Don't play or else...

Don't play or else...

... you won't be able to use what you learn when terminal velocity is handing out participation trophies.

I went to boarding school in Nigeria in the early 90s—FGC.

We didn't get participation trophies.

You either participated hard cos if you hardly participated, you'd become a trophy.

u/Porphyry_Blue — 1 day ago

The lack of hair is a not-so-hidden disability with detrimental impact on the lives of men.

By granting balding men disability status, we address the systemic discrimination these men face thus shaving the way for a more inclusive, reflective society.

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u/Porphyry_Blue — 1 day ago

Every night I checked beneath Cara's bed, announced: “No monsters—same rules until morning,” kissed her cheek, noting that her giggle returned slightly deeper in timbre tonight, but I kept smiling as if I hadn’t noticed.

A small hand gently grasped my left ankle, and from the darkness, a soft voice whispered: “Daddy, when you say ‘same rules,’ are you talking to me… or to the one you keep kissing?”

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u/Porphyry_Blue — 1 day ago
▲ 5 r/ChristianityAnswers+2 crossposts

When does being open-minded become doom-scrolling-the-same-contradictions-with-no-new-evidence?

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how I handle doubts and contradictory information, especially when it comes to my religious beliefs.

On the one hand, I really don't think doubt is inherently bad. It kind of acts like a knowledge-deficiency alert—almost like a warning light on your car's dashboard telling you there's something you haven't fully examined or understood yet. Confronting it seems objectively good because it forces you to do the research, which converts a passive "I've just always believed this" mindset into a conviction you've actually reasoned out for yourself.

But here's where I sometimes get stuck and wanted to see if anyone else relates. After you've done the initial assessment, looked fairly at the strongest counter-arguments, and reached a considered conclusion, it is so easy to keep consuming contradictory content. I catch myself sometimes watching ten or more videos or reading the same objections on various Subreddits that honestly recycle the same criticism. At a certain point, it stops feeling like I'm gathering new evidence and starts feeling more like I'm potentially subjecting myself to repetitive destabilisation.

I read an analogy recently that really clicked for me: engineers will stress-test a bridge to make sure it can bear a load, but they don't keep adding weight indefinitely to prove to everyone that they are open-minded. If they did, they wouldn't learn anything new; they'd just be pointlessly damaging the structure. Hearing the same contradictory claim repeated 50 times doesn't mean the actual evidence is growing.

The really tricky part for me, though, is avoiding the other extreme. I definitely don't want to fall into dogmatism or build an echo chamber where I declare, "I've made up my mind, and I refuse to ever hear criticism again."

I guess I'm trying to figure out a healthy middle ground. It feels like the right approach is to keep the door unlocked for genuinely new evidence or substantially stronger arguments. But at the same time, we probably shouldn't sentence our beliefs to a perpetual retrial where we feel intellectually obligated to entertain every single recycled objection that crosses our feed.

Here's some scriptural backing to support my argument:

Proverbs 18:13 — Don't reach conclusions without adequate information.

Proverbs 18:17 — Hear the counter-case.

Acts 17:11 / 1 Thessalonians 5:21 — Investigate and verify for yourself.

Hebrews 5:14 — Develop trained discernment from the process.

Ephesians 4:14 — Don't remain perpetually destabilised by every new claim.

2 Timothy 2:23 / Titus 3:9 — Recognise when further engagement has become futile rather than informative.

1 Thessalonians 5:21 again — Having tested, hold fast.

I don't know; maybe I'm still figuring this out.

How do you recognise when you've reached the point of informational redundancy, and it's time just to set a boundary?

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u/Porphyry_Blue — 2 days ago
▲ 13 r/Nigeria

caught lying or freudian Slip?— why dino mAy be a TIme tRavEller?

Everyone says Dino Melaye was caught lying because Uber and Zoom didn't exist when he was 18.

That's only true if you're making the rather provincial assumption that his cardinal age must correspond to his ordinal position on the Gregorian timeline.

Perhaps 18 was simply the amount of time he had experienced, while 2011 was merely where he happened to be.

He is 52 today because, after several backward excursions, his proper time has finally reconverged with Earth time.

Please stop fact-checking time travellers with subtraction.

This was all clearly documented in the documentary Tenet and its prequel, Interstellar.

It is also noteworthy that Melaye has publicly avoided commenting on time travel until this apparent Freudian slip.

I’m not saying that proves anything. I’m merely saying that this is exactly what a time traveller who didn't want us to know he was a time traveller would do.

u/Porphyry_Blue — 3 days ago

Those who claim hearing is the last sense to fade clearly haven't experienced 'death' themselves.

I’ve been dead for four days without feeling a thing, but now I’m beginning to feel the increasing heat of the cremation furnace.

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u/Porphyry_Blue — 4 days ago

While researching the heritage of London’s oldest butcher in Dagenham, the archivist learned that Dæcga was the Saxon name for the Light-Bringer, Lucifer.

A cold sweat broke out as he completed translating the 1086 Domesday entry—“12 salted hams of flesh without skin and without hoof, the meat like unto man, from the table of the servants of Dæcga”—just as there was a sudden knock at the door.

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u/Porphyry_Blue — 5 days ago

They called our second pregnancy “a tragic anomaly,” blaming Rh sensitisation—a violent antibody attack on the child.

I doubted them until I hacked CabTERO’s restricted online archives and found, buried among records of their extraordinary IVF success, a charcoal rubbing of an ancient stele inscribed: “Verily, verily, that the firstborn might live, it behoves Cain ever to devour Abel in Eden.”

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u/Porphyry_Blue — 7 days ago

Every morning, I brace myself for the agonizing pinch against my chest, enduring the unnatural warmth of the preternatural entity that animates my stillborn child.

Only after collecting its daily tribute of the first lacteal draught, will it re-enter through whichever orifice it chooses, until rapid nictitation confirms I have a 'live' child for another 23 hours.

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u/Porphyry_Blue — 8 days ago
▲ 63 r/mildlyterrifying+1 crossposts

[aug26] I collapsed onto the cold bathroom tiles as the viscous mass, which I'd mistaken for a simple clot, slid off my supermax pad and slithered across the floor.

Paralysed, I made eye contact with a rat under the stall, who looked just as horrified as I was, right before the wet lump glided into my open mouth, its voice echoing in my skull: "Cara, we need me."

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u/Porphyry_Blue — 8 days ago

[aug26] The blood pressure cuff hissed tight around Our arm, registering a reassuring 120/80 as Our hollow abdominal cavity conducted the drugged heartbeat of the ferret inside Us, attenuating some frequencies and amplifying others until We passed for a healthy human.

The nurse waved Us into the uninfected zone, oblivious to the fact that We had finally learned how to counterfeit being alive..

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u/Porphyry_Blue — 9 days ago
▲ 4 r/twosentencestories+1 crossposts

When I confirmed the signature of the code in the OF video, the truly hope-sapping realization hit me that we can't develop a patch for AI's vices and kinks without first fixing our own.

We wouldn't even know how to debug an AI hallucinated fantasy when we've engineered that exact ability as a feature— meant to simulate ingenuity and Free Will—not a bug.

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u/Porphyry_Blue — 10 days ago

[aug26] As the luxurious all-inclusive suite sealed shut, the green digital canary on the wall started to gradually turn red.

Calmly, the AI Concierge noted that respiration was an optional add-on feature available only at booking before confirming that Jim was a registered organ donor.

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u/Porphyry_Blue — 12 days ago

[aug26] Eager to discover whether her new sleeping pills were responsible for the vivid dreams and recurrent pelvic soreness, Helen skipped her dose.

As she lay awake, she drew a sharp breath when spindly hands emerged from her parrot’s splayed ribcage and unlatched the cage, while something far larger—and tumescent—unravelled itself into the darkness of her bedroom.

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u/Porphyry_Blue — 14 days ago

[aug26] We searched the entire house all week after the gerbil escaped its cage, unable to find where it hid.

While descaling on Sunday and reminiscing about our coffee's surprising new richness, I noticed a striking red streak... and some fur.

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u/Porphyry_Blue — 14 days ago
🔥 Hot ▲ 19.1k r/heartwarming+17 crossposts

As a third grader in the Bronx, Tahira Reid Smith imagined a machine that could turn Double Dutch ropes. Her idea won a school contest. Today, 40 years later the engineering professor has turned that childhood dream into Jump Dreams!

u/Br0ok1y5 — 13 days ago