u/Rokosbasilisk3000

So this is kind of a weird story and im prolly not in the right ngl.

it happened last week.

So i'm from italy, 16m and i was at the beach with a friend of mine yesterday. We found this spot which was on rocks and the nearest people were like 20 meters away.

So we start picking up heavy ass rocks and js throwing them in the water (which was pretty deep) cus it was kinda fun and at the same time coincidentally some girls our age start taking pictures next to us. So we went up to them cus they were kinda cute and like 20s into the convo this middle aged lady comes up to me with a phone filming in my face screaming at me saying she just called the cops on us.

In the moment it was kind of funny so i started laughing in her face cus it was kind or ridiculous imo, i think it got her more upset.

Right after this a cop car pulled up to the beach and my first thought was "ah fuck i just got cockblocked by this old lady". I look at my friend and we instantly know what to do, run the fuck away. So we start running into the like woode/thick forest area and 2 of the cops started chasing us on foot.

They chased us into the woods and when we got out another cop car was waiting for us. We both had bright green swimming trunks so we were easily recognizable.

they were still following us so we jumped a fence and got into this grape field and we ran to his house and waited out our wanted level on some gta type shit.

I first watched it all when i was 12 in like 3 months, i'm rewatching it now at 16 and wow its so good there are so many awesome characters and so much lore and depth.

No other anime even comes close.

So like ive been going gym for like 1.6 years i'm 16 185cm tall and like 74kg. which ive honestly kinda stalled on gaining weight which sucks but ive gotten strongwr anyways so its fine.

I always used straps for lat pulldowns etc so i thought my grip strenght was ass, when i started training these i was doing like 1min15s bw deadhang.

I did these 2x a week with some breaks ig.

I started with 10kg x 40s my first session, then i tried 20kg next time and i also got 40s, so i did 22.5kg the time after and got 40s again.

I went to do 30kg x 35s like after 2 weeks of training, and after 3 weeks like 40kg x 30s. Then i stoppes for like a month and came back and did 40kg x 35s again, the session after i did 50kg x 30s, then 1 week later did 55kg x 24s.

Then i stopped for 2 weeks cus i was on holiday and i came back today and a guy lent me his liquid chalk and i was able to do +60kg x 40s on my first set and +60kg x 15s on my second one.

I use this weird grip where i put all my fingers over the bar tho idk if thats cheating.

Im planning on staying consistent now tho. Is this good?

So like ive been going gym for like 1.6 years i'm 16 185cm tall and like 74kg. which ive honestly kinda stalled on gaining weight which sucks but ive gotten strongwr anyways so its fine.

I always used straps for lat pulldowns etc so i thought my grip strenght was ass, when i started training these i was doing like 1min15s bw deadhang.

I did these 2x a week with some breaks ig.

I started with 10kg x 40s my first session, then i tried 20kg next time and i also got 40s, so i did 22.5kg the time after and got 40s again.

I went to do 30kg x 35s like after 2 weeks of training, and after 3 weeks like 40kg x 30s. Then i stoppes for like a month and came back and did 40kg x 35s again, the session after i did 50kg x 30s, then 1 week later did 55kg x 24s.

Then i stopped for 2 weeks cus i was on holiday and i came back today and a guy lent me his liquid chalk and i was able to do +60kg x 40s on my first set and +60kg x 15s on my second one.

I use this weird grip where i put all my fingers over the bar tho idk if thats cheating.

Im planning on staying consistent now tho. Is this good?

the bar is a standard pullup bar not a thick one

i'm 16m.

My life has been a rollercoaster for the past 6 years. I went from having a happy life in an upper class family to moving countries, becoming poor and living with a single mother.

One of the biggest damages this has done is selling our vacation house for money. I went there every summer. Had so many friends. And i knew this girl. I stilm remember her face, blue eyes, freckles and dark hair.

We knew eachother since we were 3. We would play every summer. When we were around 10 we promised to marry eachother. It was so dumb.

We sold the house during winter and i never got to say goodbye. I dont know her last name and i cant look her up on socials. Even if i did, idk what i would say.

One day was the last day we saw eachother and we didn't even know it. One "see you next summer" was the last one we ever told eachother and i never even knew it.

I miss her. She's the only girl i've ever even loved. I keep dating more girls and going out with girls but deep in my heart i miss her. I don't struggle at all with girls and quite frankly i'm not shy with them either but even the thought of writing her a message makes me tremble.

This is all because of my fuckass father who couldnt keep his dick in his pants. I wish i could forget about her, but my memories with her are amongst the happiest ones in my life.

Sometimes i use her as motivation at the gym. Every girl i talk to i subconsciously compare to her. She probably forgot everything about me.

To think that one of those "see you next summer" was actually the last one and we didn't even know it. I was spending my last moments with her and i was oblivious.

i'm 16m.

My life has been a rollercoaster for the past 6 years. I went from having a happy life in an upper class family to moving countries, becoming poor and living with a single mother.

One of the biggest damages this has done is selling our vacation house for money. I went there every summer. Had so many friends. And i knew this girl. I stilm remember her face, blue eyes, freckles and dark hair.

We knew eachother since we were 3. We would play every summer. When we were around 10 we promised to marry eachother. It was so dumb.

We sold the house during winter and i never got to say goodbye. I dont know her last name and i cant look her up on socials. Even if i did, idk what i would say.

One day was the last day we saw eachother and we didn't even know it. One "see you next summer" was the last one we ever told eachother and i never even knew it.

I miss her. She's the only girl i've ever even loved. I keep dating more girls and going out with girls but deep in my heart i miss her. I don't struggle at all with girls and quite frankly i'm not shy with them either but even the thought of writing her a message makes me tremble.

This is all because of my fuckass father who couldnt keep his dick in his pants. I wish i could forget about her, but my memories with her are amongst the happiest ones in my life.

Sometimes i use her as motivation at the gym. Every girl i talk to i subconsciously compare to her. She probably forgot everything about me.

16m, i'm not like a person that hates how they look or their personality. I actually love myself. I like how i look, i like my physique, i like my intelligence and grades. I wouldn't want to be anyone but me.

However i HATE my environment. The people around me, my country, my city, my school. My school is small i dont meet anyone ever, its like comedically small, and my friends are shallow asf and i still do like them but i feel like if i were anywhere else BUT here (with exceptions ofc, i mean developped countries) my life would be so much better.

I cant wait for university because of this.

16m and this happened 1.5 weeks ago.

I was at this small houseparty where i didnt know anyone expect my male friend and female friend.

It wasnt it even a houseparty it was just 15 girls and 2 boys and we were there cus my friend was invited to watch my country's version of love island at her house.

I tried watching that shit for about 2 mins until i realised how boring it was so i decided i couldnt do this sober.

So i sit down and down like legit maybe 600ml of vodka in 10mins. (i'm a lightweight i'm 77kg x 184cm)

All of this on an empty stomach.

So like 30mins after this i was basically not in control anymore. Like i barely remember what happened but i talked about this night with a friend who helped me remember most events.

So i sat next to this girl (who i dont even like btw, like i wouldnt date her sober), and i tried talking to her.

At one point i asked her for a kiss (i after learned she has a boyfriend) and she said no, and i was so fucking drunk i was slurring my words and shit and i was like "pleaseee" so she offered a kiss on the cheek instead.

I dont know what possesed me to do this but i turned around and tried getting it on the lips instead. Of course this didnt work, that shit only works in movies.

So she was like "noo dont" and tries giving my a cheek kiss again, and i try turning around again (this went on another like 8 times i swear because she was drunk too).

I distinctively remember one moment, where i for some reason had blood on my leg. I was sitting down and to my left there's the girl i'm talking to, and to my right i have my bro in my ear giving my comms of things to say and another 2 girls disinfecting my leg and healing it because for some reason it had blood on it.

So anyway i think at some point i got bored of her for some reason maybe and i went to talk to other girls and i was so drunk i had the brain capacity of a 12 year old (i'm already an idiot when i'm sober) so i directly asked them "rate me /10" and i remember just one saying "you're cute".

But that essentially kinda means ur ugly and i dont want to rate you with a number so now thinking about it hurts my feelings, plus i got rejected in the same night so my confidence is kinda zero.

Plus now my friends tease me with names because of how i "harassed" (which i did and of course i apologized the day after) the first girl.

Also i vomited a lot that same night and now i have taste aversion to alcohol and i cant drink anymore

edit: First of all this wasn't my first time drinking i've been drinking on an off (like getting drunk once per month on avg) for a year now but i think this will force me to stop for a while.

Also what makes it worse is that at the end of my vacation i was saying goodbye to everyone and when i had to say goodbye to the initial girl she tried give me kiss on the cheek as goodbye (idk if they do that in america but in italy its standard) and i told her "I think you gave me enough of those already". I DONT KNOW WHAT POSSESED ME TO SAY THAT😭😭😭

My friend laughed his ass off but she didnt find it as funny i think

I can't wait for university, true indepence, then after that i cant wait to find my wife, have kids, be a father. I can't wait!

Now life is nice, i have fun with my boys, we do bullshit togheter, laugh at the back of class, but i'm sure we'll still be able to do that when i'll be older anyways.

I have my whole life ahead of me i am so happy. but i just cant wait.

I'll try to keep this one short.

When i was 10 my parents got divorced cus my dad was always cheating on my mom and got a whole ass other family.

We used to Live in Eastern Europe and my mom is from italy so we moved here.

My dad's side is wealthy but they always treated my mom like shit/made her feel worthless. Now my dad doesnt send me much money and i live in a shitty apartment and my mom has a minimum wage job.

We see eachother about once a year, and many times he hasn't been honest.

Like this once he took me to where he lived in south america and the agreement was that i wouldn't meet anyone from his new family.Then As soon as we landed at the airport his new wife was there waiting to pick us up.

Now 5 months ago he told me once to keep the first 2 weeks of august free.

He didn't mention it again til now. In the meanwhile my mom has been asking me where/when he would take me this year and he never gave her an actual answer.

He just called me today telling me i'd have to go for 2 weeks to eastern europe and stay with all of the family thats treated my mom like shit for years and that i havent contacted ever since i was 10.

So i refused, and he started guilt tripping me about how i didnt want to see him. I told him i did want to see him, but just not there. He told me "everyone takes their own decisions in life, its fine that you decided this" and "you say you want to see me but what i'm understanding is that you dont want to see your own father".

And after that call i just broke down crying. I don't know why. Last time i cried i was probably 10. I feel so bad. Its not fair. He brought all of this upon himself yet i feel so bad.

Should i really feel bad or is he just manipulating me?

I'm 16m and i was just thinking about how in life probably one of the best moments you can experience are those 30 ish seconds where you're holding back laughter with your friend when you're on your last warning with the teacher, just before getting kicked out.

Its even better if you keep laughing after you get kicked out.

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This happened a week ago, but it's a funny story.

So i'm from italy, and there aren't many guys my age that go to the gym, it's mostly people in their 20s or older.

I go to this gym that is built into a university, so it's basically all college students that go there.

I have friends that go to college there, i workout with them, and i also look older so like you probably wouldn't be able to tell i'm not one of them.

So anyways, i get into the gym and it's legday, and there's a ton of people. I go dap up my friends, and start warming up.

This girl who's often there as the same time as me i feel like she was looking at me from the smith machine but really i'm not sure.

So i start off with smith machine squats, and she was doing those too there.

So like i ask her if i can work in and shes like sure.

And i'm having a bit of small talk with her while loading and unloading the plates, and when i'm done with my sets, i was about to go to the leg extension machine.

And right as i was to leave she says something along the lines of "By the way, i think you're cute, want to exchange instagrams?"

And i was kinda shocked in the moment, and my friend who was nearby was looking at me like a proud father.

But i instinctively replied "Sure but i'm 16".

Her facial expression was undescribable, she said something like "Oh my god i am so sorry" and immediately went to the changing rooms.

At the same time my friend's expression went from a proud father, to the one of a father realizing his kids a loser.

He told me something like "Dude you sold so hard".

And by the way my gym is built, you can see the people walking out, and like 5mins later i saw her get out.

Honestly i probably did the right thing cus idek how that could've otherwise fr.

I still haven't seen her since tho