How to deal with feeling like you have to pick one or the other and you won't be left alone in your own brain until you do?
I just feel like if I try one I'll give up the other.
If I go female then I lose suits and privilege but if I go male then I lose the cute dresses and being chilled.
And I know I'm going into stereotypes but my brain is just yelling at me to pick one and it's hard to get it to stop.
And non-binary is a thing but I don't feel satisfied with it either.
I don't know... You got any advice?