u/Soggy_Video2064

I'm asking this because back in high school there was this girl that I really liked but I never got a chance to talk to her I know what she looks like and I've tried to find her like on Facebook but nothing

So there was this person that I was talking to but I accidentally unaded them and can't remember their name anything that I could do? I would really appreciate the help

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it my fault for not going sexual right off the bat?

So me m19 had come to the realization that I am attracted to older girls 21 plus because they don't tend to play games anyway I met this one girl off of discord and we immediately hit it off I was always told and have tried the way of a calm introduction when talking to a girl like a hey how are you rather than a heeey beautiful want to meet up tonight and get dirty?

It was working for her I have a tendency to rush things I don't mean to but I felt a connection I told her I loved her and she loved me back she is 28 by the way everything was going good until I asked where does she see herself in 5 years and then she asked me and I said hopefully with you but she was having second thoughts she said that I wasn't rushing it it was just the age Gap

But then on VC the next day we were still good friends but believe it or not a guy came on the VC m19 and immediately started asking her to hang out come to find out they live 20 minutes away and once he showed her a picture of himself she was like oh he's 19 but I could make an exception but later he stopped talking to her and she was sad I found it weird that a 28 year old was sad about a 19 year old not talking to her

We were having a good friendship buildup I was supporting her she said I was the only one that cared about her but when we were on VC it was hard sometimes for me to say anything without asking too many questions last night I added a guy that she knew and she was saying oh you know him that's so cool he's sweet and kind and today come to find out

When I was asking about him to her like what she liked about him she was saying because he likes that 18 plus stuff like the 18 plus stuff right off the bat. She was saying that she missed him and she got sad that I wasn't responding !< eventually I said I think we should b vc about this and she said oh I see and she hasn't responded since is it my fault for not immediately going for the sexual charged message to begin with?

There's been a few things going on and some questions that I want to get answered but the thing is either the the post I do get taken down or people don't look at it and it's too long and complain about my grammar

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So me m19 who is autistic had come to the realization that I am attracted to older girls 21 plus because they don't tend to play games anyway I met this one girl off of discord and we immediately hit it off I was always told and have tried the way of a calm introduction when talking to a girl like a hey how are you rather than a heeey beautiful want to meet up tonight and get dirty?

It was working for her I have a tendency to rush things I don't mean to but I felt a connection I told her I loved her and she loved me back she is 28 by the way everything was going good until I asked where does she see herself in 5 years and then she asked me and I said hopefully with you but she was having second thoughts she said that I wasn't rushing it it was just the age Gap

But then on VC the next day we were still good friends but believe it or not a guy came on the VC m19 and immediately started asking her to hang out come to find out they live 20 minutes away and once he showed her a picture of himself she was like oh he's 19 but I could make an exception but later he stopped talking to her and she was sad I found it weird that a 28 year old was sad about a 19 year old not talking to her

We were having a good friendship buildup I was supporting her she said I was the only one that cared about her but when we were on VC it was hard sometimes for me to say anything without asking too many questions last night I added a guy that she knew and she was saying oh you know him that's so cool he's sweet and kind and today come to find out

When I was asking about him to her like what she liked about him she was saying because he likes that 18 plus stuff >! like the kinky stuff right off the bat. She was saying that she missed him and she got sad that I wasn't responding !< eventually I said I think we should b vc about this and she said oh I see and she hasn't responded since is it my fault for not immediately going for the sexual charged message to begin with?

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So I'm high functioning autistic and I met this girl on discord she said she was single looking for friends I was talking to her everything was good and then we moved to Snapchat I like older girls I always have I'm 19 and she's 28 she doesn't drive she never had a job and she's never been in a relationship we both still live with our parents I was talking to her I said I applied for a few jobs I don't drive yet I was trying my best not to rush anything but then when I told her yes you can get mad at me for asking to date the same day I met her she didn't know what to say when I said we shouldn't date right now and take it slow she seemed sad but then when I said okay we can date now but take it slow she seemed confused but eventually we decided to start dating everything was going good she wanted to hear my voice so we called she wasn't home because she had to watch her nieces and nephews so it was dark and I couldn't make out what she was saying sometimes but she turned the camera on she put filters on her sister's cat which was cool but then I said where do you see yourself in 5 years and she said what about you and I said hopefully with you and then she said what if it's not with me long story short she was having second thoughts and now we're friends I asked if I was rushing it and she said it was because she was rushing it but now she said it's about the age Gap I don't know I could use some support