable" for reasons I gave. I don't think generalizing is okay at all. But she kept trying to frame it as me being sexist. She then says a few insults, apologizes later, and I have to tell her that wasnt okay with her bringing something up from months ago with text proof of the exact words said and deliberately twisting everything I said to be hatred even when i said I dont hate women. Despite MY repeated awful experience with the opposite gender, I don't hate or generalize.

She then REALLY tried to pin me with saying Id be "offended" at women generalizing and discussing experiences amongst themselves when I explicitly said I didn't mind that. It's when you do it around me or when a guy shows up and the first thing you do is poke fun at then for being in the talked about group. Then another bewildering try with her going "so I can just say 'fuck all women'" which naturally got a "what are you talking about and where are you even getting this from?" I rarely swear or ever insult anyone out of the blue unless they start first and never put a group under a negative umbrella. She got this because I like a Resident Evil running gag of series quip-man going "heh. Women." And said it was the same thing. She knew i found this gag funny. Only now is it a problem. And another attempt being "you always say the women in games are hard to beat" cause in the games I played, they are. I thought it was funny to go "women are scary" whenever I die to the tougher female enemies and it was the opposite of hating women if anything but no ig. Tell her to flip the genders and she goes "well it's different" and you get the idea. She keeps pushing for a full hour that I must be sexist because I am uncomfo- I mean offended and seethe apparently at the thought of generalizing men specifically. Even though I said I didn't like any kind regardless of group.

After weeks of her "thinking about it" because empathy is learned skill ig, she comes back to say "I don't have anything to think about and nothing to apologize for. Sorry that happened but you should get over it. Get therapy and help"

The most stupid thing I seen. And the dumbest end to what I thought was a 6 month friendship

I don't have any friends, everyone ghosts me, no one talks to me,

Mainly just want some friends with similar interests