16m going out with a girl for a first time. How does all of this even work??
Imma keep this quick.
I just turned 16 this week.
I don't exactly struggle with girls, i've actually had a decent amount of times where i could've went out with one/even got asked out by a girl but i'm such a pussy i never went.
So my friend set me up with this girl cus he showed her a pic of me and she liked me so she dm'd me on instagram and i dont want to let this guy down so i'm basically forced to go out with her. Because at first i was like yeah thanks man i'll get to know her but now i'm kinda realizing i fucked up.
there's a problem, i never actually went out with a girl. I dont know what to do. I'm dead scared of running out of things to say, i don't know how people kiss like how tf does that work because everyone tells me "it comes natural to you in the moment" but i doubt that and fucking that up could be so embarassing.
I'm contemplating remaining a pussy still and faking being sick or going and risking it.
It's inevitable for it to happen at one point, but it's on wednesday and today is Sunday.
I'm stressing my ass off right now omfg.
PLEASE HELP.
edit: thanks for all of these replies. I want to clarify that i have some very close female friends but i see them as dudes. Like i talk to them as if they were guys. But i've never actually went out on my own with a potential partner. Thats what scares me, i dont even like this girl that much i mean maybe once i get to know her ill like her more but idk man im js anxious and being myself means saying some stupid ass shit sometimes and idk.
edit 2: Aw hell nah she wants to call tonight i'm scared shitless please why did this have to happen to me life was so good when i didnt have to go this much out of my comfort zone