u/Puzzleheaded2734

I am a shell of who I was at the beginning. I’ve been the lead on the project the entire time. My team on the project has changed 3 times so I am the only one to retain continuity. Changed because the customer kept getting consultants removed and then because they didn’t have another project at the time, they were let go.
Management support has been non-existent. I can’t leave…if I did I would be abandoning the team and the project would NOT go live. I would feel too guilty to leave….but I have never been more miserable in my life.

Just looking for experience with the two doses given in the week before I go in. Recommended by psychiatrist due to my intense suicidal ideation and depression.

DX and unmedicated
I don’t feel I can actually say anything without it coming across as ‘telling them walk at to do’ when they are procrastinating. How do suggest they do something without triggering them?
I’ve started just letting things be or taking care of it myself because it’s easier…but there has to be a better way.

They have a show tonight and Coheed & Cambria is opening

All that’s left are the cruisers at this point for rental.

At end of rope with partner (DX and unmedicated) we can’t talk about anything, I can’t bring anything up without a fight and they won’t bring anything up and we are just pretending all is ok…

At end of rope with partner (DX and unmedicated) we can’t talk about anything, I can’t bring anything up without a fight and they won’t bring anything up and we are just pretending all is ok…

Anyone successfully create a custom tuning in the app? When I go to save, it says error.

Anyone successfully create a custom tuning in the app? When I go to save, it says error.

Due to some other issues, only able to submit application today. Any option for decent housing left?

It properly tells what planned work orders need to be created, but then trying to figure out what I can build is a challenge to say the least. I don’t want to schedule a work order if I don’t have the material to build. I also want to determine if I can partially build something. So I have demand for 25, but I have enough material to build 15, I do want to release so I can hikl partial. Just can’t see easily the buildable amounts without going to the separate suiteapp ‘available to build’ and looking one by one.

Partner (39f DX/unmedicated) hates questions. If I ask a question when she was unprepared for a question, often met with anger or frustration that I would dare ask it. Is this something that occurs for others? I kinda get it, mind is not prepared to think about the thing and asking a question is basically demanding her mind to shift into something she was unprepared for. But why should I feel scared to ask a question?

Unemployed for 8 years. Each year gets harder and harder. They have some mental health issues that get them in their head about putting themselves out there, but are functional. Also doesn’t seem to be putting in the effort to address those issues. Has a degree and very capable and intelligent. Does a lot of free work and volunteerism, but won’t help me…just everyone else. I can’t help but feel abandoned or like how hard this is for me is ignored. I never feel like it’s understood the pressure of this and even the betrayal of it as this was not how our life was agreed to be. I was left to be sole provider. Have one college aged child and paying for that is left to me as well or loans and I just feel like a horrible parent for not being able to provide the education my partner and I promised.

I dont cal them worthless or anything like that, but when I talk about how I need this from them and not seeing any effort, it hurts me. They get defensive or do the woe is me and shut down. I want to help them somehow. If I leave it alone for months to maybe give space…nothing. If I bring it up I’m a jerk.
Also each year they don’t work is a greater financial risk to me and greater financial gain for them. I look at them and can’t imagine being with anyone else. I’m attracted to them in a lot of ways more than most anyone else…but this has gotten so in the way of having a partnership and an intimate relationship…just feel so alone and depressed. Extremely depressed to the point my therapist was concerned for me…but what do I do??? I’m stuck.

Unemployed for 8 years. Each year gets harder and harder. They have some mental health issues that get them in their head about putting themselves out there, but are functional. Also doesn’t seem to be putting in the effort to address those issues. Has a degree and very capable and intelligent. Does a lot of free work and volunteerism, but won’t help me…just everyone else. I can’t help but feel abandoned or like how hard this is for me is ignored. I never feel like it’s understood the pressure of this and even the betrayal of it as this was not how our life was agreed to be. I was left to be sole provider. Have one college aged child and paying for that is left to me as well or loans and I just feel like a horrible parent for not being able to provide the education my partner and I promised.

I dont cal them worthless or anything like that, but when I talk about how I need this from them and not seeing any effort, it hurts me. They get defensive or do the woe is me and shut down. I want to help them somehow. If I leave it alone for months to maybe give space…nothing. If I bring it up I’m a jerk.
Also each year they don’t work is a greater financial risk to me and greater financial gain for them. I look at them and can’t imagine being with anyone else. I’m attracted to them in a lot of ways more than most anyone else…but this has gotten so in the way of having a partnership and an intimate relationship…just feel so alone and depressed. Extremely depressed to the point my therapist was concerned for me…but what do I do??? I’m stuck.

Unemployed for 8 years. Each year gets harder and harder. They have some mental health issues , biggest being adhd, that get them in their head about putting themselves out there, but are functional. Also doesn’t seem to be putting in the effort to address those issues. Has a degree and very capable and intelligent. Does a lot of free work and volunteerism, but won’t help me…just everyone else. I can’t help but feel abandoned or like how hard this is for me is ignored. I never feel like it’s understood the pressure of this and even the betrayal of it as this was not how our life was agreed to be. I was left to be sole provider. Have one college aged child and paying for that is left to me as well or loans and I just feel like a horrible parent for not being able to provide the education my partner and I promised.

I dont cal them worthless or anything like that, but when I talk about how I need this from them and not seeing any effort, it hurts me. They get defensive or do the woe is me and shut down. I want to help them somehow. If I leave it alone for months to maybe give space…nothing. If I bring it up I’m a jerk.
Also each year they don’t work is a greater financial risk to me and greater financial gain for them. I look at them and can’t imagine being with anyone else. I’m attracted to them in a lot of ways more than most anyone else…but this has gotten so in the way of having a partnership and an intimate relationship…just feel so alone and depressed. Extremely depressed to the point my therapist was concerned for me…but what do I do??? I’m stuck.

No savings to pay for college, so monthly tuition payments or student loans required. I had to pay for it somehow and really cut our budget back to figure it out…and even then I don’t see it. Bear the weight of being responsible for it. Just feels like a reasonable option both for kid and us financially. Other options is community college for same all in price basically and loses the opportunity for all of the connection and organizations they can be a part of. They would also have to commute 2-3 days an hour+ for community college.